khaaaaa!!!!!!!! mbona kama ni interview ya kutafuta ajira hii.
majibu yake tunayafanyeje sasa?
Haya mnaotafuta ndoa mkuje na macounter book mdese huku
Kwa mademu wa kiswahili ninaowajua,utapigwa kamba mpaka uchanganyikiwe,kitu cha msingi km ingekuwani mm,nisingeuliza hayo maswali direct kiasi hicho ila ninge-observe kwa kufanya kitu inaitwa "Participant observation" ambapo ningemuuliza hayo maswali indirect na very informally na angejibu unconscious kuwa nataka kujua hicho alichojibu. Kwa wenzetu wa huko mbele unaweza kuuliza namna hiyo na kupata honest answeres,co hao wa kwetu kakaSo, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse. These are just suggestions, and by no means should all of them be asked on a first date. If a question doesnt feel right to you, then dont ask it. Or, just replace it with one that is not on the list. The point is to get singles who desire to be married to think carefully about whats important to them and then to have open communication about these issues before marriage. There are plenty of married and divorced people who wish they had asked the tough questions before saying I do.
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1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?
2. Do you have any children? If so, how integral are they in your life?
3. What are your short term and long term goals?
4. What does financial stability mean to you?
5. What is your relationship like with your parents?
6. How often do you go to church, pray, read your Bible?
7. What gives you joy in life?
8. Do you have a criminal history or record?
9. Do you date men or women exclusively?
10. How many s*xual partners have you had?
11. What do you do when you get angry?
12. Do you have a job? How long have you been working/unemployed?
13. What was your last relationship like? How long ago was it?
14. What are you looking for in a mate?
15. Do you have crazy men or women calling, texting, or stalking you? Should I be afraid?
16. Are there many strong marriages in your family history?
17. Whats the one thing you dont like about yourself?
18. Do you have any deal breakers for relationships?
19. What do you believe are the roles for men and women in relationships?
20. Do you desire to marry?
khaaaaa!!!!!!!! mbona kama ni interview ya kutafuta ajira hii.
Binadam hujitambua anapokumbwa na tatizo (A. de Saint Exupéry).
Majibu yangu yanaweza kua 'perfect' ila utendaji ukawa different. Muhimu ni kujuana values na principples, and how commited we are to them. In that way it is easy to predict how one behaves or would behave in such and such circumstance
si nakudanganya tuu,nasoma saikolojia yako nakupa majibu unayoyapenda,full stop
Nafikiri ilitakiwa iwe '20 things to know from potential spouse'. Kwa ujumla maswali kama haya huwezi kuuliza 'direct' lakini ukijipa muda utafahamu tu. Ingawa kwa kawaida tunaweza kubeza hivi vitu lakini mara nyingi hutusumbua sana katika mahusiano.Hivyo ni vizuri kuingia katika mahusiano/ndoa ukiwa unajua 'risk involved'.So, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse.
1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?
Binadam hujitambua anapokumbwa na tatizo (A. de Saint Exupéry).
Majibu yangu yanaweza kua 'perfect' ila utendaji ukawa different. Muhimu ni kujuana values na principples, and how commited we are to them. In that way it is easy to predict how one behaves or would behave in such and such circumstance
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Hapana Mwali,
Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.
Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.
FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
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Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!
hapo ni ukweli haswaa..
ukikosa subira unaengeneza questionaire kabisa unamgawia ajaze lolz
Unapoelekea parokiani kusali pitia hapa kwangu nikupe nakala yako...utanirudishia ndani ya siku mbili iikiwa imejazwa yote!
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Hapana Mwali,
Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.
Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.
FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
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Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!