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How many have you hurt in your past relationship?
Ngoja nikupe swali mbili tatu ambazo hazipo hapo ila mi naziona muhimu:View attachment 122643
Hapana Mwali,
Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.
Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.
FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
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Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!
cousin nakumiss sana.
View attachment 122643
Hapana Mwali,
Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.
Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.
FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
View attachment 122644
Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!
Ngoja nikupe swali mbili tatu ambazo hazipo hapo ila mi naziona muhimu:
- How important is sex to you?
- How long can you "starve" (maana mi nasafiri sana)
- What do you do for the community you live in?
- What are your political views? etc
The questions alizo weka hapo ni muhimu but sio complete. Na one can never complete the list sababu hata mimi mwenyewe sometimes najiuliza hayo maswali na majibu yangu yanaweza kubadilika.
Mimi napendekeza tuulizane NGUZO (mimi nazitafsiri kama Values), na MISINGI (natafsiri kama ethics). maana haya sio rahisi kubadilika. Nikijua nguzo gani na misingi gani zinajenga matendo yako, na maisha yako, nitapata majibu ya maswali mengi sana hata kabla sijayauliza.
So, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse. These are just suggestions, and by no means should all of them be asked on a first date. If a question doesnt feel right to you, then dont ask it. Or, just replace it with one that is not on the list. The point is to get singles who desire to be married to think carefully about whats important to them and then to have open communication about these issues before marriage. There are plenty of married and divorced people who wish they had asked the tough questions before saying I do.
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1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?
2. Do you have any children? If so, how integral are they in your life?
3. What are your short term and long term goals?
4. What does financial stability mean to you?
5. What is your relationship like with your parents?
6. How often do you go to church, pray, read your Bible?
7. What gives you joy in life?
8. Do you have a criminal history or record?
9. Do you date men or women exclusively?
10. How many s*xual partners have you had?
11. What do you do when you get angry?
12. Do you have a job? How long have you been working/unemployed?
13. What was your last relationship like? How long ago was it?
14. What are you looking for in a mate?
15. Do you have crazy men or women calling, texting, or stalking you? Should I be afraid?
16. Are there many strong marriages in your family history?
17. Whats the one thing you dont like about yourself?
18. Do you have any deal breakers for relationships?
19. What do you believe are the roles for men and women in relationships?
20. Do you desire to marry?
How many have you hurt in your past relationship?
kuna umuhimu wa kutembea na logsheet kwa kweli! cheers!
si nakudanganya tuu,nasoma saikolojia yako nakupa majibu unayoyapenda,full stop
simple like that!!!
yaan iz ni theory tuu ziko tuu.
yaan kama unatafuta ajira ya mshahara mnono yeuwiiii hell no!
Dont take them that directly! Observe and get the answers. Ukiuliza lazima utadanganywa.
Huwa sipendi kuulizwa swali la 10