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BOB LUSE

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Nakubaliana na wanaume wenzangu waliofikia hitimisho kuwa ni rahisi kupata mali ukaimiliki na kufurahia maisha kuliko kupata mwanamke ukafurahia maisha.

Japo mpango wa Mungu ni wanaume waoe na waishi na wanawake kwa akili lakini hawa viumbe ni tanzi! unaweza ukafikiria uoe kijijini,ukimleta mjini anakuona wewe uliyemuoa ni fala! unaweza ukaoa mjini ukaonekana unamapungufu kulinganishwa na wenzio! ukionyesha upendo mkubwa na kujari unaonekana umedhibitiwa! ukijitutumua kuwa kauzu unaonekana gaidi!.

Una mpromote mwanamke kutoka maisha ya chini akiwa anasoma/hana kazi ya maana, akikamata channel anasahau hata alikotoka! ukimtendea wema leo mwezi ujao/kesho usipofanya wema kama huo unaonekana hujari/ huna faidi, mazuri yanafutwa!
Sijawahi kusikia mwanaume asiyekili changamoto za hawa mama zetu/Dada zetu.Naamini kuna wakati huwa hawajui wanachokitaka toka kwetu sisi wanaume!
 
mhhh hivi ni kwa ke tu au pia kwa me.

vyote ulivyosema hapo juu nakubaliana navyo ila kubali viko pande zote mbili.

Hivi hamuwezi kukaa siku hata moja bila kulalamika kuhusu ke? usifikiri sisi hatuwezi kusema ila wakati mwingine tunaona viko pande zote mbili so inabidi tujiongeze tu.

Please baadhi ya wanaume mnatakiwa mjiongeze na mjue hizi facts ziko pande zote na la msingi ni kupambana. kukimbia tatizo sio suluhisho bali kupambana na tatizo na kutafuta suluhisho.

Mtoa mada TAFAKARI THEN CHUKUA HATUA.
 


Ukitaka ufurahie maisha na wanawake basi usioe,mwanamke mzuri ni yule ambaye hujamuoa na wakati mzuri ni ule ambao hujaoa.leo umemtamani huyu,kesho unatoka na yule etc hapo ndo tutaona raha ya mwanamke manake kila mwanamke ana utamu wake.ukishaoa tu baba,utamu kwishney
 
mmmhh! hapa kila mtu atatetea upande wake ila hata kama yako pande zote wanawake mmezidisha
 
 
unaoa mwanamke anaanza kukupangia maisha na boom ni lako!
 
Mwanaume huwezi lelewa kama tunavyowalea wanawake.ukisema haya mambo yapo kila upande sikuelewi!
Mwanaume unafanyakazi ili ukidhi mahitaji ya familia yako.huku appreciation hakuna upande wa pili ndo unaonekana hujafanya kitu! kama wanawake wapo waache wajitetei kuliko mwanaume kusupport wanachokifanya!
 
''Ishini na wake zenu kwa AKILI''.
Tulishapewa tahadhari mapema... ukiona unaishia kulalamika, jua umeshindwa kufuata 'Manual' ya mwanzilishi wa Ndoa.

Ukiwa open book kwa mwanamke(mr Nice), life becomes less interesting and more predictable. We should not pretend to be who we are not.
 
The worst and most horrible animal is ONLY YOUR MOTHER, wengine hawakuhusu kwa sababu unaweza kutokushirikiana nao kwa lolote. Mwambie huyo aliyekubeba tumboni kisha akakuita mtu asijue kama kazaa mnyama!.


 
Wengi wanaoonyesha kuwa maisha ya ndoa au mahusiano ni swala rahisi mradi utumie akili na uwe open your are not disclosing your dark.story story with these creatures!.hata wale wanaoruhusiwa kuoa wanne wanatariki au kuchepuka! wa mmoja ndo wanagumia na maumivu!
 
wanawake sio wabaya hivyo tatizo ni tabia ya asili ya ubinafsi ya wanaume kutaka mwanamke akufanyie mambo yooote yanayokufurahisasha yanayotumia nguvu, akili rohi, tena ayatambue bila hata wewe kumwambia, ajue uko kwenye mood gani wakati hakuwa na wewe, ajue unataka kula nini cjui awe mzuri urefu, unene, rangi, kila kitu unachotaka wewe unasahau ni mwanadamu na yeye
 

Mtoa mada: Utafiti unasema "men are from Mars and ladies from Venus" kaa chini na tafakari.....! ina maana ili muishi watu wawili kutoka dunia tofauti lazima kila mmoja akubali mapungufu ya mwenzake na mjenge yale mazuri pamoja muende mbele. Sasa wewe ukijaribu kukimbilia kumbadili mwenzio awe kama wewe unavyotaka sasa hilo ni kujaribu kumfanya awe kama mnyama ambaye unaweza kumtame (kumfundisha utakanyo akatii bila kuhoji) kitu ambacho huwezi kumfanyia binadamu mwenzako kamwe kwa maana ana akili kama zako na ujanja kama wako na kila kitu mwilini kama chako, unapomfanyia jambo fulani basi tafakari jje ukiwa wewe utakubali?!. Kwa wanaume wengi wanawachukulia wanawake zao kama ni property (mali) isiyoukuwa na haki wala usemi wala akili ya kuchanganua hapo ndipo mnapoanzisha fikra mbaya ndani ya mioyo ya hao viumbe wenye akili za ajabu, nguvu za ajabu, uvumilivu wa ajabu, upole wa ajabu na ukali wa ajabu n.k. napita tu....
 
Tatizo kubwa ni kuwa watu wengi wanachulia NDOA kama package/Box lililojaa kila jema... huku wakisahau wao ndio wana wajibu wa kujaza hilo ''empty'' box yale mazuri wanayoyataka wao. Upendo, ustahimilivu, intimacy, urafiki n.k

Ndoa/mahusiano ni Boksi Tupu, Lazima uweke kitu kwenye hilo Box ili uweze kuchukua kitu. Upendo haupo kwenye ndoa, upo kwa mtu/watu na watu lazima waweke upendo kwenye ndoa, Hakuna romance kwenye ndoa, watu lazima ndio wana uwezo huo wa kuitengeneza, Na mengineyo mengi kama kujaliana, tabia ya kutoa, kuheshimiana, kuchukuliana, kuthaminiana n.k... yote hayo watu ndio wanayaweka kwenye ndoa. So we have much to do to our marriages that what we should expect out of it...... kwani ukona mkeo hakuappreciate unakatazwa kumfunda umuhimu wa kumuappreciate mwenzake... tena its simple.. appreciate her first and atakurudishia even more,,, ikishindikana devise other strategy hadi ifanye kazi.

Utasikia watu wakisema huyu ni husband/wife material... so inamanisha bado kuna kazi ya kufanya ili mtu awe finished product from the materials.... how do someone expect material to be finished products by its raw state? We have a lot to do to redifine our engagements and our relationships, I tell you.

 
Tatizo lenu wanawake mkifikishwa Canaan toka utumwani Misri mnamsahau ata aliyekuleta!.anaishia kupangiwa maisha! mnaficha sana makucha mwanzoni mwa mahusiano! ukiwa na uhakika na ukipata na application zingine inakuwa ni sheeda
 
A PERFECT Mariage requires a PERFECT Husband and a PERFECT Wife
And I will tell you what i think
A perfect Husband is the one who does not expect his wife to be perfect, likewise a Perfect wife is the one who does not expect her husband to be perfect.

Our expectations kills our minds, feelings, love and more seriously affects out thinking about Ndoa... TAFADHALI Stop expecting much then and You have all your peace.

We are never finished products... we need to reinvest our focus on making each other better tirelessly... but as much we have this misconception that marriage is full of joy other than the joy and harmony we are ought to build ourselves?.. we'll never get satisfied.... SO we should make our minds right. Its our responsibility..... Ndoa ni muunganiko wa watu wawili only, hivyo vingine tunavijenga sisi kwa juhudi za makusudi.
cc Heaven Sent

 
Darasa lako zuri.lina add value kwenye mada.
 
Tabby said:
The worst and most horrible animal is ONLY YOUR MOTHER, wengine hawakuhusu kwa sababu unaweza kutokushirikiana nao kwa lolote. Mwambie huyo aliyekubeba tumboni kisha akakuita mtu asijue kama kazaa mnyama!.
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Tabby Mmh
 
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