Why women love bad boys

[thehunk]

Bad Boys. Love them or hate them, the fact remains that women just can’t get enough of them. I’ve had friends who were clearly dating guys that were so poisonous to their lives. Trying to get them to see how unhealthy the dude was for them was like convincing a certain friend (no names) that flats are so last season


Dating a bad boy is quite exhilarating. Women usually get into the trap because they(badboy) know exactly what to say, how to say it, how to look at you, exactly where to touch a woman etc. It’s like a well rehearsed play for them. They are experts at the game of seduction. For the expert bad boys, just a look is enough to have a woman’s brain turn to mush. Confidence is everything. Women love men who take charge and know what they want. Nice guys generally tend to be shyer than their counterparts, or slow to go for what they want. Basically they think too much.

This type of man is quite a rush to be around. There’s never a dull moment. He’s always on the move with what may seem brilliant ideas of things to do. While the regular nice guy may suggest dinner in town at 8.00pm two weeks away and actually show up on time, the bad boy is more likely to suggest a random trip to Naivasha, right after clubbing all night; no need to even stop by the house for some toiletries. Let me explain what you should deduce from these two scenarios. The nice guy suggests dinner because he wants to get to know you as a person. The bad boy is just out for some fun, if you happen to be there, cool. If not, life will go on…


Women are also attracted to bad boys for the drama. Yeah I said it. Women love to have quite a story for the girls at the weekly committee meeting, Whether he stood you up, didn’t call when he said he would, had the nerve to walk out on you or made you pay the bill when he’s the one who asked you out, we all love drama. A nice guy is stable and predictable. And what’s the fun in that, right?


There’s also what I like to call the Mama Nani Syndrome. Women love challenges. They think no matter how bad a guy is, they have this supernatural nurturing power to change him. Seriously, if he was brought up by his mother and that’s how he turned out, there’s nothing you will ever do to make him a better person, or turn him into the man you want him to be. He can only be the man he was when you met him. Don’t have false hopes. If you met him drinking like a fish, be prepared to live with mafans wa Tusker, serengeti nyagi, If you stole him from your pal, resign to the fact that he’s weak and will probably be stolen from you.


nimeicopy sehem na kuMAKE some changes kidogo ili ifiti kwa wana MMU....HOPE YOU LEARN SOME THING FROM THIS

 

[Broken soul]

Kind of true


Bad boys bad boys !

 

[King’asti]

lol. Bora uwe na a bad boy who knows how to show love and makes you excited and feeling sexy. Kuliko uwe na good boy ambae yuko tu hapo kama sehemu ya fenicha zako. Kwi kwi kwi. And as long as he keeps being that 'bad and naughty boy' and he knows what he wants, hahitaji kubadilika.

 

[Safety last]

they are not kissing women ass

 

[Mashaxizo]

Kidhungu hicho utawakimbiza wengi!
...
Afu umesahau ku-add:
'Bad boys are good boys mkiwa kwa bed'!!!

 

[Howt Lady]

they are not kissing women ass

I love this comment

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Heeeee wewe!!!!!!!
Hii mambo ya kuanikana juu ya nini? ??!!!!!

Mmmmmh kumbe ndio ilikuwa hivi???!!!!!
Sasa nimejua zaidi,santeeee!!!!!!

The Boss, Kaizer, Tcleverly...biography zipo nje huku

 

[Kongosho]

Good boys for life!

 

[MadameX]

Mmh for fun yes...they keep the love life interesting however as husband material, not my cup of tea. I do not want headaches over and over again. Tena mwanaume wa longolongo nyingi ananikimbiza kabisa.

I like being the bad to the nice guy....lol

 

[MtamaMchungu]

Akili za kuambiwa changanya na za kwako....

Katika arguments za ajabu hii ni mojawapo! Kwenye confidence wapo sahihi, a man has to be confident, whether you're good or bad, confidence ni lazima. Ila haya mengine yanategemea. Not every woman will appreciate you taking her out and then asking her to pay for the meal. Mwanamke mwingine atakuona kama jerk flani, hata kama asipokwambia.

My point is, not every woman loves drama and rudeness. Know what gets her kicking, then go for it. Usikalili maelezo then ukapoteza what you want bila sababu.

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

lol. Bora uwe na a bad boy who knows how to show love and makes you excited and feeling sexy. Kuliko uwe na good boy ambae yuko tu hapo kama sehemu ya fenicha zako. Kwi kwi kwi. And as long as he keeps being that 'bad and naughty boy' and he knows what he wants, hahitaji kubadilika.

Ha ha ha hapo ndio huwa nakukubali....umesema exactly na kunikumbusha what my mom told majirani zake "hayo mnayoyasema kuhusu huyu mimi siyakatai ila mwenendo wake na ripoti zake za shule zinafanya nimuamini" halafu baada ya kuondoka wamama akaniambia "kama haya yanayosemwa ni kweli mimi kama mama yako sipendi hii mambo"...and I was like wanansingizia tu mama mimi siko hivyo kabisa!!!!!!!

Daaaanh kumbe kweli mchangishaji wa pesa za picnic,madisko ya shule,na makandokando yanayoambatana na hayo!!!!!!!!!

Kiboko ya mbwembwe ni pale washikaji wanapoona unaspidi na kukupakazia una ngoma,hapo ndio jasho linapokuvuja na kujisafisha,unawaambiaje watu kuwa wewe huna na wakati huo kipimo hakiuzwi dukani,unawaambiaje kuwa hukutembea na marehemu wakati washikaji wako ndio wanauza hiyo cd????!!!!! Nyani mkongwe kakwepa mishale mingi ati!!!!!!

Once a bad boy always a bad boy???!!!!!!
Umri,watoto,majukumu na mke wanabadilisha jamani...no longer!!!!!!!

 

[Madame B]

Napita....
Wangu ni Good boy.

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Akili za kuambiwa changanya na za kwako....

Katika arguments za ajabu hii ni mojawapo! Kwenye confidence wapo sahihi, a man has to be confident, whether you're good or bad, confidence ni lazima. Ila haya mengine yanategemea. Not every woman will appreciate you taking her out and then asking her to pay for the meal. Mwanamke mwingine atakuona kama jerk flani, hata kama asipokwambia.

My point is, not every woman loves drama and rudeness. Know what gets her kicking, then go for it. Usikalili maelezo then ukapoteza what you want bila sababu.

Mmmmh fikiria vizuri mkuu,Mr Nice wengi wanaugulia asee!!!!
Hao Mr Nice confy huwa hawazisimamii akihisi itamuudhi mpenzi wake,hataki kuonekana harsh na hajali!!!!!!
Asking her to pay for the meal sio kama mtoto anaomba hela ya daftari kwa mama yake,hapo kuna know how na wala sio appreciation inayotafutwa hapo bali ni just kuwa yeye bad boy haoni kuwa yeye kulipiwa ni issue sababu yeye anakuwa kashalipa nyingi za hivyo na yaweza kuwa hapo kweli hana ila na dada pia anajua kuwa huyu jamaa sio wa kushindwa kulipa hii sababu anajua uwezo upo na yeye hawezi kukubali kuonekana hajiwezi,atashindwaje kulipa say 30 thou wakati jtano tu kapewa zawadi perfume ya designer???!!!!!Ipo jinsi ya kuishi hii maisha sio one way mkuu....hizi drama zinapendwa inategemea na author!!!!!
Rudeness ndio mpango mzima sasa bora hupigi,hunyanyasi na hutukani hovyo,unawaheshimu wanaomuhusu,huna vinyongo,unajali wasio na uwezo aaaaaaanh hapo I tell you kuwa rude zaid
ya definition ya rude kwake hata ukope hautingishiki!!!!!!!!!!!

Being a bad boy was one of the xperience,no stress!!!!!!!

 

[EDGAR MAGAMBO]

I hate love story:

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Madame B, Madame X na Kongosho!!!!!

Check the profiles waweza kuwa retired Bad Boys hao,wengi wakimaliza scenarios they put tools down and become family men!!!!!

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

I hate love story:

And yet you you practice the love life!!!!!!

 

[LebronWade]

Wewe umejiridhisha vipi eti ulikua bad boy kwa vigezo vipi mujarabu kwa hao "wasichana" wako?as per maelezo yako ulikua mzinzi sana ulipokua dogo,ndio ina maana ulikua badboy?really?

 

[Watu8]

Good boys for life!

Heheh...#TeamZombie

 

[LebronWade]

Sio vitu vya kujisifu hata kidogo,unaweza kua badboy kwa girl A and ukawa just a regular joe to girl B,issue ni subjective..sioni uhalali wa mtu kujipa cheo cha "badboy" based on umalaya,sio kweli.

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Sio vitu vya kujisifu hata kidogo,unaweza kua badboy kwa girl A and ukawa just a regular joe to girl B,issue ni subjective..sioni uhalali wa mtu kujipa cheo cha "badboy" based on umalaya,sio kweli.

Sio suala la kuchojoa nguo za ndani tu hapo mkuu,inahusisha life pattern ya mtu na hiyo segment ya mapenzi imeelezewa tu!!!!!!!

Hapo kuna kutengeneza pesa (tafakari),utundu wa magari,mavazi,local weight lifting,kuwa na marafiki wa aina fulani,sometimes inapelekea hadi ugomvi wa kimakundi au mitaa;ni package haswa mpaka aitwe bad boy sasa hizi mchanganyiko ndio zinampa mtu label hiyo

Kwani mtoa mada hajui maneno kama;lover boy, malaya, player, tester, kiwembe na mengine kama hayo???!!!!!Kwa nini yeye kachagua hili la BAD BOY!!!!!!

UKIWEKEZA EMOTION NA IMANI UTAUMIA MKUU NI PAST HII NA INATEGEMEA WAKUU KATIKA FAMILIA YA MTU ALIPOLELEWA SOMETIMES HUCHAGUI KUWA HIVYO ILA WAJOMBA,MAKAKA,MARAFIKI ZAO NA WANAOKUZUNGUKA WANAKUWA HIVYO SO UNAJIKUTA UMO!!!!!!

HAH A HA HA HA YOU SOUND LIKE A GUD BWOY!!!!!!