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Why Man fall asleep after sex?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by MsemajiUkweli, Jul 22, 2012.

  1. MsemajiUkweli

    MsemajiUkweli JF-Expert Member

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    Ukweli husemwa:

    Sorry darling, I just can't help it:
    ​How scientists have found out the real reason why many men fall asleep after sex

    It's a problem that leaves many woman frustrated, but scientists might have finally given men an excuse for sleeping straight after sex
    It is no secret that many men nod off straight after sex.
    And for their female partners, the loud buzz of snoring after a passionate encounter is practically guaranteed to sour the mood.
    But now scientists might well have given men the perfect excuse for feeling drowsy: they just can't help themselves.

    Experts conducted research which involved scanning the brains of men during and after orgasm.
    In the case of the latter, they found that the cerebral cortex - which plays a vital role in attention, consciousness and perceptual awareness - shut down almost immediately after orgasm.Serge Stoleru, a French government scientist, said that the research offers the 'first hints' of what happens in the brain during sex.He told the Sunday Times: 'For women, it seems to be different.
    'They don't seem to have such a strong refractory period and may be asking for more when their partners just want a rest.'
    The study also showed that the brain switched off almost all sexual desire after orgasm.And as well as this, men have a further reason for feeling drowsy: their brains become flooded with sleep-inducing chemicals such as serotonin after they have had sex.
    Earlier studies have also suggested that men aren't to blame for wanting to take a well-earned break after sex.In 2005, research found the blood rush after climax depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen.
    And because men typically have higher muscle density than women, they become more tired after sex.Dr Neil Stanley, director of sleep at the University of Surrey, said that men were not completely at fault.
    'As frustrating as it is for most women that their male partners just roll over and fall asleep after sex, men aren't entirely to blame,' he said.
    Dr Neil Stanley said although it is frustrating for women when their male partners doze off, science could provide the answer

    'Humans are the only animals in which sleep and sex are linked and while often seen as just a poor excuse, there are scientific reasons why men feel tired after sex.'
    The survey showed the majority of men did feel more relaxed straight after sex.
    Eighty per cent of men said they felt able to drift off without any problems after making love, compared with just 46 percent of women.
    They were amongst 10,000 adults surveyed by organisers of The Vitality Show, Europe's largest health and beauty exhibition.
    The survey also found 48 per cent of men had actually fallen asleep during the act itself.
    And whilst scientists might have rescued men from a telling off for sleeping straight after orgasm, it seems perhaps understandable that the latest research won't do the same for those who doze before reaching climax.

    As reported on Mail on sunday:

  2. Abdulhalim

    Abdulhalim JF-Expert Member

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    ladies, there u have it!
    makofi tasavali kwa wanasayansi wetu!
  3. Captain Phillip

    Captain Phillip JF-Expert Member

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    From experience hapa nauona ukweli wote
  4. Rapunzel

    Rapunzel JF-Expert Member

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    There are many women out there -- including many right here at iVillage -- who'd give their right arm for an answer to this one. So, here goes. One or more of the following reasons usually account for why a man falls into a post-coital stupor:

    1. They are tired to begin with, and sex helps them relax and let go -- figuratively and literally.
    2. The hormones men and women produce at orgasm can lead to the desire to lay back in the afterglow, and that sense of physical peace often leads to sleep.
    3. The ejaculatory release for men, and the inherent letting down of bodily tension, makes men physically tired.
    4. Most people (again, men and women) hold their breath during sex, breathe shallowly or don't focus on breathing. I'll bet the ranch that he's not breathing deeply. That gives him oxygen deprivation, which causes sleepiness. And, it could (rare, though) persist into the next day.
    Here's my hunch about your man. He's probably fatigued before sex and all of those sensations -- including orgasm -- just propel him into the state for which his body is yearning: rest.

    In rare cases, men who are exhausted by sex may have a medical condition. If you suspect something more serious, make sure your guy sees his doctor for a complete physical.

    If you're looking for a quick solution, how about a cup of java before bed? It might not be the long-term answer, but coffee is a good stimulant for sex because it keeps the mind and body alert and heightens sensations. In the fight against the sleepy bug, caffeine may be your number one ally. Try serving up a cup in your lacy teddy!
  5. Rapunzel

    Rapunzel JF-Expert Member

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    Well, kwa kuongeza kidogo tuu
    In having sex, every single muscle fibre in the entire body is brought into play firing at the absolute Maximum to produce the most intense physical pleasure and greatest physical and psychological experience possible, especially during climax itself. Every fibre is brought into play to that end. The whole body shakes at utmost intensity, and most men feel the responsibility for the absolute maximum physical and psychological pleasure of both parties. In most engagements, he is the one doing most of the work.

    Next, the whole situation has to be put into context: Mostly, he is working during the day and then for him, the sex is the dessert of the day's activities, and brings the day to complete satisfaction. Mentally, having done his work and had 'recreation' for the day, he is now programmed for some well-deserved.
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    Mie nikishafanya ndo silali kabisaaaaa, i wonder
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    Tata JF-Expert Member

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    Ni kweli kuwa wanaume tunapata usingizi mwororo baada ya kutoa huduma kwa watani wa jadi. Ila ni ukweli pia usiopingika kuwa watani wajadi wakikunwa vilivyo nao wanapata usingizi baada ya ile shughuli pevu. Hao wasiolala wanakuwa hawajashughulikiwa ipasvyo ndio maana wanataka wanaume zao waendelee kuwa macho ili ikiwezekana wapate huduma stahiki.
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    aminiusiamini JF-Expert Member

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    Acheni politics. Mimi mpenzi wangu nampa for 30 to 35 mins. Yeye anukuja muda mwingine she squirt, hataki Tuendele. Kwahiyo baada ya hapo, mimi niko na bao moja yeye nimempa mawili.
    Mapenzi na kuridhishana hakuna formula. And of course siku nyingine naweza niko kwenye mood or sipo vice versa.
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    mtotowamjini JF-Expert Member

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    Caritha Senior Member

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    Mh ukweli me huwa nakacrika akimalza 2 analala, sasa ctamlaumu tena mana huwa anashughulika c utani
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