Mujumba
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- Jan 20, 2011
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Cell phones offer brilliant advantages, but they also present users with problems. Chief among them: Making the user overly accessible. Many love affairs have been killed by wireless technology. In the beginning of a relationship, it is tempting to talk to a new love as often as possible. Since most of us carry cell phones, it is possible to make a call whenever the urge strikes. And there lies the danger.
1. If you are on the phone with a new love more than once or twice a day, you are destroying it. The object of your interest never has to wonder how you are doing, where you are, or what you are thinking, because you are constantly letting him or her know. Before long, your relationship will become as enticing as an old movie. You will get bored. Your once loved one will get extremely bored. You will both start looking for excitement elsewhere.
2. The man who calls his Lady when he arrives at the office, at lunch, and after he boards the vehicle back home may think he is nurturing the relationship, but he is killing it. He has not given his lady a chance to miss him. If he wants to call once a day, perhaps on his way home, that is fine. If he says something like, "It has been a long day. I can not wait to see you," his woman will be thrilled to hear from him.
But he should keep the call short and wait until dinner to share the news of how his day was. "Storing up" information provokes excitement and mystery. Leaking it via a series of annoying phone calls results in a different reaction. After the phone rings for the fourth time, his woman is likely to moan, "What the hell does he want now?"
Remember, romance and great sex depends on both partners being available to each other but never too available. Turn off the cell phone and turn up the passion.
NICE DAY MMU MEMBERS!
1. If you are on the phone with a new love more than once or twice a day, you are destroying it. The object of your interest never has to wonder how you are doing, where you are, or what you are thinking, because you are constantly letting him or her know. Before long, your relationship will become as enticing as an old movie. You will get bored. Your once loved one will get extremely bored. You will both start looking for excitement elsewhere.
2. The man who calls his Lady when he arrives at the office, at lunch, and after he boards the vehicle back home may think he is nurturing the relationship, but he is killing it. He has not given his lady a chance to miss him. If he wants to call once a day, perhaps on his way home, that is fine. If he says something like, "It has been a long day. I can not wait to see you," his woman will be thrilled to hear from him.
But he should keep the call short and wait until dinner to share the news of how his day was. "Storing up" information provokes excitement and mystery. Leaking it via a series of annoying phone calls results in a different reaction. After the phone rings for the fourth time, his woman is likely to moan, "What the hell does he want now?"
Remember, romance and great sex depends on both partners being available to each other but never too available. Turn off the cell phone and turn up the passion.
NICE DAY MMU MEMBERS!
