It's all a matter of preference. If white girls tickle your fancy then that's good for you. Nobody said just because you are black you have to be attracted to black women. Go for your heart's desire.
now whats is ur input? i mean preferences are not just preferences..there should be reasons behind those..thats what i would like to know..
Sasa wewe umetaja preference yako ni white girls una taka input ipi? Kuwa kama wengine wanapenda white girls au?
guys & gals,
wanna share this up ..
roughly speaking i have been exposed to girls from different groups. i mean u kno wht i mean?
sorry guys tht i will not say the details of it..
but i have come to one conclusion..i would rather prefer to end up with white girl..(yes i said it u heard it!) i will hold my cards for tht inference..at least for now..until the right time.
what r u guys thinking? am i wrong? or right? or?
whats ur experience on this x-cutting world?
Guys
Mhh..i don't think i made myself very clear on this..what i reaaly meant is the whole thingy of dating, and maybe more afterwards..things like commitment, faithfullness and even marriage. i am not talking solely about pillow talk or/and getting busy in that aspect.no.
Since most of ur responses were not targeting the issue..i will breakdown and educate some of my reasons for my hypothesis.
1. white girls knows how to build a relationship/ unlike most of girls from other races who just sit their butts to wait for man to lead the way, white gals can shape up the relationships from day one. here i also mean financially..like when you go out together she doesn't remain in back sit when the bill comes..or she probably won't take u as messiah to pay all her bills. this also goes in terms of emotions..she will be interested to know whats going on in ur life and try to put things right..this is unlike to some girls from other groups who think they should be a centre of universe in a relationship..and men as sattelites..
to be continued..
Pure BS! It seems you don't know anything about women from other races.
Indeed I agree with you. It depends on the sort of ladies you happened to be with. What I know many ladies prefer to share alot of things with their hubbies probably for yr case you tend to undermine their ability.Evy what you are saying sounds stereotypical and at best very generalized. Mimi nadhani it depends on what kind of woman you find. I don't think all white women are like what you said and so far sijaona ushahidi kuwa how you are portraying white women is how most of them are. I have personally seen white women marry men just for money. And in fact it also depends on country to country. For example in France when you go out on a date it is expected that you share expenses 50-50 but in America the guy is expected to pay for the outing.
............ For example in France when you go out on a date it is expected that you share expenses 50-50 but in America the guy is expected to pay for the outing.
...and in Tanzania, nowadays women are paying for outings. Ni tatizo la Watanzania kufikiria kuwa kwa kuwa wao ni wanaume basi ni lazima walipe kila kitu inapokuja suala la outings. Jaribu, hata kwa weeek nzima kumwambia mpenzi wako wa kike akutoe viwanja. Utashangaa atakavyojituma na wala hatalalamika!!. Wengi wanajisikia vizuri sana. Ila uwe mpenzi kweli na si kibaka kama walivyo 80%
When it comes to trend not all trends are persistent eg trading on historical data, exchange rates etc. Probably you could argue women rights awareness and exposures sometime. However others just from the grassroot, they have tought to be independent. Openness depends on the family you grew up or the sort of interaction your getting. Otherwise, I find yr thread can not be generalisedok ..seems we are getting some responses...some of us will consider my stand as sweeping and generalization or even stereotypical..but in science we have what we call trend..and trends should be explainable..thats why i am explaining things .. i have nothing against anyone or any race..ok?
more reasons;
3/ white women are very open and are good in showing their feelings ..like how feel about something and what they feel..things like wht they expect in a relationship etc. on the other hand, 'other' women are good in keeping their feelings to themselves and giving mixed signals.
When it comes to trend not all trends are persistent eg trading on historical data, exchange rates etc. Probably you could argue women rights awareness and exposures sometime. However others just from the grassroot, they have tought to be independent. Openness depends on the family you grew up or the sort of interaction your getting. Otherwise, I find yr thread can not be generalised
i doubt that!
a typical tz woman to pay for date? i dont think so .. if u ask her to take u out probably tht will be the last date with her..