What would you do?

Theodora

JF-Expert Member
Joined
Dec 20, 2009
Posts
806
Reaction score
584
Habarini WanaJF. I met my long lost friend and we were sharing what has been happening in our lives. Huyo dada is full of life, has everything going for her, intelligent, and has never given up in what she does, with a good soul. I sometimes admire her tenacity.

She has been with this guy 3 good solid years, he has done all the bad things on the book to her, lkn she cannot get rid of him! She has told him over and over that its over, refused to answer his calls, but the brother seems to make disappearance acts and reappear. Bottom-line he is wasting her life away.

Dada huyo hawezi kuhama mji au kazi, so he always finds his way to their home...She asked me what would she do to get rid of him(I silently thought buy a shot gun and scream bloody murder!) I know this is impractical - what advise should I give her that is plausible?
 
kama nimekupata uzuri ni kwamba huyu dada hampendi mwanaume huyo, vipi akimwambia tu ukweli? will it not work?
 
u just said he dissappears and reappears...and she lets him into her life and home???? mwambie awache mzaha. if she didnt want him in her life the guy wd long be gone!!!
 
Kwanza kamfikishie pole zangu huyo mwanadada.

Pili kwamwambie tatizo sio huyo mwanaume, bali yeye mwenyewe binafsi. Tatizo kubwa la watu wengi kupotea ni kuamua kutumia HISIA kwenye maamuzi badala ya UHALISIA. Mtu anayeweza kufanya maamuzi sahihi ni yule anayetumia akili, na si moyo wake ambao umejaa hisia kufanya maamuzi.

Kamwambia anao uwezo mzuri wa kufikiria, na wala haitaji ushauri wowote. Yeye mwenyewe ameamua kujijjengea ukuta kwa kufuata hisia zake, ingali ukweli anaujua wazi kwamba huyo kijana anampotezea muda.

Mapenzi si upofu, bali ni upofu kwa wale wanaotawaliwa na hisia zao kiasi cha kutupa akili zao!

Mungu na amsaidie ujinga wake!
 
Ningekupa mawazo but since wewe ni walewale, msaidie uonavyo
 
tatizo si la huyo mwanamme kama wewe na rafiki yako mnavyofikiria.

tatizo ni la huyo dada mwenyewe. kama hataki kweli, amfikishe polisi tu...............and believe me hata huko polisi hata wahi kufika jamaa akijua kuwa anaweza kwenda kweli polisi ataambaa taratibu.

msicheze na maisha kwa kumuonea mtu muhali / haya........................jambazi jambazi tu hata yule anaeiba peace of mind yako.
 

kweli gaijin tatizo kubwa la cc wanawake tunasamehe kirahisi, imagn kama akiamua kumfungia mlango mara tu anapokwenda kwake na kumwambia ukweli sitaki kukuona tena kwenye maisha yangu naamini kama ana akili timamu huyo mwanaume hatakanyaga tena nyumba hiyo. huyu dada hamaainishi kile anachosema deep somewhere in her heart anawish huyo mwanaume arudi.
 
it looks like kuna something ''hidden''' sisi wakukushauri hatujui,AU PENGINE HATA WEWE HUJUI!...
ngumu sana.

katika hali ya kawaida ukishamwambia mtu kwa dhati na msisitizo mkuu kuwa humtaki haina haja.....!kaa mi ningeshasepa kitambo kutafuta totoz nyingine pale UDSM au IFM
 
kuna wanaume wengine wanajitoa fahamu kwa sababu wanaona lazima mwanamke utakuwa na moyo wa huruma..........

mimi nishawahi kumpiga mtu simu polisi .................................mpaka kesho kiama hanisahau. Eboo

ila harudii tena kwenda nyumbani kwa watu bila ya kukaribishwa 😀
 
Huyu dada nadhani ni sitaki nataka ,pale atakapokuwa tayari kuachana na huyo sweetheart wake ..sidhani kama ushauri utahitajika.
 
The best way to dump a guy is to find another guy.........
So simple..........
Unless u r ugly and no one likes you......
 
Kingi said:
Ningekupa mawazo but since wewe ni walewale, msaidie uonavyo
Click to expand...

Myopia...hunijui so reserve your no input! Inawezekana huyo jamaa is a mirror image of ur bhr...oops!
 
Huyu rafiki yako bado anamtaka jamaa,akiamua kweli hamtaki sidhani kama itamchukua hata nusu saa kumwambia ukweli.Ushauri wa Godfather pia mzuri apate mwanamme hata kama rafiki wa kawaida ili jamaa aone ana mtu mwingine.
 
so simple kudeal na mtu wa aina hiyo, huhitaji kuanzisha mahusiano mapya kama haupo tayari, omba ushirikiano kutoka kwa rafiki yako yoyote wa kiume, aje nyumbani kwako kaa nae kwenye kochi moja mlalie kifuani kabisa kama mpenzi wako vile ikibidi kabisa mjifunike khanga au shuka hahaha, then mpigie huyo king'ang'anizi simu aje home awashuhudie mlivyolaliana, walai hata kaa arudi tena, it works jaribu uone, mie nilishaitumia na ikasaidia
 

Si unaona jinsi wanawake mnavyodanganyana. Eti rafiki wa kiume mjifunike khanga huku ukiwa umemlalia............. Hapo lazima tendo litendeke. Acha kumdanganya mwenzio....
 
Asprin said:
Si unaona jinsi wanawake mnavyodanganyana. Eti rafiki wa kiume mjifunike khanga huku ukiwa umemlalia............. Hapo lazima tendo litendeke. Acha kumdanganya mwenzio....
Click to expand...

hakuna kitakachotendeka, huyo ni rafiki tu na sio mpenzi na ndo maana nikaomba ushirikiano kutoka kwake
 
katelero said:
hakuna kitakachotendeka, huyo ni rafiki tu na sio mpenzi na ndo maana nikaomba ushirikiano kutoka kwake
Click to expand...
Unaweza kuwa rafiki yangu? Nataka unikaribishe unifunike na khanga ukiwa umelalia kifua changu. (Ntafurahi zaidi kama utakuwa umevaa bikini) Halafu tuone urafiki wetu utafikia wapi.:humble:
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar Discussions

Menu
Log in
Register
Cookies are required to use this site. You must accept them to continue using the site. Learn more…