Habarini WanaJF. I met my long lost friend and we were sharing what has been happening in our lives. Huyo dada is full of life, has everything going for her, intelligent, and has never given up in what she does, with a good soul. I sometimes admire her tenacity. She has been with this guy 3 good solid years, he has done all the bad things on the book to her, lkn she cannot get rid of him! She has told him over and over that its over, refused to answer his calls, but the brother seems to make disappearance acts and reappear. Bottom-line he is wasting her life away. Dada huyo hawezi kuhama mji au kazi, so he always finds his way to their home...She asked me what would she do to get rid of him(I silently thought buy a shot gun and scream bloody murder!) I know this is impractical - what advise should I give her that is plausible?