Waume Zetu Wa Ki Africa, Jifunzeni Kupenda Wake Zenu, Msikomalie Culture Stigma! TIMES ARE CHANGING!

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lara 1

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IGWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!


Times are changing and changes are inevitable inevitable. When the benefit of change exceeds the cost of change, then changes ceases to be optional and becomes compulsory.

Sasa waume za kiafrica wengi wenu ni HARDCORE! Unashikilia mawaiza aliyoacha babu yako (Come on! Your grand papa was so colonial!) Hata mdingi wako (kama wewe ni kijana he must be so 1940,S to 1960,s) Mnaendesha mambo ki africa zaidi. No kubembelezaring my wife. Ni mwendo wa Rijeshi tu. Mnachoshindwa kuelewa ni kuwa TIMES HAVE CHANGED AND THE CHANGE HAS BEEN FOR THE WORSE!

Mi nataka mke kama Mama yangu!!!!!!!! You cant be serious!? Mama yako na yeye angezaliwa zama hizi za Pyedo pusha, hot pants, skin tight, leggings, hot pants asingekuwa yule aliekulea. Angekulea ki hot pant hot pant. You realy expect your wife to be like your Mama while your sister aint even half of a woman your mama is and yet you expect better from your wife's mama? So men accept that times have changed and quit doing what your Papa was doing to your mama. Mdingi alikuwa akirudi nyumbani saa 2 usiku ujue kuna mgonjwa or he is doing us a favor. And at his times it was acceptable but now Hell no!!!!!!!!!

Naomba wanaume mjibadilishe tena ASAP kabla hayajawakuta ya kuwakuta msije sema sikuwaambieni. (Mi sio chizi naamua tu kuwashirikisheni jamba! I have seen something) How do you feel kusikia mkeo amemegwa simply tu ya kuhadaika na things that you could have done but you didnt? 3 words for you. Shame on You!!!!!!!! Hii list mjicheki kama inakuhusu uanze utekelezaji.

1. Tabia ya kujikausha kutoa matumizi hata kama mkeo anafanya kazi! Oooh i know she doesnt mind! What do you mean she doesnt mind? Ofcourse she minds! Unapunguza bajeti ya mipochi na cocoa butter. Kanyamaza tu kuepusha mtafaruku. Be a gentle man and offer house support.

2.Tabia ya kutowaspoil wake zenu! Wakati unamtongoza full kijitoa na mizawadi. Umemuoa unaleta za kukuwako mwenyewe manati ya nini? Ngoja ukute kuku wa wote. Spoil your wives jamani, mpe tu hela isiyo na kazi ajinafasi once in a while. Unajua fika mkeo mchagga hawezi jinunulia kigauni mariedo, unaona sawa navovaa mitumbaaa? Come on! Siku moja mpeleke mariedo mwambie chagua tu, the bill is on me. It will mean a lot to her.

3. Quality time na mkeo na watoto. Sio mpaka siku kuu! If you can afford atleast every weekend make time for your family. Wapeleke wakabadilishe mandhari kidogo. Let your kids grow with best moments with their dad. Mkeo nae apate cha kusimulia ofisini Jumatatu. Show the difference ya wewe kuwa hai na usingekuwepo. Hata sikuAstaghfirullahi sikuombei ila ukitangulia mbele za haki your kids hold best memories of you. Kuwa baba alivokuwepo we used to bang!!!!!! Saivi tunashukuru kwa yote. Bia wala breweires hazitokukumbuka! Na hata ukizeeka kids will return a favor coz kuna kuwa na bond kati yenu. Take your wife to vaccations. Mkeo vaccation ya mwisho Honey moon! Mhhhhh! You dont have to love your family to do this! Make it a ritual! Consider it a compensation for her choice of marrying ya a.ss and not a minister.

NAENDA KWENYE KIKAO NITARUDI KUMALIZIA!!!!!!!!!

NIMERUDI NIMEKUTA KUNA MILUPUKO YA ATOMIC NA NUCLEAR BOMB MAMBO SI SHWARI HUMU KAMA HIROSHIMAAAA! Kaunga dear you did your best.

ALL IN ALL ITS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE! LARA 1 HATA SIHUSIKI!

UKIMTENDEA UBAYA NA KU ABUSE HER GENEROSITY SHE IS YOUR WIFE MAN! UKIMTENDEA HAYA NA KUMFURAHISHA NA KUMSPOIL WITH LUXURY LIKE I SAIR SHE IS YOUR WIFE! HUNIKOMOI MIMI WALA HUNIPUNGUZII KITU! IM JST CHEKIN THE GAME FROM OUTSIDE.

YOU CHOOSE TO BE THE MAN YOU CHOOSE! !!!!!! THIS IS ABOUT YOU AND THE MAN YOU ARE TO YOUR FAMILY!

Mimi sio nabii so sikutegemea muitikie AMINA wote. Aliesikia haya, anaendeleza ukoloni pia kheri. But those of you ambao mnajua hili ni jambo la kheri bt you just needed someone to tell you in black and white, I did it! Its up to you now.

Nashukuru wengine mmenisikia, hata baada ya kikao naona kuna mjadala hapa ofisini kuna mtu vimemchoma ana mtreat mkewe dinner, mwengine anauliza cost za hotel bagamoyo aripee damage kidogo. (Anawakaje sasa kuhusu hizi changes baada ya kukuta cost inatoboa mfuko! Sasa tunamuuliza ulizonywea bia jana bei gani?) Its a start.

Nashukuru wote mliochangia, sitoweza kuwajibu wote bt michango yenu iko appreciated.

NI MTAZAMO TU JAMANI TUSIJENGE CHUKI!!!!!!!! (Usijezania nimechungulia rifamiria rako nimekuja kukusuta hapa! Im just sayin people.)
 
Duuuh lara 1, you're asking too much them, labda wachache watakubaliana nawe. Nitarudi kusoma hizo comments za vidume.
 
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Mh!Unayajua majukumu ya mwanamke wa kiafrika wewe?
Sidhani

Suala la kutoa hela ya matumizi halina tatizo ila tatizo litakuja pale kama atakuwa na kazi
Hela yake inakwenda wapi?
Kma hataki kushiriki kwenye matumizi ya home ashiriki kwenye matumizi mengine,kama hataki aache kazi,anafanya ya nini?

Kwenye suala la zawadi sawa!

Lakini kwenye suala la kutoa hela bila sababu hapo big NO!
Why?
Nitoe hela bila sababu ya msingi eti kisa naogopa atamegwa,to hell!!!!!!!!!!!
Akamegwe tu,kwani nini bana?
Mbona wapo wengi tu na hata hao wakilete za kuleta wanatembea na Yuda tu!

WANAUME watabaki Kuwa WANAUME hadi Yesu aruda, Period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Kwa hiyo style ya maisha utayotaka ku-pretend maisha ya tamthilia za ki-fillipino kwa hapa Bongo utawapata wachache tena si Mume bali Mpenzi na yeye akichoka atakuacha, kwahiyo utakuwa wa kumegwa na kuachwa, nenda kwa Vibabu vya kizungu ndio vinaweza hizo mambo
 
Lara1 ww mwenyewe wafanya kazi ela yako wamtumia mama yako kijijini kwann na ww siku moja ukasema HONEY nimepata mshahara wangu this end of week twende zetu bagamoyo tukale bata na familia..haki sawa kwa wote..mm mke wangu anakipato kikubwa zaidi yangu kama nikikufuata ww nitaumia....:A S-fire1::A S-fire1::help::help:
 
Do not say that before you get married to your fiance, he is likely going to dump you, or marry you kukukomoa! so unrealistic of you!
Eiyer said:
Mh!Unayajua majukumu ya mwanamke wa kiafrika wewe?
Sidhani

Suala la kutoa hela ya matumizi halina tatizo ila tatizo litakuja pale kama atakuwa na kazi
Hela yake inakwenda wapi?
Kma hataki kushiriki kwenye matumizi ya home ashiriki kwenye matumizi mengine,kama hataki aache kazi,anafanya ya nini?

Kwenye suala la zawadi sawa!

Lakini kwenye suala la kutoa hela bila sababu hapo big NO!
Why?
Nitoe hela bila sababu ya msingi eti kisa naogopa atamegwa,to hell!!!!!!!!!!!
Akamegwe tu,kwani nini bana?
Mbona wapo wengi tu na hata hao wakilete za kuleta wanatembea na Yuda tu!

WANAUME watabaki Kuwa WANAUME hadi Yesu aruda, Period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hahaha, hii nimeipenda, however, Kama wote madadas+our wives mngekuwa mnajua haya msinge demand kihivyo,
I can give you everything, but still you ll need more.tatizo nikitoa kidole, mnataka mkono mzima, bila hata asante basi! Not way, maisha ya tamthilia za kina Mara clara sijui, kiafrika afrika ni hakuna.

Full ujeshi kwa kwenda mbele.
 
Hawa wanawake wa kibongo mitandao inawaharibu. Hayamaisha unayozungumza ni ya kwenye tamthilia.
Hakuna mwanaume hata mmoja anaweza kuishi maisha hayo. eidha taigiza tu kwa mda fulani na kama kisingizio kumegewa aah kwanini uwe mtumwa kwa mwanamke?

Hayo maisha unayoyasema ni ya kwenye vitabu na kwenye TV.

USHAURI: Kama unataka maisha ya hivyo tafuta kizee cha kizungu uishi nacho la sivyo utatumika sana.
Jiheshimu, uheshimiwe.
 
royna said:
Do not say that before you get married to your fiance, he is likely going to dump you, or marry you kukukomoa! so unrealistic of you!
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I don't care

If do me, i do you too

Kama hutaki masharti yangu gooooo!!!!!!!!

Kwangu sio mwisho wa dunia

Natafuta mwingine

Akileta za kuleta anaenda

Kama hapatikani mwenye malezi ya kiafrika,nitafanya hivyo mapka ukamilifu wa dahari

I DON'T CAREEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!

Kwani nini bana????
 
lara 1 baadhi ya hayo nayakubali, lakini hili la kumegwa HELL BIG NO..!!!! YAANI NITOE HUDUMA KISA NAOGOPA ATAMEGWA..??? Kwanza wa kumegwa atamegwa tu hata nikimpa firigisi zangu..... Halafu hii ya kutumia kimegeo kama siraha ya kupata huduma haitakiwi kabisa...

Kuna wanawake wengine, mume akikosea kitu kimoja ndo inakuwa nongwa, hebu cheki...
1. Hatapika,
2. Hatafua
3. Hatafanya usafi
4. Hakuna kugegeda
5. Haongei na wewe
6. Anahama chumba
7. etc ect

Yaani kosa moja adhabu kibao, utafikiri mtu upo gerezani, kumbe home kwako....
 
Ngalikihinja said:
lara 1 baadhi ya hayo nayakubali, lakini hili la kumegwa HELL BIG NO..!!!! YAANI NITOE HUDUMA KISA NAOGOPA ATAMEGWA..??? Kwanza wa kumegwa atamegwa tu hata nikimpa firigisi zangu..... Halafu hii ya kutumia kimegeo kama siraha ya kupata huduma haitakiwi kabisa...

Kuna wanawake wengine, mume akikosea kitu kimoja ndo inakuwa nongwa, hebu cheki...
1. Hatapika,
2. Hatafua
3. Hatafanya usafi
4. Hakuna kugegeda
5. Haongei na wewe
6. Anahama chumba
7. etc ect

Yaani kosa moja adhabu kibao, utafikiri mtu upo gerezani, kumbe home kwako....
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Mwanaume anaeishi na mwanamkewa aina hii ni na hasemi kitu wakutandikwa viboko kabisa

Hafai kabisa!
 
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Teh teh...
mathematically,
let x = Enough,
y = "A little more"


then in a woman's mind x = y
tukiendelea hapo,
since "a little more" = infinity
then
x = y = infinity
conclusion
enough = infinity (as far as ladies are concerned)
they'll always ask for more and more and more!..


(niliisoma hii sekondari flan hivi ya kata)
:wave:
 
Perceptions can be shifted and Behaviors can be altered nyote nimawezekana

il wanawake wengine wamezidi anaweza akawa na hela ndani
na mumewe ni kweli hana kitu ila asitoe kisa a men is a BREAD WINNER...

So as we are busy trying to pursue men to change women also should change!!!!!
 
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