Unapoamua kumwambia mtu its over hakikisha umejipanga,na unamaanisha kwamba Its Over na una Plan B ya kumove on..Kuna watu hawataniwi,unakurupuka kumwambia Its Over kumbe alikuwa anakulia timing siku nyingi sana akwambie anaogopa,ukijilengesha ndo imetoka..
Kuna tabia ya watu kusema its over ilhali hawamaanishi,bado wanawapenda hao watu na wanaishi hai mioyoni mwao...Utaona tu baada ya muda mtu anajifanya amekosea meseji,''Honey nakupenda sana,hakuna mwanaume nimewahi kupenda zaidi yako,unanipa kila kitu na zaidi'' halafu anajifanya kuituma kwa ex wake amtie wivu...Kama una tabia hii wewe bado hujamove on,unajidanganya!Ili uweze kumove on,unapaswa ukae mbali na ex wako atleast kwa muda flani ili kumu-erase fasta akae kwenye Recycle Bin na sio Desktop ya moyo wako..Kama unaendelea kujitumisha Sms,mara unampigia ooh nimeona mtu kama wewe Mwenge stendi,au nimekufananisha??Haisaidii...Kaa mbali na hilo limtu,futa memories za karibu mlizoshare pamoja kama picha etc,najua namba ya simu hata ukifuta ubongoni ipo,unapoteza muda...Its not over until its over...Eti leo baridi nimemiss siku ile tulivyoloana mvua pamoja,unamtumia msg ex..unatafuta matatizo.-kwa hisania ya watu wa rufiji