Uchumba wangu umevunjwa

dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

Wadau, Mimi ni mwanaume....kuna tatizo limenikumba na kuharibu uchumba wangu. Nilikuwa na mchumba wangu nyumbani kwangu,mida ya saa 5 usiku. Kabla hatujalala tukiwa wote,wakati huo nilikuwa niki-set alarm huku mchumba wangu akiiangalia simu yangu,ghafla iliingia sms ya mahaba mazito kutoka kwa mtu nisiyemfahamu.....kulingana na sms hiyo alidai kuwa amemisi penzi langu sana na angetamani tuonane,hivyo nimfuate au kama nipo bize aje yeye..Kiukweli nilichanganyikiwa na mwanamke wangu alishindwa kunielewa. Nkampigia simu hakupokea, akadai yupo kwenye makelele akitoka atanipigia. Nkamuuliza wewe ni nani ....akadai yeye ni Vero mpenzi wangu. Wakati mimi sijawahi kuwa na mpenzi wala mtu wa karibu au ambae nina mazoea nae tu,anaeitwa Vero. Nilipoendelea kupiga simu yake hakupokea akadai atanipigia soon..... Mwanamke wangu alishindwa kunielewa na akaondoka usiku ule. Alipoondoka nilimtafuta huyo muhuni lakin hakupokea simu,akidai yupo kwenye sherehe ....akitoka atanitafuta,lakini mpaka napaandika uzi huu sijapokea simu yake na mara nyingi hapatikani.

Wadau naomba mnisaidie nitamfahamu vipi huyu mtu ambae lengo lake ni kuniharibia mambo yangu.
Naambatisha na "conversation" tulofanya na huyo muhuni.

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Extrovert · Jan 23, 2019

Hahahah huyo ni manzi anaekujua na ameamua kukuharibia style makusudi tu. Tuliza kichwa taratibu utamgundua otherwise wataalamu watakuja na ngonjera za jini mahaba. Sasa sijui majini wanatumia smartphone sikuhizi!

prince john john · Jan 23, 2019

Weka number yake kwanza za wote wawili halafu nitoe ushauri ndugu

dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

Extrovert said:
Hahahah huyo ni manzi anaekujua na ameamua kukuharibia style makusudi tu. Tuliza kichwa taratibu utamgundua otherwise wataalamu watakuja na ngonjera za jini mahaba. Sasa sijui majini wanatumia smartphone sikuhizi!

Asante kaka,kwa kuchangia......

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King _Of_Everything · Jan 23, 2019

Ama kweli umeula wa MAWE mkuu hadi uje kumalizana na huyu muhuni mchumba wako kishapata muhuni mwingine pole sana kamanda.

dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

prince john john said:
Weka number yake kwanza za wote wawili halafu nitoe ushauri ndugu

Asante kwa kuchangia. Ila kwa sababu za kiusalama, haitafaa...nadhan unalielewa hilo.

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Barn · Jan 23, 2019

Hapo inawezekana ni dili amecheza huyo mchumba wako alitaka akuache akakosa njia sahihi basi akampanga rafiki yake ili atume hiyo meseji ukiwa na mchumba wako

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dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

Brave boy said:
Ama kweli umeula wa MAWE mkuu hadi uje kumalizana na huyu muhuni mchumba wako kishapata muhuni mwingine pole sana kamanda.

Ni kweli ntapata shida. Ndo maana nkaomba msaada hapa. Ila kwa jinsi conversation ilivyo, ni wazi kwamba huyu ni muhun flan na si mpenz wangu, kwa upande wangu mimi naelewa kuwa ni upuuzi flan...lakini mchumba wangu halielewi hilo.

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Arabi Nanjewa · Jan 23, 2019

Tumia mbinu za kishushu ukweli utaujua mkuu, it can be game if mind huyo demu wako amemuaandaa mtu ili iwe over, ungeanza kuchunguza nyendo za huyo uliyejiaminsha mchumba wako, huenda alikua kazini hapo. Au kuna demu kajua leo uko na nani hapo gheto na Hafurahii na uhusiano wenu akaamua afanye hivyo. Kazi ndogo hiyo, kupata chanzo cha tatizo, unahitaji muda na kuzifanyia kazi hisia (HISI)
Nawasilisha

kinjekitile70 · Jan 23, 2019

Mwanamke wako kakuchukoa
Kaamua kukuchezea huo mchezo

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Mabeberu · Jan 23, 2019

Kama unajiamini huna makandokando ungemwambia njoo

dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

Barn said:
Hapo inawezekana ni dili amecheza huyo mchumba wako alitaka akuache akakosa njia sahihi basi akampanga rafiki yake ili atume hiyo meseji ukiwa na mchumba wako

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Asante kwa kuchangia. Inawezekana, lakini huyo mwanamke ananipenda sana...na ananihitaji sana katika maisha yake,ila kibinadamu ameshindwa kuhimili.

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Ushimen · Jan 23, 2019

Kwa mimi mwenye uzowefu kwenye hii sekta ya mahusiano, naomba nihitimishe kwa kusema kwamba.....Huyo mwanamke alikua hakupendi, na alikua ana target umkosee ili apate strong reason ya kukuacha.
Kimsingi ipo hivi...... Mwanamke kama anakupenda, hata ikitokea amekufumania ukiwa kifuani mwa mwanamke mwingine huyo hawezi akakuacha ama lahh, atakupa nafasi ya kukusikiliza basi hata umdanganye na kisha maisha yaendelee.

Naomba kuwasilisha

dreams and visions · Jan 23, 2019

Arabi nanjewa said:
Tumia mbinu za kishushu ukweli utaujua mkuu, it can be game if mind huyo demu wako amemuaandaa mtu ili iwe over, ungeanza kuchunguza nyendo za huyo uliyejiaminsha mchumba wako, huenda alikua kazini hapo. Au kuna demu kajua leo uko na nani hapo gheto na Hafurahii na uhusiano wenu akaamua afanye hivyo. Kazi ndogo hiyo, kupata chanzo cha tatizo, unahitaji muda na kuzifanyia kazi hisia (HISI)
Nawasilisha

Asante...shida ni kwamba nmetumia watu kama wa4,nmewapa no ili wamfuatilie lakin hajibu sms wala calls....na mara nyingi hapatikani

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cmoney · Jan 23, 2019

kitendo cha kuja na sms za kitoto kama hizi kweli mwanamke wako anastahili kukukimbia....tulifanyiwa o-level hv....chukua namba icheki tigo pesa jina...ukishalipata change simu au mpe mwanamke anza kumchunguza..sio kulialia tu hapa

Di Ty · Jan 23, 2019

Kama huyo mchumba wako nae alishakuchoka kwa mambo yako hapo ndo kashapata gear ya kuondokea. Ila kama hakukuchoka rudi kwake na jiandae psychologically kwa utakayokutana nayo...

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Determinantor · Jan 23, 2019

Barn said:
Hapo inawezekana ni dili amecheza huyo mchumba wako alitaka akuache akakosa njia sahihi basi akampanga rafiki yake ili atume hiyo meseji ukiwa na mchumba wako

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Hahaha was thinking the same kabisa! Huyu katafuta namna ya kuachana na jamaa wakaamua kucheza dili. Haiwezekani iingie text badala ya kukaa muongee myamalize wewe unanyanyuka na kuondoka.... Rahisi kihivyo?

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kinjekitile70 · Jan 23, 2019

Kakuchoka

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vanmedy · Jan 23, 2019

dreams and visions said:
Wadau, Mimi ni mwanaume....kuna tatizo limenikumba na kuharibu uchumba wangu. Nilikuwa na mchumba wangu nyumbani kwangu,mida ya saa 5 usiku. Kabla hatujalala tukiwa wote,wakati huo nilikuwa niki-set alarm huku mchumba wangu akiiangalia simu yangu,ghafla iliingia sms ya mahaba mazito kutoka kwa mtu nisiyemfahamu.....kulingana na sms hiyo alidai kuwa amemisi penzi langu sana na angetamani tuonane,hivyo nimfuate au kama nipo bize aje yeye..Kiukweli nilichanganyikiwa na mwanamke wangu alishindwa kunielewa. Nkampigia simu hakupokea, akadai yupo kwenye makelele akitoka atanipigia. Nkamuuliza wewe ni nani ....akadai yeye ni Vero mpenzi wangu. Wakati mimi sijawahi kuwa na mpenzi wala mtu wa karibu au ambae nina mazoea nae tu,anaeitwa Vero. Nilipoendelea kupiga simu yake hakupokea akadai atanipigia soon..... Mwanamke wangu alishindwa kunielewa na akaondoka usiku ule. Alipoondoka nilimtafuta huyo muhuni lakin hakupokea simu,akidai yupo kwenye sherehe ....akitoka atanitafuta,lakini mpaka napaandika uzi huu sijapokea simu yake na mara nyingi hapatikani.

Wadau naomba mnisaidie nitamfahamu vipi huyu mtu ambae lengo lake ni kuniharibia mambo yangu.
Naambatisha na "conversation" tulofanya na huyo muhuni.View attachment 1002396

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Huyo mwanamke wako hakutaki, amekutengenezea mtego kusudi apate sababu ya kukukimbia...
ACHANA NAYE, UTAUMIA AT FIRST ILA KAZA MOYO KISABUNI, UTAVUKA KIPINDI KIGUMU. Muache aende na katika kipindi cha mpito avoid mahusiano mapya

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Behaviourist · Jan 23, 2019

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