Nikuambie kitu, first gift I accepted was from my husband. I don't mean to shun you but for me I take a different stance.
Wanaume hawatoi gift tu just because wanajiskia. Waone hivi hivi. Huwa wanatoa gifts kama wanainvest vile. Wanakuvutia kasi tu. Wanajua watakupata tu no matter how long it takes but they bank on their gifts knowing that sooner or later.... they will have you. And the deeper their pockets the sooner they will have you.
Sasa we hapo pokea pokea tuuuuuu. Chekelea tuu. Mwisho wa siku utajipeleka mwenyeweeeee machinjioni. Tena macho makavuuuu. Sasa kuna mawili. Akadai zawadi zake sababu alichotarajia sicho, you were not worth the chase or you gave in too soon. Yaani ROI imefeli kutoa matunda.
To be on the safe side, decline the gifts. Say no. Don't trade your soul with gifts which is the devils way of luring you into sin.
Believe me, utaepuka mengi. Hata gear ya usumbufu itampungua.