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Steps to Love Someone..

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Chimunguru, Mar 8, 2010.

  1. Chimunguru

    Chimunguru JF-Expert Member

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    <1. Say it.
    When you say the words 'I Love You', they should carry with them
    the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you
    simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it
    and are willing to do anything for that special person.


    <2. Empathize.
    Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose
    your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand
    how they feel, where they come from, and who they are.
    Realize how they could also love you back just as well.


    3. Love unconditionally.

    If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations,
    then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism
    (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others).
    If your interest is not in the other person as such,
    but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life,
    then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving
    that person's life, or allowing that person to be themselves and
    Raccepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be,
    then you are not striving to love them unconditionally


    4. Expect nothing in return.

    That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you.
    It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love.
    Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have
    a different way of showing his or her love for you,
    do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

    [FONT=sylfaen]5. Realize it can be lost.[/FONT]

    [COLOR=red][SIZE=4][FONT=sylfaen]If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [SIZE=5][FONT=sylfaen][COLOR=red]a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
    [SIZE=5][FONT=sylfaen][COLOR=red]to have someone to love.[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]

  2. Regia Mtema

    Regia Mtema R I P

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    Hii imetulia...