Globally, men have suffered in the hands of gold diggers who only love them for what they can put on the table. When a man hat a fat bank account, he need not propose to women as they will all come running. When women see a car a man drives the kind of alcohol he drinks and the way he smells, they see money.
Romantic partners are not the only ones who can rob a man of his finances. Friends, too, stick around when there is a fat bank account. An ATM for example, people stick around when they need money from it but as soon as it has served its purpose, people leave.
Below are guidelines of how men can keep a fat bank account from fake friends and gold diggers.
First things first. Get the right woman. Forget the slay queens and women with looks but zero brains. Get a woman who will not only support your vision but will also push you to achieve more. A woman who will inspire you to work hard and not a woman who just makes you spend hard. He who finds a real woman finds a good thing and obtains favour and power to create wealth.
Secondly, stop taking cheap drinks. Whether it is during social interaction and networking or business meetings. When you drink cheap drinks or drink in cheap places, you hang out with cheap people who have cheap ideas and a cheap future. Big business opportunities are found in places where the drinks are expensive. In fact, in places where they sell cheap drinks, the only people you will find there are people who will be asking you for money. They even clap when you come knowing that the 'big buyer' or 'cash cow' has come.
Stop being Lazy. Do not sleep the whole day then blame the government for your poverty and failure. "A Little Sleep, a Little Slumber, poverty shall overtake you like a political cadre in overalls". A lot of men are just lazy when it comes to making money. They have enough energy to give a woman five orgasms, but have no energy to start a business. .
Be productive. If you keep junk in your head, you get a junk life. There are men can engage with others anyday when the subject is about women or soccer but have little to know idea when it comes to Investments and innovation. Whsn a topic about business comes up, they look at their phones. A man must know how to do at least one productive thing (have one skill) even without having gone to college.
Connections! Be around people are better than you. A lot of men are failing because they are not mentored. They don't have anyone to whom they can sit down with and listen to. In the olden days, old men would sit young men down and show them how to hunt and kill animals. No man was considered man enough until he had killed an animal. There are men who have made it in life, find a way to get mentored by them.
Work, work work!!! Do not Spend your whole day just praying and fasting just because the Quran or the bible tells you that God will bless the work of your hands. Yes, the blessing will find you but only when you do something. God helps those who help themselves. Stop using Prayer as an excuse not to work. Work hard.
Your pockets can be empty but do not allow your brain to be empty too.
