Sosthenes Maendeleo
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- Oct 24, 2012
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Well said even am not sure if researched.
Je, utadharau mchango wangu kwa kuwa sijaamua kuolewa?
Elimu ya mahusiano inapaswa kutolewa kwa vijana toka wadogo. Wanapaswa kuwa na uwezo wa kuelezea sehemu zao kwenye mahusiano Yao ili kutengeneza mahusiano bora.
Historia na watu waliotuzunguka wametufunza mambo mengi. Bila kusahau mtu aliyekuwa kwenye mahusiano ya muda mrefu ana uelewa mkubwa wa mahusiano.
Huwezi kumtishia msichana ajali mahitaji ya mwanaume ambaye hamjali ili ndoa idumu. Unataka kutengeneza jamii ya namna gani?
Wala siamini kama wewe umeoa. Haiwezekani ukapinga kila nilichosema kwa hoja kuwa sijaolewa.
SS ndo kitabu gan mkuu?
Ukweli mtupu na n wachache sana wenye hzo qualities
NEVER raise your voice to your wife. She is not your child or of a lower class. It's a sign of inferiority complex, low intelligence, narrow mindedness, lack of education and exposure and bad childhood upbringing
Same to the foolish men who do this
NEVER use attitudes and moods to communicate with your wife. Expecting her to lick your feet or be overly submissive to figure out your problem. You never know how your wife will interpret them. Defensive men do not have happy wives.
NEVER compare your wife to other women. You've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack her confidence and trust , her love for you will diminish.
NEVER ill treat your wife's friends because you don't like them. The one who's supposed to get rid of them is your wife
NEVER forget that your wife married you and not her job. Never leave all the bills on her and If she feels financially insecure and puts more effort in her job you should do something about her insecurity. Your wife is not a machine. Help her with the house chores after work
NEVER be ignorant of your wife's humane nature. She can only do as much. Never be of little importance to your wife. Where her confidence is boosted, heart is warmed and assistance is got, is where her mind will be.
Never blame your wife for doing little at home. Help her out.
NEVER ignore the value of your wife's sweat at home. If we were to change it to the value money you'll be ashamed how cheaply you live by
NEVER think of your needs alone. The Bible commands to love your wife as yourself. The Bible speaks Ill of people driven by their sexual desires, showing no compassion. Even dare asking "to be given how you want it" and threatening adultery. SHAAAME YOU EVEN DARE TO QUOTE YOUR HOLY BOOK. If you knew how to get her in the mood you wouldn't be threatening her of cheating.
While you are thinking of cheating, she's thinking of the tonne of house chores, her excess weight due to pregnancy, work on weekend, her ever demanding baby and a man who will just help her and make her feel good for once.
To be continued....