Bujibuji Simba Nyamaume
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There are 3 basic sex styles. Sex in a
marriage is an important factor. Sex relieves
you of all tension and a marriage with good
sex is healthier and lasts longer. But every
person has his own style of sex and feels
aroused and satisfied when they try out
their sexual pattern. But at one stage sex
becomes very monotonous and then you do
need some variety. In this article we have
brought for you the three basic sex styles
and what you should do to spice up your
sex life if you get bored of it. The recipe for
a great marriage is having an equal balance
of the three.
Quickie
Couples who are very busy and don't get
time to make love at ease basically adopt
this style of sex. They are ideal for those
marriages in which the man has a higher
sexual requirement and urge than the
woman. Quickies are perfect for a heated
and steamy sexual encounter and bring in
the passion and excitement in to the
marriage. As a relationship enhancer,
quickies can't be topped; men love them,
and it brings back life into your marriage.
However it wanes off over the period of
time. Men always love it but for women
quickie becomes frustrating coz it is not
satisfying and they ultimately feel cheated.
If thus you have reached the stage where
you no longer enjoy quickie and feel
resentful because your husband reaches
climax every time he has sex and you have
an orgasm maybe once in 6 times then its
time you did something about it. You can
approach your husband and be frank about
it. Tell him that it doesn't work any more
and that a longer session makes you feel
sexier and more turned on. If you cant be so
frank then try to find a way where it will be
able for the two of you to give more time to
one another and enjoy sex for a longer time.
Prepare a bath for him, give him good body
massage and then make love the whole
night ..you just have to buy time then from
your busy schedule.
Comfort Sex
Comfort sex is the binding factor in a
relationship. When two people loves one
another and know each other's body,
moods and passion spots then comfort sex
is fun. Thus this kind of sex is possible only
when two people know each other. This
kind of sex is more loving and caring than
just trying to reach an orgasm and being
satisfied. This is caressing the partners mind
than body. It's not about athletic prowess or
numbers of orgasms, but rather about the
bonds of time, experience, and intimacy you
and your husband share.
But mind you too much comfort sex is
boring and it can be killing for the sexual
relationship. If you feel that you are having
only comfort sex then its high time that you
had a steamy and passionate sexual
encounter with your partner to bring the
passion back into your marriage. Thus plan
a date with your husband after the kids are
off to bed. Wear something you feel sexy in
and light some candles. Have a candlelight
dinner and make love on the kitchen table.
This change in circumstances inevitably will
lead to a change in sexual experience and
your relationship.
Passionate Sex
This kind of sex is basically done in the heat
of the moment without thinking about the
place and occasion. You are aroused and all
that you need is to satisfy yourself. It can
also be termed as special occasion sex since
couples go out on a vacation specially to get
the passionate sex back into their life.
Special-occasion sex is the thing that breaks
up the monotony and gives you the chance
to fall in love again and also reminds you
that you have been a hot couple. The other
kind of passionate sex is to experiment and
find out new kinds of mind-blowing sex. In
exploring and experimenting, you might
discover something that really feels
wonderful, and suddenly the sex is
something you crave for every moment and
at all times. Maybe it's a new position or
some sensual music that pushes you over
the edge. The only way to find what turns
both of you on is through trial and error. To
have passionate sex when you have loads of
work and kids to take care of is an almost
impossible thought but you have to work
towards it. Small acts of sexual passion and
urges will be very helpful to ignite the
passion in both of you. Thus to have
passionate sex you should have variety in
your sex life. And pretty soon, you'll realize
that variety really is the spice of a great sex
life, and that marriage can be so full of fun
and excitement.
marriage is an important factor. Sex relieves
you of all tension and a marriage with good
sex is healthier and lasts longer. But every
person has his own style of sex and feels
aroused and satisfied when they try out
their sexual pattern. But at one stage sex
becomes very monotonous and then you do
need some variety. In this article we have
brought for you the three basic sex styles
and what you should do to spice up your
sex life if you get bored of it. The recipe for
a great marriage is having an equal balance
of the three.
Quickie
Couples who are very busy and don't get
time to make love at ease basically adopt
this style of sex. They are ideal for those
marriages in which the man has a higher
sexual requirement and urge than the
woman. Quickies are perfect for a heated
and steamy sexual encounter and bring in
the passion and excitement in to the
marriage. As a relationship enhancer,
quickies can't be topped; men love them,
and it brings back life into your marriage.
However it wanes off over the period of
time. Men always love it but for women
quickie becomes frustrating coz it is not
satisfying and they ultimately feel cheated.
If thus you have reached the stage where
you no longer enjoy quickie and feel
resentful because your husband reaches
climax every time he has sex and you have
an orgasm maybe once in 6 times then its
time you did something about it. You can
approach your husband and be frank about
it. Tell him that it doesn't work any more
and that a longer session makes you feel
sexier and more turned on. If you cant be so
frank then try to find a way where it will be
able for the two of you to give more time to
one another and enjoy sex for a longer time.
Prepare a bath for him, give him good body
massage and then make love the whole
night ..you just have to buy time then from
your busy schedule.
Comfort Sex
Comfort sex is the binding factor in a
relationship. When two people loves one
another and know each other's body,
moods and passion spots then comfort sex
is fun. Thus this kind of sex is possible only
when two people know each other. This
kind of sex is more loving and caring than
just trying to reach an orgasm and being
satisfied. This is caressing the partners mind
than body. It's not about athletic prowess or
numbers of orgasms, but rather about the
bonds of time, experience, and intimacy you
and your husband share.
But mind you too much comfort sex is
boring and it can be killing for the sexual
relationship. If you feel that you are having
only comfort sex then its high time that you
had a steamy and passionate sexual
encounter with your partner to bring the
passion back into your marriage. Thus plan
a date with your husband after the kids are
off to bed. Wear something you feel sexy in
and light some candles. Have a candlelight
dinner and make love on the kitchen table.
This change in circumstances inevitably will
lead to a change in sexual experience and
your relationship.
Passionate Sex
This kind of sex is basically done in the heat
of the moment without thinking about the
place and occasion. You are aroused and all
that you need is to satisfy yourself. It can
also be termed as special occasion sex since
couples go out on a vacation specially to get
the passionate sex back into their life.
Special-occasion sex is the thing that breaks
up the monotony and gives you the chance
to fall in love again and also reminds you
that you have been a hot couple. The other
kind of passionate sex is to experiment and
find out new kinds of mind-blowing sex. In
exploring and experimenting, you might
discover something that really feels
wonderful, and suddenly the sex is
something you crave for every moment and
at all times. Maybe it's a new position or
some sensual music that pushes you over
the edge. The only way to find what turns
both of you on is through trial and error. To
have passionate sex when you have loads of
work and kids to take care of is an almost
impossible thought but you have to work
towards it. Small acts of sexual passion and
urges will be very helpful to ignite the
passion in both of you. Thus to have
passionate sex you should have variety in
your sex life. And pretty soon, you'll realize
that variety really is the spice of a great sex
life, and that marriage can be so full of fun
and excitement.
