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Sex Styles

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Bujibuji, Aug 22, 2011.

  1. Bujibuji

    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    There are 3 basic sex styles. Sex in a
    marriage is an important factor. Sex relieves
    you of all tension and a marriage with good
    sex is healthier and lasts longer. But every
    person has his own style of sex and feels
    aroused and satisfied when they try out
    their sexual pattern. But at one stage sex
    becomes very monotonous and then you do
    need some variety. In this article we have
    brought for you the three basic sex styles
    and what you should do to spice up your
    sex life if you get bored of it. The recipe for
    a great marriage is having an equal balance
    of the three.
    Couples who are very busy and don't get
    time to make love at ease basically adopt
    this style of sex. They are ideal for those
    marriages in which the man has a higher
    sexual requirement and urge than the
    woman. Quickies are perfect for a heated
    and steamy sexual encounter and bring in
    the passion and excitement in to the
    marriage. As a relationship enhancer,
    quickies can't be topped; men love them,
    and it brings back life into your marriage.
    However it wanes off over the period of
    time. Men always love it but for women
    quickie becomes frustrating coz it is not
    satisfying and they ultimately feel cheated.
    If thus you have reached the stage where
    you no longer enjoy quickie and feel
    resentful because your husband reaches
    climax every time he has sex and you have
    an orgasm maybe once in 6 times then its
    time you did something about it. You can
    approach your husband and be frank about
    it. Tell him that it doesn't work any more
    and that a longer session makes you feel
    sexier and more turned on. If you cant be so
    frank then try to find a way where it will be
    able for the two of you to give more time to
    one another and enjoy sex for a longer time.
    Prepare a bath for him, give him good body
    massage and then make love the whole
    nightÂ… just have to buy time then from
    your busy schedule.
    Comfort Sex
    Comfort sex is the binding factor in a
    relationship. When two people loves one
    another and know each other's body,
    moods and passion spots then comfort sex
    is fun. Thus this kind of sex is possible only
    when two people know each other. This
    kind of sex is more loving and caring than
    just trying to reach an orgasm and being
    satisfied. This is caressing the partners mind
    than body. It's not about athletic prowess or
    numbers of orgasms, but rather about the
    bonds of time, experience, and intimacy you
    and your husband share.
    But mind you too much comfort sex is
    boring and it can be killing for the sexual
    relationship. If you feel that you are having
    only comfort sex then its high time that you
    had a steamy and passionate sexual
    encounter with your partner to bring the
    passion back into your marriage. Thus plan
    a date with your husband after the kids are
    off to bed. Wear something you feel sexy in
    and light some candles. Have a candlelight
    dinner and make love on the kitchen table.
    This change in circumstances inevitably will
    lead to a change in sexual experience and
    your relationship.
    Passionate Sex
    This kind of sex is basically done in the heat
    of the moment without thinking about the
    place and occasion. You are aroused and all
    that you need is to satisfy yourself. It can
    also be termed as special occasion sex since
    couples go out on a vacation specially to get
    the passionate sex back into their life.
    Special-occasion sex is the thing that breaks
    up the monotony and gives you the chance
    to fall in love again and also reminds you
    that you have been a hot couple. The other
    kind of passionate sex is to experiment and
    find out new kinds of mind-blowing sex. In
    exploring and experimenting, you might
    discover something that really feels
    wonderful, and suddenly the sex is
    something you crave for every moment and
    at all times. Maybe it's a new position or
    some sensual music that pushes you over
    the edge. The only way to find what turns
    both of you on is through trial and error. To
    have passionate sex when you have loads of
    work and kids to take care of is an almost
    impossible thought but you have to work
    towards it. Small acts of sexual passion and
    urges will be very helpful to ignite the
    passion in both of you. Thus to have
    passionate sex you should have variety in
    your sex life. And pretty soon, you'll realize
    that variety really is the spice of a great sex
    life, and that marriage can be so full of fun
    and excitement.
  2. The Son of Man

    The Son of Man JF-Expert Member

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    yourmine36 New Member

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