sonnita ,....I once, was in that shell before and then I crossed paths with someone Whom I couldn't help, I had to swallow my pride but, I "read" first, sikuingia head first nilisoma alama za nyakati kwanza before making 'indirect first move'
Halafu nikaangalia left and right to make sure it's all safe to cross as in, no other girls around and then I threw in the signals.
To my surprise, he was able to read the signals and he responded accordingly. And let me tell you, he was one of the biggest, delicious fish that I had ever caught!
So, sometimes it's about taking risks!