Real Men makes the first move, impress and don't fear rejection

[The Boss]

Its true.. there is this Man Jeez
yaani he has never said a thing to me.. but he has impressed me to a great extent

Ame ku impress kwa kutamani uongee nae tu?
au umeshawahi kumvua nguo kwa macho?

 

[ERoni]

What's the difference?!, it's all means of communication, halafu sisi tukianza mnatusema tunajirahisisha!, which is not the main thing here, the main thing ni wewe kama MWANAUME, TAKE THE LEAD!, make that first move without worrying about rejection!,

Kuanza maongezi hakumaanishi unajirahisisha, it means you are interested in friendship or getting acquainted na wala sio kudinyana..!

 

[ERoni]

Its true.. there is this Man Jeez
yaani he has never said a thing to me.. but he has impressed me to a great extent

So, are you interested in him?

 

[RRONDO]

calling is of 20th century kui, nowadays we prefer ''chatting'', could be fb, wozap, or normal texting, so whoever has the number will start the shots...!

im so 20th century!!! i thought 'chatting' fb,wozap,viber was for teenagers or college kids!!!

 

[Heaven on Earth]

So, are you interested in him?

kind off.......

 

[ERoni]

im so 20th century!!! i thought 'chatting' fb,wozap,viber was for teenagers or college kids!!!

you serious???? then we differ, i rarely make calls! unless it's work-related stuff or my parents, otherwise it's texting and sexting..!

 

[RRONDO]

you serious???? then we differ, i rarely make calls! unless it's work-related stuff or my parents, otherwise it's texting and sexting..!

i call first then start texting later....unfortunately/fortunately ladies like my voice so i have to call every time!!!!!

 

[Heaven on Earth]

i call first then start texting later....unfortunately/fortunately ladies like my voice so i have to call every time!!!!!

I would love to hear your voice lols

 

[Tized]

Trust me, men have insticts and we could see a rejection before hand and twist it to YES!! YES!!!! We work with your mind subconsciously.

The first and last time I heard NO was some decades ago. I didnt admit defeat actually, I had to seduce her the otherway round and she regreted to have said No for what she convincingly didnt understand. While what she understood was what I meant but she had to searh for me only to find I had swallowed my interest until further notice. Next time I was invited to treaty.

To some of us its incomprehensible to be defeated just like that. A MAN cant admit defeat until he is not up to that name enough. A MAN think ahead, see ahead, hear ahead, plan ahead, reason ahead etc ... so it doesnt click to me.
Bahati mbaya tumezeea na vizuri vikaja.

What's the difference?!, it's all means of communication, halafu sisi tukianza mnatusema tunajirahisisha!, which is not the main thing here, the main thing ni wewe kama MWANAUME, TAKE THE LEAD!, make that first move without worrying about rejection!,

 

[ERoni]

kind off.......

..and you've done nothing about it...!we wameza mate tu, lol

 

[sonnita]

I don't think so..!
. sonnita, i could use any strategy to get your attention if i want you, not necessarily asking for your number. I could give you mine, or ask for another date same time same place without attempting to get your contacts...! And this doesn't mean am not being real or confident!!

There you go.making the first move.thats clever,though with any strategy(as you said) but NOT by giving her your contacts.i dont call that a move.
Same date,same place without getting her contacts?thats really risky,if there was a third party that person must think that girl is crazy enough to go on a date blindly,not knowing if you will make it on that day.(there are emergencies).can hesitate on going thinking maybe you werent serious about it.
As for me i think a man should show that he really wants something/someone and he is serious about it.that way is more simple than playin guessing gamez.

 

[sonnita]

Kuanza maongezi hakumaanishi unajirahisisha, it means you are interested in friendship or getting acquainted na wala sio kudinyana..!

Most men dont think unavofikiria wewe.kwao ukiwaanza ni kujirahisisha na endapo ikitokea kuna problem imejitokeza mbeleni huko hawaoni shida kusema dem mwenyewe ndo alijileta kwanza.aliyataka mwenyewe kavipi asepe.etc.etc

 

[chuma cha mjerumani]

Bado uko below 24 ukifika 30 uta jifunza kitu.

 

[chuma cha mjerumani]

Bado uko below 24 ukifika 30 uta jifunza kitu.

 

[demigod]

Ni kweli kabisa being real kuko ndani ya confidence.

Nakumbuka nilipokuwa kijana, nilikuwa natafuta jinsi ya kuwa-confident around girls.

The only solution niliyopata ilikuwa ni approaching not less than 5 girls a day, with the mindset of being rejected (not getting laid) .

Ndipo nilipotambua "Fear of rejection" na "Low confidence" ni matokeo ya kusita ku-approach na ku-act on the spot.

 

[kabanga]

Nice article.. Well written

well copied sio.....

 

[Mahondaw]

I like it!

 

[G_crisis]

Haya mambo hayana principles, lets things happen the way they falls

 

[Tized]

You think so? No worries Blue G, I am passionately waiting.

no Tized you were a real men in your own strategies and own ways,we are all created differently with different behaviours,tactics and visions,i still remember my promise an am working on it ill come back to you once i collect enough evidence!

 

[Heaven on Earth]

Ame ku impress kwa kutamani uongee nae tu?
au umeshawahi kumvua nguo kwa macho?

Ame ni impress vitu vingi, napenda kuongea nae, tuchat
he makes me laugh.. he is just like you ..any woman cant resist falling for....