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Polygamy is not for the faint hearted

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by ByaseL, Dec 5, 2011.

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    ByaseL JF-Expert Member

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    BY ALEX BALIMWIKUNGU When your wife loses the intense romance and passion she displayed when you were still dating, what do you do with your libido still a notch higher? So what do you do? Get a hotter flame, work out an arrangement and make her your second wife and she will duly take care of your excess needs? Easier said than done. Gone are the days when the first wife agreed to the second marriage and even got involved in the frantic search. Although polygamy has been practiced for thousands of years, today, it is no joking subject, in Golola speak. In these days of emancipation where the whims of one semi-illiterate woman are enough to drive a solitary mind mad, imagine having a harem of two or three educated wives! You have to think for them, think about them and then think because of them. It takes courage and guts and steel which, sadly, even money cannot buy. It is a preserve of the total men. A recent incident at Entebbe Airport brought to mind that notion. Fresh from Mecca, a famous Al-Hajj in town made a grand entrance in the airport lobby. There to receive him were three of his wives, each with a Toyota Ipsum and a bouquet of flowers. In the ensuing battle, bouquets were ripped apart as each woman was determined to have him for the day. Like a rabbit caught in strong headlights, he looked on, perplexed, at the undue attention the altercation caused. The towering and bulky Al-Hajji, instead of prevailing over his harem, hardly uttered a word, only affording the Arabic “Yarrabi” as beads of sweat formed and the crowd swelled. Quran confirms there is a verse that allows a man to marry more than one woman but only if he can deal justly with them. Even in the Bible, King Solomon is said to have had seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines. David had ninety-nine and Jacob had four.
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    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    Kingereza kirefu mno
    panado zimeniishia kabla sijamaliza

    kifupi, mie nina wake 3, na tunafurahia maisha wote wanne.
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    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Hivi inakuaje kila siku unabadili jinsia?
    Leo una wake, juzi ulikua na mume.
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    Consigliere JF-Expert Member

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    There is nothing to contribute on writings of this like, but to fabricate and stage the tales of a like.
    Ni aina ya uandishi ufananao na mtindo wa ushairi.
    I like that anyway.
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    Topical JF-Expert Member

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    Uliza wazee wako kijijini walivyo weza kuishi kwa raha mustarehe

    Acheni uzungu nyie..it can be done

    By the way wanaume wote wanatunza zaidi ya mke moja (kama hawajaoa watakuwa ni nyumba ndogo)
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    Zedikaya Senior Member

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    me or ke,hujitambui?
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    HorsePower JF-Expert Member

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    nashindwa kuchangia, kama haiko kwenye context za tz! Ni mwandishi wa uganda au?
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    lolyz JF-Expert Member

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    umeona eeeee njia ya muongo ni fupi mi naona hata yeye hajijui sawasawa "unsex" kote kote au analiwa na kula haaaaa haaaaaaa