Naolewa wiki ijayo, nahitaji ushauri kwa wazoefu na ndoa

[The Monk]

Kiufupi unaanza maisha mapya jiandae kuwa mama. Jiandae kuwa multipurpose yaani kuwa capable na mult task huku unalea mtoto huku unaipenda familia yako bila kuwasahau wazazi na ndugu zako wakati huo huo bila kuwatenga ndugu wa mume.
Kuna baadhi ya vitu itakugharimu kuviacha hata kama unavipenda vipi na kuna baadhi ya vitu itakugharimu kuvifanya hata kama huvipendi.
Hobby zako zitabadilika baadhi ya marafiki watapotea automatic n.k n.k
Kila la kheri binti la muhimu utumie akili na sio nguvu la utachoka mapema. Upoo.....!!

Hongera sana kwa ujumbe mujarab na ulioenda shule

 

[Mnyabwilo]

Rule No 2: Jiandae kuwa mpole kwa michepuko ya mmeo maana akikinai lazima aongeze mchepuko nje

 

[gfesto]

Ndoa haiigwi

 

[Daby]

Ebu ni PM kwanza?!

Kaku pm! !

 

[usser]

Kilala her ndoa njema mpende na kumheshimu mumeo

 

[mwita ke mwita]

Kapige kazi tu

 

[HP1]

Siri za ndani ziishie ndani

 

[miss chagga]

Usibadilike hata kama ulikuwa unaigiza. Endelea na maigizo yako tu.... No one is perfect... Mpende mumeo

 

[dismindergirl]

Kuwa mvumilivu na uwe mwepesi wa kusamehe sio kosa dogo tu unakasirika wiki nzima na uwe tayari kusacrifice all your time kwa familia yako. Nakutakia kila la kheri

 

[Wonderful]

hahaaa leo umeamkia bhange ya wapi?, mke wa mtu unataka akuPM?

Jama!!!!!! Si tumfunde namna ya kuishi vema ndoani......au mie sijaelewa bandiko?

 

[Emoj]

Jama!!!!!! Si tumfunde namna ya kuishi vema ndoani......au mie sijaelewa bandiko?

hebu Ni PM my dear maana kuna kitu kama sielewi vile😜😜

 

[nelaizer]

Kila la heri bibie, umtangulize Mungu katika kila jambo kila kita kitakua sawa

 

[asakuta same]

Tamu kuiwazia, chungu kuitenda.

Kila la kheri na Hongera.


Nitarudi soon.

 

[Madihani]

Hongera kwa kupata Mume

 

[asakuta same]

30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN-----------

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

 

[Tee Bag]

neno nimechoka " IS STRICTILY PROHIBITED"

 

[Ngongo]

Mume ni kichwa ukimpenda kwa moyo wako wote hautaona madhaifu yake.Upendo ndio kila kitu mengine nyongeza tu.

 

[Heaven Sent]

Hongera mpenzi, Mungu awatangulie na kuwapigania kwenye ndoa yenu

1. Mtangulizeni Mungu kwenye kila jambo. Mkimshirikisha Mungu kikamilifu hatowaacha kamwe. Na hata mtakapopata jaribu kubwa namna gani, Mungu atawapa mlango wa kulitolea jaribu hilo.
(Hakuna aliyemtumaini Mungu akaaibika). Kuna situations mtapitia, pasipo Mungu hamtoweza lolote

2. Ukawe msaidizi mwema kwa mumeo. Mke ndo mbeba kusudi la mumeo, mke ndiye mbeba maono msaidizi wa ndoa yenu. Hata mumeo akitetereka kuwa strong umrudishe kwenye mstari. Msupport kutimiza kusudi la maisha yake na yeye akusupport pia. Na kila mtu ajitambue na kusimama kwenye sehemu yake sahihi. Fanya kazi kwa bidii pia, mpunguzie mumeo utegemezi (msaidiane majukumu). Maana wanaume wana majukumu jamani afu maisha magumu hawakawii kupata presha jamani. Siku hizi wote mume na mke ni watafutaji

3. Ahsante, Nisamehe. Najua huwa unaappreciate kila kitu shem anachokufanyia. Basi sasa hivi ndo ukazidishe. Mshukuru kwa Kila kidogo anachokufanyia, coz kwa kidogo hicho vikubwa vitazaliwa. Ukimkosea a khaa omba tu msamaha na yeye akikukosea akaomba msamaha msamehe tu kutoka moyoni. Vinyongo ni sumu ya ndoa

4. Usiri. Kila mtu ana mapungufu yake na kuna situations ambazo sio nzuri mtazipitia. Kuanika matatizo yenu hadharani ni kumvua nguo mumeo. Naamini kifua unacho na utamstiri bwa shem..Ukiona limekukaa sana rohoni, ongea na mwenyezi Mungu. Yeye sio kwamba tu atakusikiliza, bali atakupa solution ya matatizo yako. Usifanye Vitu vya kheri afu ukamficha mumeo na Mfanye yeye akuamini na kukushirikisha Vitu vyake pia. Usiri kati ya wanandoa unaua ndoa kabisa

5. Ziba masikio. Miluzi mingi humpoteza mbwa. Kama unavyozoa takataka na kuzimwaga nje, basi na maneno maneno ya ndugu, mashoga (bakiza wachache wa muhimu) yatupe nje hivyo hivyo. Kuna watu wameziacha ndoa zao kisa tu kuendekeza maneno ya watu. Kuna watu wanaomba huko usiku na mchana muachane. Ukiletewa jambo lenye uzito, lichunguze kwanza. Sio tu unamvaa mwenzio juu juu huna hata ushahidi, utapewa na nakozi

6. Heshima, uvumilivu, Upendo, Unyenyekevu
Muheshimu mumeo. Hakuna kitu kinampa mwanaume kifua kama kuheshimiwa. Awe na hela asiwe nazo, awe na elimu au asiwenayo ukimuheshimu utamuinua tu

Mvumilie kwa mapungufu yake. Mambo yakibuma endelea kuwa naye , Mpe moyo na kumpa support. Kwenye ugonjwa wewe ndo muuguzi wake..Tunaapa "katika shida na raha", so be there for him muda wote

Mnyenyekee mumeo bana mdekeze. Mfanye ajisikie kuwa yeye ni mwanaume

Mpende upendo wa agape. Upendo usio na sababu wala msimu. Yani Mpende tu

7. Kuna hobbies zitapungua, kuna mashoga watakaopunguzwa. Ulikuwa msichana so ulikuwa free kufanya chochote bila kuwa judged na watu. Sasa hivi unakuwa mke, uwe mke anayejitambua. Mambo ya kukimbizana na marafiki sijui yaachwe. Kila weekend kwenda kujirusha wapi sijui Mmh unapotezea tu. Behave kama mke, kuwe na tofauti ya binti na mke

8. Be your husband's bestfriend. Unajua jinsi ambavyo tunawatreat marafiki. Mshirikiane, mnashea ndoto zenu matatizo, siri na matarajio yenu, mnakuwa na crazy moments pamoja. Hata kale ka muda kakuchokana kakipita kidogo, nyie mtaendelea kuenjoy as best friends

9. Lower your expectations. Unaishi na binadamu mwenzio sio malaika, atakosea, atakukwaza, kadri mnavyozidi kuishi ndo mtagundua mengi kuhusu kila mmoja wenu.. nikusameheana tu na kubebeana mizigo..

Kabla hamjaoana mtakuwa na plans kibao. Baby mwezi wa 9 tutakuwa na mtoto, December tutaanza ujenzi etc. Nyie mna mipango yenu, na Mungu ana mipango mizuri zaidi juu yenu. Kuna mambo mtafanikiwa mapema na mengine mtachelewa. Jifunze kuridhika na mumeo, usimfananishe na waume wa wenzio. Wala usitake kuishi kama ndoa nyingine zinavyoishi. Hiyo ni ndoa yenu nyie wawili, ishini nyinyi kama nyinyi

Msiyape matatizo nafasi ya kuharibu furaha yenu kabisa. Msiyape sana kipaumbele matatizo yenu, YACHEKENI, YAZOMEENI.

10. Mawasiliano. Muwe na mawasiliano active. Kuna kitu mdiscuss, kuna taarifa peaneni, kuna tatizo au mmekwazana ongeeni. Kuanza kuishi baba anaingia, mama anatoka.. you are finished. Vunjeni ukimya, zungumzeni. Kauli zako zikawe laini na njema kwa mumeo


Mwee ngoja niishie hapa, yale mambo fulani amazing ngoja makungwi waje

 

[sumbai]

hongera kipenzi kwa kufukia hatua hiyo nzuri sana katika maisha. cha kwanza maombi ni muhimu sana kwa Imani yako, pili Mwanaume hapigiwi kelele, Muheshimu,mpende,Jitume kama mwanamke,hakikisha unasimama katika nafasi yako kama mwanamke,maana wengi wetu huwa tukishaolewa tunajisahau sana,mpikie chakula kitamu,kuwa mbunifu, usafi muhimu sana bibi weee,mambo ya kunuka shombo,vitu ndani hovyohovyo nguo hadi sebuleni ni mwiko.Pangilia nyumba yako vizuri sana kila kitu kikae mahala pake maana nyumbani panahitajika kuwa sehemu pa kuondolea stress.otherwise all the best na ukawe mke mwema

Asanteee....

 

[wembeee]

Hongera mpenzi, Mungu awatangulie na kuwapigania kwenye ndoa yenu

1. Mtangulizeni Mungu kwenye kila jambo. Mkimshirikisha Mungu kikamilifu hatowaacha kamwe. Na hata mtakapopata jaribu kubwa namna gani, Mungu atawapa mlango wa kulitolea jaribu hilo.
(Hakuna aliyemtumaini Mungu akaaibika). Kuna situations mtapitia, pasipo Mungu hamtoweza lolote

2. Ukawe msaidizi mwema kwa mumeo. Mke ndo mbeba kusudi la mumeo, mke ndiye mbeba maono wa ndoa yenu. Hata mumeo akitetereka kuwa strong umrudishe kwenye mstari. Msupport kutimiza kusudi la maisha yake na yeye akusupport pia. Na kila mtu ajitambue na kusimama kwenye sehemu yake sahihi. Fanya kazi kwa bidii pia, mpunguzie mumeo utegemezi (msaidiane majukumu). Maana wanaume wana majukumu jamani afu maisha magumu hawakawii kupata presha jamani. Siku hizi wote mume na mke ni watafutaji

3. Ahsante, Nisamehe. Najua huwa unaaprecite kila kitu shem anachokufanyia. Basi sasa hivi ndo ukazidishe. Mshukuru kwa Kila kidogo anachokufanyia, coz kwa kidogo hicho vikubwa vitazaliwa. Ukimkosea a khaa omba tu msamaha na yeye akikukosea akaomba msamaha msamehe tu kutoka moyoni. Vinyongo ni sumu ya ndoa

4. Usiri. Kila mtu ana mapungufu yake na kuna situations ambazo sio nzuri mtazipitia. Kuanika matatizo yenu hadharani ni kumvua nguo mumeo. Naamini kifua unacho na utamstiri bwa shem..Ukiona limekukaa sana rohoni, ongea na mwenyezi Mungu. Yeye sio kwamba tu atakusikiliza, bali atakupa solution ya matatizo yako. Usifanye Vitu vya kheri afu ukamficha mumeo na Mfanye yeye akuamini na kukushirikisha Vitu vyake pia. Usiri kati ya wanandoa unaua ndoa kabisa

5. Ziba masikio. Miluzi mingi humpoteza mbwa. Kama unavyozoa takataka na kuzimwaga nje, basi na maneno maneno ya ndugu, mashoga (bakiza wachache wa muhimu) yatupe nje hivyo hivyo. Kuna watu wameziacha ndoa zao kisa tu kuendekeza maneno ya watu. Kuna watu wanaomba huko usiku na mchana muachane. Ukiletewa jambo lenye uzito, lichunguze kwanza. Sio tu unamvaa mwenzio juu juu huna hata ushahidi, utapewa na nakozi

6. Heshima, uvumilivu, Upendo, Unyenyekevu
Muheshimu mumeo. Hakuna kitu kinampa mwanaume kifua kama kuheshimiwa. Awe na hela asiwe nazo, awe na elimu au asiwenayo ukimuheshimu utamuinua tu

Mvumilie kwa mapungufu yake. Mambo yakibuma endelea kuwa naye , Mpe moyo na kumpa support. Kwenye ugonjwa wewe ndo muuguzi wake..Tunaapa "katika shida na raha", so be there for him muda wote

Mnyenyekee mumeo bana mdekeze. Mfanye ajisikie kuwa yeye ni mwanaume

Mpende upendo wa agape. Upendo usio na sababu wala msimu. Yani Mpende tu

7. Kuna hobbies zitapungua, kuna mashoga watakaopunguzwa. Ulikuwa msichana so ulikuwa free kufanya chochote bila kuwa judged na watu. Sasa hivi unakuwa mke, uwe mke anayejitambua. Mambo ya kukimbizana na marafiki sijui yaachwe. Kila weekend kwenda kujirusha wapi sijui Mmh unapotezea tu. Behave kama mke, kuwe na tofauti ya binti na mke

8. Be your husband's bestfriend. Unajua jinsi ambavyo tunawatreat marafiki. Mshirikiane, mnashea ndoto zenu matatizo, siri na matarajio yenu, mnakuwa na crazy moments pamoja. Hata kale ka muda kakuchokana kakipita kidogo, nyie mtaendelea kuenjoy as best friends

9. Lower your expectations. Unaishi na binadamu mwenzio sio malaika, atakosea, atakukwaza, kadri mnavyozidi kuishi ndo mtagundua mengi kuhusu kila mmoja wenu.. nikusameheana tu na kubebeana mizigo..

Kabla hamjaoana mtakuwa na plans kibao. Baby mwezi wa 9 tutakuwa na mtoto, December tutaanza ujenzi etc. Nyie mna mipango yenu, na Mungu ana mipango mizuri zaidi juu yenu. Kuna mambo mtafanikiwa mapema na mengine mtachelewa. Jifunze kuridhika na mumeo, usimfananishe na waume wa wenzio. Wala usitake kuishi kama ndoa nyingine zinavyoishi. Hiyo ni ndoa yenu nyie wawili, ishini nyinyi kama nyinyi

Msiyape matatizo nafasi ya kuharibu furaha yenu kabisa. Msiyape sana kipaumbele matatizo yenu, YACHEKENI, YAZOMEENI.

10. Mawasiliano. Muwe na mawasiliano active. Kuna kitu mdiscuss, kuna taarifa peaneni, kuna tatizo au mmekwazana ongeeni. Kuanza kuishi baba anaingia, mama anatoka.. you are finished. Vunjeni ukimya, zungumzeni. Kauli zako zikawe laini na njema kwa mumeo


Mwee ngoja niishie hapa, yale mambo fulani amazing ngoja makungwi waje

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