My girlfriend hangs out, drinks too much, what do i do?

My girlfriend hangs out, drinks too much

My girlfriend's behavior is frustrating. She likes hanging out with her friends and she's told me off that she finds nothing wrong with it.

What is most annoying is that she comes back home very drunk and she is usually dropped by male companions late in the night; and she does not show any remorse.

We have been in this relationship for long and I fear that if I leave her, I may not easily find the right woman.
What do I do?

Says my pal Bob

Ah ah jiamini kidume..kuna kitu kinaitwa married-material sio Kila mwanamke anayo...it seems dem anakucontrol kwe mahusiano huyo wako wa kugonga tu..ka vp npm namba yake nkusaidie kutoka out

Do u drink?,,,well If u love her to the point that u can't live without her then u should bear with whatever comes with the package..otherwise u should find a woman with similar hobbies/likes as ur self,that's someone u can cope with

Birds of same feathers flock together. Hang out and drink too much too. Else there are fifty ways to leave your lover.

Simple....either get with the program or jilt her.

Btw, did you lift this from somewhere?

Kama ni demu poa tu kama unataka kuoa basi hafai,ina maana hata baada ya kumwoa atakuwa anajirusha club?

Revocatus Kashaga said:

My girlfriend hangs out, drinks too much

My girlfriend’s behavior is frustrating. She likes hanging out with her friends and she’s told me off that she finds nothing wrong with it.
What is most annoying is that she comes back home very drunk and she is usually dropped by male companions late in the night; and she does not show any remorse. We have been in this relationship for long and I fear that if I leave her, I may not easily find the right woman.
What do I do?
Says my pal Bob

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She lacks the courage to tell you straight in your face that the game is over. She has thus resorted to telling you indirectly but you can not see the writing on the wall. Though painful, you simply need to start life without her. Better for both of you.

Personally i dont drink, smoke, go club,or take drugs. Kwa hiyo huwa sihitaji mwanamke anaefanya hayo au kati ya hayo. Nikigundua anafanya hayo huwa namuomba achague,either awe nami au aishi maisha yake.

Miaka ya nyuma nimekula mabinti wengi sana wa washkaji niliokua natoka nao kwenda club[ingawa nilikua sinywi]. Wakishalewa tu hiyo ilikua chakula yangu. Mwanamke mlevi ni rahsi sana kugawa mchezo,thats why i dont like them...

Mkuu endelea nae tu.

SUPERUSER said:

Do u drink?,,,well If u
love her to the point that u can't live without her then u should bear
with whatever comes with the package..otherwise u should find a woman
with similar hobbies/likes as ur self,that's someone u can cope
with

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here im.

Hapo nilipo underline ndo kuna shida hapo...
How do you define a right woman...and why are you complaining if she is the right one?

Revocatus Kashaga said:

My girlfriend hangs out, drinks too much

My girlfriend's behavior is frustrating. She likes hanging out with her friends and she's told me off that she finds nothing wrong with it.
What is most annoying is that she comes back home very drunk and she is usually dropped by male companions late in the night; and she does not show any remorse. We have been in this relationship for long and I fear that if I leave her, I may not easily find the right woman.
What do I do?
Says my pal Bob

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Kichwa Ndio Mtu said:

Personally i dont drink, smoke, go club,or take drugs. Kwa hiyo huwa sihitaji mwanamke anaefanya hayo au kati ya hayo. Nikigundua anafanya hayo huwa namuomba achague,either awe nami au aishi maisha yake.[/COLOR=Blue]

Miaka ya nyuma nimekula mabinti wengi sana wa washkaji niliokua natoka nao kwenda club[ingawa nilikua sinywi]. Wakishalewa tu hiyo ilikua chakula yangu. Mwanamke mlevi ni rahsi sana kugawa mchezo,thats why i dont like them...

Mkuu endelea nae tu.

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And that's my principle too. Mwaji, mvitaji, clubbing...hata bur simtaki..!

luckyline said:

here im.

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Do u drink?go to club?

and you stil call her your galfriend.... dude come ooooon!!!!

Umeshikiwa akili. ?

There is something they call; Limbwata. Mabe yu have been injected this. She goes off to club comes home drunk and given a lift by a male companion. Still yu say if yu leave her yu don't know if yu will ever find a nice one like her? Where is she nice?

wewe jamaa bhana eti "if i leave her,i may not easily find the right woman" WTF Dude? mimi nilishakua na demu kama huya pombe,bangi,sigara huku mim situmii.nikaona najichimbia kaburi la ndoa nilipiga sana yule mwanamke.watu tunaangalia maisha au na wewe ni msela msela tu.iseeh ningepiga huyo na kumtimua ujinga sitaki

uoga wako ndo umaskini wako

Ingekuwa kwa kiswahili ningekushauri au anakunywa kizungu?

does she pays your bills?why should you fear to leave her?that's the big mistake many people do,believe that you will get the right person after roll you have different interests,what i can assure you is that do not expect her to change after the marriage.

SUPERUSER said:

Do u drink?go to club?

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nope i had never,ever tried