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Mwaka wa pili nikonae lakini ajawai kojoa

Discussion in 'JF Doctor' started by Computerdoctor, Jul 10, 2011.

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    Computerdoctor New Member

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    Jaman naomba kuuliza.mimi nina mchumba wangu na huu ni mwaka wa pili toka tuanze mahusiano lakini cha kushangaza mdada huyu kila tukikutana uwanjani tunawajibika vizuri na wote tunakua tumelizika lakin cjawai kuona hata siku moja mwenzangu huyu akakojoa kama wasichana wengine wanavyo kojoa wakifika kileleni.Nisaidieni kwa hilo jamani
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    Parachichi JF-Expert Member

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    labda humfikishi,na anaona aibu kukuambia!siku atakayofika atakuambia tuu!jitahd afike manake atakukimbia mda s mrefu!ww usiwe unafika kabla yake!hadi akilalamika amechoka,na ukihis mapigo yake ya moyo yanaenda mbio ujue kafika hapo.kaz ni kwako
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    MORIA JF-Expert Member

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    mchumba au mke? jitahidi uoe
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    Vin Diesel JF Gold Member

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    kama hajakuambia basi kuna mwenzio atakuwa anakusaidia kumfikisha...
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    arabianfalcon JF-Expert Member

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    hahahaha Parachichi mwingi na wewe,
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    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    Wanawake wanakojoa???????
    Orgasm ni kukojoa???????
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    Samkyjr JF-Expert Member

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    Si wanawake wote wanao ejaculate hata kama wanafika kileleni, peruzi kwenye utapata majibu sahihi yaliyofanyiwa tafiti kwa kiasi utaweza kuwajua wanawake.
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    Nonda JF-Expert Member

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    Hakikisha anapata maji ya madafu kabla ya shughuli. Madafu mawili matatu...halafu ujitayarishe kwa kupiga deki. Kama ni kukojoa tu!!!! LOL

    CHE GUEVARA-II JF-Expert Member

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    Acha kumzingua mwenzio!

    Ebwana, ukiona mwanamke anakojoa au hakojoi yote hayo, kwa kiasi kikubwa, yanatokana na kazi yako (namaanisha unavyoshughulika katika uwanja wa 6'x6'). Jaribu utundu kwa kadiri unavyoweza huku ukiwa unamsoma ni wapi na wakati gani ukimfanyia nini anakuwa-aroused.

    In short you should know different types and location of the so-called erogenous zones in women as well as how they are stimulated. There are at least ten (10) zones. Examples: Clitoris (the most sensitive part), G-spot, ears, neck, buttocks, the back, cervix, et.c

    Pia styles. There are ONLY twi types of styles (facing in opposite direction and facing in the same direction - and through these there are varieties of styles: frog position, Missionary's position, wheel barrow position, 69 position, et.c.

    So, take home mesage: Erogenous zones + styles
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    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    It happens to some women, it took me 3 good years! Just be more gentle usiwe rough na wala usizungumzie hiyo kitu! Mkiwa katika love making, ingiza emotions acha roughness sijui mahardcore yenu, baadaye akizidiwa na feelings atakuwa anacome hata mara 4 ndani ya game moja!
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    Stuxnet JF-Expert Member

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    Umemshindwa huyo, tutafute tumkojoze halafu atakusimulia
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    Pukudu JF-Expert Member

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    hahaaaa i'm expert ktk kuwafanya mademu wakojoe, nafkiri unahitaji msaada wangu nikusaidie mlete!!! Dk sifuri tu mambo nayaweka sawa

    KAKA A TAIFA JF-Expert Member

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    [h=1]No climax during sex[/h][​IMG]I'm a 23-year old girl and I have never had an orgasm during intercourse or by manual or oral stimulation. Also if someone kisses my clitoris, I just can't get to the top of the hill and over it..
    But when I play with myself, I have no problem at all. I am ashamed about not coming, especially when a boy does his utmost to make me feel good. I don't have a steady relationship, but I do have sex with the same boy on a regular basis.
    Is there a solution for this? Can I practise on my own? I always stimulate myself in the same special way, have done so since I was twelve. Could that be the cause of the problem? I'm used to a special technique, and maybe I cannot come in any other way? I hope there is a solution for this without me having to go into therapy or something.
    The boys that I have been to bed with tell me that their other girl friends never had any problems with this, and even climaxed through intercourse, without any stimulation of the clitoris. But stimulation of the clitoris is necessary, isn't it? Am I an exception?
    [​IMG]No climax during sex: reaching a climax during masturbation
    It is not known exactly how many girls are anorgasmic (do not have an orgasm) with a partner, while they easily climax through masturbation when alone. Probably the number is quite high. It is a fact that, as girls grow older and have more quality experience, their ability to climax with a partner, even without direct stimulation of the clitoris, increases. But even then, among women claiming to have a happy relationship, 1 in 6 does not come on a regular basis. This can be annoying if the partner does his best, and you get the feeling that there is something wrong with you. Some women even become cynical about the whole exercise, mocking the men who try so hard to make them come with tricks learned from books, but without true feeling. Such males there are, no doubt.
    No climax during sex: conditions for reaching an orgasm
    Supposing, however, that you have a good relationship with your friend (s), the following information may be useful to you:
    In order to reach the climax, the following conditions must prevail: desire, arousal and effective stimulation. These conditions are met when you masturbate. The essential point is probably that you feel completely free: there is no sense of inhibition or the need to show behaviour that you do not feel. So the question is: What is different when you are not by yourself, but with someone else?No climax during sex: desire
    Do you feel as horny as when you masturbate on your own? Are you really full of desire to go to bed with this boy, longing to hold him, touch him, kiss him, play with his penis, want him to play with you, have him inside you? If this is not the case, what are the factors that inhibit you? Is the sex safe enough? Are you thinking about the last time you were together and your 'failure' to have an orgasm then? Feeling a little inhibition in company is normal, but worries should not be so big as to dull the appetite.
    No climax during sex: getting sufficiently aroused
    Do you get sufficiently aroused? Probably you get aroused and reach what is called the 'plateau phase' (see the sexual response), from which orgasms can spring. You know this stage from experience, when you feel excited, your heart beats faster, you are hot and wet. Yet at the same time you are aware of yourself and of the boy working on you. You feel you need a specific touch or technique (the one you use on your own) to help you make the jump into orgasm. And so, whatever he tries and however much you want to, you can't. You begin to be an observer rather than a partaker. Then, after perhaps other attempts, you become less aroused, and any more work done by the boy is wasted and even slightly irritating.
    No climax during sex: learning to masturbate
    Obviously, the technique the boy uses is not your own. So you must somehow explain it to him. Most boys are quite happy to get this information, because they genuinely want to give pleasure.
    After a while, you may begin to feel so comfortable with him, that you may find you can come through another technique. It is a good idea to learn to vary your own masturbation technique. Try something else and don't give it up, and you'll find there are many roads leading to Rome.
    It is true that a girl can have an orgasm (or more) by sexual intercourse alone, so without direct stimulation of the clitoris. You, too, could experience that, if you get out of your present impasse and take the following remarks to heart:

    No climax during sex: tips
    • To make love joyfully and satisfactorily, orgasm is not essential, nor should it be the goal of love making. Much more important is being actively involved, feeling horny and uninhibited in a communicative and intimate way. Unfortunately many people cannot practise this extremely simple principle, because they are uninformed or misinformed. Pornography, for instance, is usually not the best example of the pleasure of sex. Also, people have hidden agendas. Some boys are only out to score and are utterly uninterested in the girl's feelings. Some girls cannot simply make love unconditionally: they wonder if the boy will be true to them, marry them, and be a father to the children they think they want. Without hidden agendas, lovemaking is usually unproblematic.
    • Even though orgasm should not be the goal of love-making, it is wonderful to come in the presence of your lover. Not necessarily always or at the same time or through intercourse. If you have your own technique for reaching the climax, which somehow he cannot quite master, why not do it yourself, while he is kissing and holding you? It's a great experience, also for him, and just as much shared as if his hand had done it.
    • Remember that everything in love is fair. It is wonderful to experiment together and find different ways of giving each other pleasure. Perhaps you have been far too passive so far, and have consciously or unconsciously expected him to do the work of making you come. The more active and outgoing you can be, and the more open you communicate your feelings (not necessarily in words), the greater will be the satisfaction you derive from your sessions together.
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    Kifulambute JF-Expert Member

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    mkojoleshe atakojoa