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7. Faithful:
Being truthful in any relationship is highly significant. The more you remain faithful to her, the longer the relationship stands.
If you ever cheat on her, no matter you do to win her lost faith for you, that one blemish will never let her believe you wholly.
It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t talk with other women, but your wife should always be the top priority
 
8. Dependable:
As a husband, you should be dependable, and this is something that all wives try to find in their spouses.
She should be able to depend on you, and you should be earnest enough not to let her down. The thing can as trivial as buying the grocery or making her decide or give her plans about how to plan her next girl’s party.
 
9. Strong Sense Of Humor:
Most girls out there are fun loving. They always look for a man who has a great sense of humor.
A boring or authoritarian partner is a strict no for her, but one who makes her laugh and giggle will easily win over her heart.
It’s difficult to find a guy who has a good sense of humor, and if you can be one for your wife, you’ve just hit the jackpot.
After a hard day at house or office, if you’re able to make her laugh or plan something crazy with her, she will be so happy to be with you.
 
10. Indulgence:
There’s one similarity between girls and kids, and that is they both love getting pampered. If you indulge your girl for no reason at all, your relationship will always go strong.
When you pamper your partner, it means a lot to her. It means you care for her, love her and want to see her happy.
When it comes to pampering, it’s not that your partner expects a lavish treat or an expensive gift. It can be as simple as giving a hug in the morning, sending a sudden love-filed letter or mail, making her bed tea in the morning. These small gesticulations of yours will make her blindly love you
 
Characteristics Of A Good Husband :
 
1. Be A Gentleman:
It is one of the prime characteristics that you should possess to be a good husband.
No matter what your wife tells, she will always love to be in a relationship with a gentleman.
There’s nothing huge or extravagant that you need to; you can kiss her before leaving the house or after coming back home, when she is busy with the shopping, you need to be patient enough and then carry her bags for her, when you go out on dates, make sure that you pay for them.
These simple things will make her deeply fall in love with you.
 
2. Be Courteous:
Respecting you wife is critical, as it will make her feel that you value her a lot. That your wife is a different person that you with her ideas and thoughts, you just need to acknowledge them.
You should never force her to follow your dreams or visions.
You need to keep your promises that you made to her and be punctual about your meetings or pick-ups
 
3. Avoid Cheating Or Lying:
You should never lie to your wife about anything other than the secret date party or birthday trip you have planned for her to surprise her.
One small lie in enough to destroy the relationship. You should also never cheat on your wife.
That will just devastate her and would mean the end of the relationship. If you feel that your love for your wife has diminished, give your marriage a second chance.
 
4. Be Active:
Most wives hate lazy husbands and by lazy it does not mean that you won’t watch the football match on Sunday evening.
Be active about daily activities. So, the next time you get the chance, clean the house or put away the garbage in the trash can and then notice the glimmer in her eyes.
 
5. Don’t Be Selfish:
Selfish men are a big no for women, and thus, you should never be one.
You should never prevent your wife from doing something if that brings fame or glory to her.
You need to learn the art of compromise which is not rocket science at all. There’s no shame in losing to your wife.
 
Mi mpaka sasa ndo sijielewi kabisaaaa,yaani sijui nipo single au vipi!!!?!! Maana wanawake wenyewe hawaeleweki
 
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Mi mpaka sasa ndo sijielewi kabisaaaa,yaani sijui nipo single au vipi!!!?!! Maana wanawake wenyewe hawaeleweki
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6. No Abuses:
You’re the person who is there to protect your wife and give her comfort.
Thus, if you abuse her, no matter physically or verbally, it’ll give a huge blow to your relationship.
While in an argument, you should never raise your voice or scream at her.
Sarcasm about something that you two are unable to come to a decision should always be prohibited.
Lastly, you should never
 
7. Make Her Feel Special:
You need to make her feel special. There’s nothing more pleasant for a wife when her husband pampers her.
Pampering doesn’t mean that you have but her prolific gifts. It’s just the small things she likes.
One of the best ways to pamper your wife is to forge a great and caring relationship with your in-laws, she will simply love this.
You can take her out on a sudden trip or surprise her with a small gift.
If your wife is into charity, you can simply write a cheque for the charity she support
 
8. Be Open:
There should never be any ifs or buts in your relationship. You should be open and easily approachable for your wife.
She should be able to share her darkest and dirtiest secrets without any fear of negligence or abuse. That you love to be intimate with her makes her feel like a princess.
 
9. Show Your Affection:
The sole reason you married her is that you love her. So you should always show her how much you love her.
If you’re still thinking how to do so, give her a hug or a little peck on her cheeks in the middle of a busy street and see how her cheeks turn red.
You come back from office, and you see her busy in daily chores or professional activities, wrap your arms from behind her and see how her eyes dazzle.
You can also surprise her by decorating your bedroom romantically before she comes to bed at night
 
10. Keep The Romance Intact:
Don’t assume that there’s no need to keep the flames of romance burning.
One of the prime ingredients to make a marriage work is a healthy romantic life. You can plan trips or at least dinner outings or a movie date once a month or so.
If she is an adrenaline junkie, how about skydiving or whale watching trips? If you’ve been in a relationship before your marriage, there’ll be so many memorable dates like the date you first met, the date you proposed, the date you first hugged or kissed and likewise.
If you remember these dates and celebrate them, your wife will be so happy. And last but not the least, the activities in the bed should be easy and enjoyable for both the parties and not just a regular activity.
You should try to ease your wife in as many different ways you can.
 
11. Be Supportive:
Your wife is a different entity with her career plans and way of living. You should be supportive towards her ideas and plans and lend a helping hand to complete them.
If you see your wife is awake at nights to finish her workplace assignments, you can sit beside her and give her company or make her a hot mug of coffee, and she will remember this gesture for a lifetime.
She is part of some cultural activity, and you visit the auditorium to cheer her, it’s a guarantee that she will treat you well for this.
 
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