Msimu wa mapenzi mubashara: Valentine's Quotes

Mimi kwako ni kipofu, nishike mkono tuvuke barabara, magari ni mengi na yanapita kwa kasi, siwezi kuona zaidi ya kusikia yakiunguruma, honi za magari siwezi kupima umbali wake, usiniache katikati ya barabara nitagongwa na kufa mara moja! Njoo niokoe nitagongwa mpenzi wangu! Forgive me dear...
 
Japo umeniuzi sina budi kukupa hizi pongezi, sijui umejifunza wapi mapenzi, hakika kwako mi ni mfungwa wa mapenzi! Nakupenza mpenzi nitunziye langu penzi!
 
Najua nimekukosea baby, lakini fahamu kwamba
haikuwa nia yangu kukupotezea furaha yako, nipe
nafasi nyingine moyoni mwako!
Nipe nafasi nyingine maishani mwako!
Nisamehe mpenzi wangu!
 
Najua una majonzi kwa kuwa uliyempenda
kakumwaga machozi kwa kukuacha ungali
walihitaji penzi lake, nimekuja mwokozi
kukufuta machozi kwakukupa la dhati
penzi. Nakupenda mpenzi amini sitalimwaga lako
chozi, na daima nitakuenzi.
 
What does your wife want to see in you? Why should your wife be proud of you even though you haven’t done something sensational? Here are a few things that you should remember:
 
1. Best Friend:
After your marriage, you’re the best friend that your wife has. So, make sure you become one in reality. Whenever she faces a problem, you need to make your best efforts to solve it along with her. If you’re facing one, you should always consult her first. It will only make the bond stronger.
 
2. A Good Listener:
Your wife spends the entire day away from you, may be at her workplace or house. The moment she meets you, she tries to bare her heart open to you. That’s the way to connect with you after a day of work. You should listen carefully and eagerly to whatever she has to say. But, make it a conversation and not just a monologue. You need to make her feel that you’re enjoying it, or you’re neglecting what she says.
 
3. Lover:
You should show your love for her. Your wife knows that you love her. But, the moment you make your affection for her visible, her joy has no bounds. You should always remember that it’s not just about the sex, as loving her means genuinely caring for her.
 
4. Sharing The Religious Faith:
You may be sharing the same faith with your wife, or you two may come from two different religious backgrounds. You need to respect her religious outlook and should try to make her days more memorable by new ways of spirituality, wisdom, and prayers.
 
5. Parenting:
Giving birth to your kid and starting your family is not an easy task. Besides the physical and monetary strains, there’s an emotional aspect also. You should always support your spouse’s decision and not force her to accept your decision and the baby. She may have plans for her career or may not be ready for some other reasons. In case, you have a different opinion, you can discuss with her and then change her attitude, but don’t force her.
 
6. Caregiver:
One of the vows that you took goes in the line that your wife’s responsibility is yours, and you should always keep those words to the fullest. You should always show proper care for her, and when she is sick or ill, she should be the most important person for you. She will never forget the things you’ll do for her when she gets ill and the vice versa also hold true. The hatred that will grow out of negligence will be hard to overlook.
 
7. Helping Your Wife Evolve:
A relationship is a give and take process. You should help her change as a person and make her better than before. It does not require changing her altogether; just help her mend the flaws she believes she has. She will also hold you in high regards for the same.
 
8. Loving Her Faults:
No single person in the world is perfect or has no flaws. It’s not the factor of beauty or nature; there can be issues with habits, behavior, etc. Every person is unique with her flaws, and you should embrace your wife with her flaws, and she should embrace you with yours. If she thinks that her weakness is not helping her, you can become her counsel and help her evolve, but don’t complain about her
 
10 Best Qualities Of A Good Husband:
One thing common to most girls irrespective of their nature. They always love to be loved, to be made feel special, to get the proper care from her partner. Yes, they do wait for their Prince Charming but girls these days are sensible enough to know that all men have their faults and drawbacks. And satisfying girls is not difficult as it seems or gets portrayed. The following qualities, if you’ve in you or you can grow them, your girl will be the happiest in the world.
 
1. Trust:
The basis of any relationship is trust and without this, no relationship can complete even a day.
The most important quality that you should possess to become the perfect husband is trustworthiness. With growing trust, the relation becomes stronger.
 
2. Passion:
If you support your wife’s passion and give time to fulfill her hobbies, she just can’t ask for anything more.
It does not mean that you’ve been part of her hobbies, going out for a walk or a jog or doing the groceries together.
Girls value these small things a lot, and it shows on her face and body. If you readily volunteer, she will be the happiest girl in the world.
 
3. Love For Kids:
All girls love kids, whether it is theirs or not. The same can’t be said about men, though.
If you share the same love that she has for kids, then you have struck the right chord in maintaining a healthy relationship and being a hero in her eyes.
It will also mean to her that you’ll become a great father, but this doesn’t mean that men who do not do so don’t become great fathers.
If you feel irritated having kids near you, your wife will not like that at all. But if you’re OK with making faces, pulling cheeks or bearing the caprices of the kids, you can keep her happy.
 
4. Good Communication Skills:
It is another important aspect of having a stable and fruitful relationship. If you’re able to connect with your wife without any ifs or buts, then you two have a strong bond.
All your confusions can get solved easily. She should be able to express her thoughts easily to you and the vice versa.
There should never be any communication barriers between the two. It will also keep your egos at bay.
 
5. Compassionate:
As you’re her pillar of strength and support, she should be able to cling on to you. It will only be possible if you support her.
You should listen to her problems, private or professional, and try to offer possible solutions.
Even if you’re unable to help, the eagerness and warmth are enough to melt her heart.
 
6. Compromising:
It is another key factor in a steady relationship. Both the parties in a marriage need to compromise to make it work.
Compromising doesn’t mean sacrificing a lot. Let’s say you chose to stay away from your night out when your wife is ill or facing some problems. It will make her sure that she’s your highest priority.
 
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