..am so sory Mary,mie siwezi kukupa ushauri ambao ni mzuri zaidi Kidaktari(..as am jst stl a MD-student..),ila ni better ukaonana na wataalam(..i.e Specialists in Ortolaryngology/ENT-Doctors...) wao wanaweza kukuchek na kukupa ushauri mzuri and even treatment if necesary Dada,kwasababu sabu tatizo la kusikia sources zake zaweza kuwa nyingi na tofautitofauti ,eg-organ of corti(..hii inahusika system nzima ya upokeaji na translation za sound waves ktk required waves),mayb problem iko ktk vifupa/bone ossicles,nervus trochleris,etc.,kwasababu huwa unasikia ktk mazingira fulani na conditions fulani emotionaly,naamini tatizo laweza kupatiwa ufumbuzi na Maspecialists(..quote Me,Specialists wa ENT na si Daktari yeyote tu,sabu koti jeupe haimaanishi ni tabibu bingwa ktk kila magonjwa..),pia Psychiatric Doctor anaweza kuwa msaada mkubwa kwa suala zima la kukugaidi kufaiti na ''flash back negative memories na kufokas in mor positive memories''..
Pia umemention suala la mziki wa sauti unaifekt ktk kusikia,..kama huwa unasikia maumivu fulani ukiwa karibu na sauti za juu za mziki,basi jaribu kumuelezea Doctor wako,anaweza kukushauri upime damu kuangalia ..''MENINGOCOCCAL INFECTION..'' ambao ni bacteria maarufu sana kusababisha ..''MENINGITIS''...ambapo sign yake ni kuogopa sauti za kelele/juu kwa sababu zinamumiza mhusika..,kwa ushauri wangu wa Kident naishia hapa,ila mchumba wako ajue kuna proverbs zinasema..''LOVE IS BLIND/LOVE DOESNT ASK WHY/LOVE KNOWS NO REASON/etc..'',so if He real loves U,zats not an excuse2leave U,sabu in zis life hakuna garantii,what hapens2I or2U2day might hapen2Him2moro,and am not so sure if He is gona propose4U2leave Him rather zan expectin ur ful suport...