Msaada tafadhali, ndugu yangu analewa sana

julmiranda

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Habarini wanaJF,

Nina ndugu yangu ni degree holder tangu 2013 hana kazi yoyote kasaidiwa sana na wanafamilia angalau afanye biashara hataki ye anataka kazi.

Tatizo lake sasa ni mlevi kupindukia ye hata interview anaenda yupo bwii kwahiyo hajaajiriwa mpaka leo, ni mtu ambaye anaonekana ana mawazo sana matokeo yake muda wote ye kalewa.

Sasa naombeni msaada namna ya kumsaidia binafsi nilifikiria tumpeleke mental hospitals lakini sijui details zake.

Nisaidieni waungwana
 
Mental hospital? Duh

Inaonekana ana addiction ya pombe mkuu. He needs some counseling
 
umeshajua bia anywazo chanzo kutopata kazi sasa unaangaika na madokta #mwaka wa nin,,,,,, mkazane mtafutieni ajira alaf mumchek km ataendelea kunyw ndo mwend kw kina #mwaka,,,, alaf biashar ckuiz nako kugumu JPM anakaba kodi bidhaa zote ni bei mpaka ukiweka dukani unakaa na mzigo hadi unasahau uliuchukua mwaka gan,,,, ni jins gan watu wa rejareja hawanunui wanaikimbia bei.
 
Msimtaftie kazi wala nn hyo ni chizi karogwa tena
 
Mwambieni anajichelewesha mwenyewe, atakuja kushtuka hiyo digrii haina soko, umri umeenda na hana pa kuanzia.
Ikiwezekana chongeni bango mlibandike sehemu anayopitia kila siku km njia ya kuelekea chumbani kwake.

duuuh....sasa.....sijui atakuwa na uwezo wa kutafsiri maana yake ilihali muda wote yuko bwiii

anyway...jaribuni
 
Tafuteni wataalamu wa saikolojia wamshauri.
 
Mumhamishe mji aka kae mbali na ninyi...ndipo atakapofanikiwa sana.
 
1. Poleni sana mkuu.

2. Hela za kunywea anapata wapi wakati hana kazi? Ondoeni chanzo cha hela za kunywea pombe kama mnakijua right away. Kama hamjui anakopata hela tafuteni hiyo source ili mkate huo mrija. Hata kama ni offers!

3. Kama itawezekana mbadilishieni mazingira ikiwa ni pamoja na kutafuta sababu ya kum-distruct na marafiki wake walevi.

4. Mtafutieni kazi. Inawezekana kuwa kwake jobless ndio chanzo cha yeye kuwa mlevi kupindukia. Anajiona failure. He may be depressed.

5. Anaonekana ana addiction ya pombe. He is abusing it. Kumpatia counselling ili apunguze na hatimaye kuacha kabisa itakuwa intervention muhimu sana katika kumsaidia huyo ndugu yako.

6. Msimtenge. Onyesheni kuwa mna mjali na kumsapoti ili aondokane na tatizo la ulevi.

7. All the best
 

4. Mtafutieni kazi. Inawezekana kuwa kwake jobless ndio chanzo cha yeye kuwa mlevi kupindukia. Anajiona failure. He may be depressed.
Hizo kazi si ndo anaenda kwenye interview tayari akiwa kitwanga
 
Mpeleke Dodoma kuna sangoma amefanikiwa kuwaachisha pombe watu watatu ninaowafahamu waliokuwa wamekubuhu kwa ulevi sugu
 
Sweet16 said:
Kuna mji wowote Tanzania hii usiokuwa na pombe au??
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Tatizo si Pombe...
Tatizo ni hao waliomzunguka kimsingi wana msimanga
Hata uzi huu ni aina mojawapo ya masimango.
 
Huyo ndugu yako ni SHE au HE?
 
Labda ana tatizo la kisaikolojia
mke anae?mchumba?
 
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