Make a message clear, don't play around.
Be open to her, it'll hurt her in the beginning but will serve her in the long run.
Kujiuma uma kwenu na kujizungusha ndo kunamfanya mtu afike hapa, kiasi mnashindwa cha kufanya baada ya kuharibu na kuishia haya ya hapa ili kupunguza matatizo. To have Peace, give her the power and let her believe she dumped you.
It's inconsiderate to just shut down. And more personable to communicate.