Men and women too, pass here please

[Atoto]

This thing is written as if the love life in the real world is a walk in the park.
Man, it's a mean world. Too mean to follow such rules!
Out here, the hustle is real. it's not all rainbows as they paint it to be. They gon break your blood pumping machine into very tiny pieces that you can never put them back together!
Get out of that fantasy bubble before it bursts!

Hivi wanaume nani alowaroga🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆

 

[Atoto]

You might as well say marriage is a one sided affair for which a man is subjected to an inane asceticism, and your espousal of the so called sacred scriptures is nothing but a pathetic attempt to brainwash men into thinking that it's justifiably normal to suffer for a woman.

And here we go.
No wonder......

 

[- kANA -]

Hivi wanaume nani alowaroga

Wanawake!

 

[Atoto]

Wanawake!

Oooh kumbe!!
Bado tu hadi leo mnakimbia vivuli vyenu?

 

[- kANA -]

I guess the bubble's bursted already..lol(kidding)
Almost everything you wrote is correct,but on the other hand everything good we desire in this world doesn't just walk by for us to get hold of it kizembezembe. You want anything good(good life, profitable business, travel the world,best holidays etc), you have to hustle and get shit done first; that's how you gon be rewarded.

This thing comes automatically, you don't even need to hustle. It's like a butterfly that will chill on your shoulder for no reason when you're busy with other stuff, while you could have spent a whole day in the park trying to catch one!

Maybe, the so called "hustle" means taking one heart break after another until you find your "Mrs. Right" or your "Mr. Right".

Most of the good guys end up being victims of this game despite following the rules. There is no actual blue print. Sometimes, i feel like we don't find love, love finds us!

Anyway, i fix broken bubbles. Don't you think you need me?

 

[- kANA -]

Oooh kumbe!!
Bado tu hadi leo mnakimbia vivuli vyenu?

Bora uishi kwa kukimbia kivuli, kuliko kuingia kwenye 18 za majike shupa ya mjini!

 

[mark girland]

Eek..!To me you sound somehow bitter.

Alittle bit off topic:if you do something for love it won't feel like a responsibility/suffering...learn to love first,the rest will unfold i believe.

I'm afraid you don't even know what you wrote. The gist of your thread is that a man is the one charged with the backbreaking task of bringing the best out of a woman, insinuating that women are less perfect than men.. Truthfully men are no more infallible than women, and therefore women are equally responsible for nurturing a relationship. The onus isn't solely on men.

 

[mark girland]

And here we go.
No wonder......

No wonder what?

 

[Atoto]

Bora uishi kwa kukimbia kivuli, kuliko kuingia kwenye 18 za majike shupa ya mjini!

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hamponi, sisi ni kama maji😉

 

[Atoto]

I'm afraid you don't even know what you wrote. The gist of your thread is that a man is the one charged with the backbreaking task of bringing the best out of a woman, insinuating that women are less perfect than men.. Truthfully men are no more infallible than women, and therefore women are equally responsible for nurturing a relationship. The onus isn't solely on men.

Kwahiyo wewe unapingana na nature si ndio?

 

[masterjuly77]

Mhhh! It's A Worthy Word BUT There's No Such Thing As Cultivating A Woman Into Someone Else You Would Like To Be, It'll Bring An Endless War Which Ultimately Would Bring End To The Relationship... Especially Those Enlightened Women ! Mark My Words, They're Untouchable...

Marriage Has No Laid Formula Which Literally Means Ways And Means You Applied To Your Way Of Living, Or Your Lifestyle Doesn't Mean Will Work For Others.

Both Husband And Wife Has To Sacrifice Some Behaviors So As To Accommodate The Other Into A More Commonly Related Ones For Each Other!

One With High Speed Should Slow Down For The Other To Catch Up And The Other Way Around... The Slower Should Speed Up So As To Catch Up The Other....

Most Importantly Is Good And Open Communication Between The Two Parties... Else Nothing Will Work Out...

 

[masterjuly77]

Weka kwa kiswahili basi wengine tuelewe

Wakati Ukisubiria Kwa Kiswahili, Tumia Google Ku Translate..

 

[masterjuly77]

Kwa Kweli Ni Somo Zuri Tena Tamu

 

[masterjuly77]

Emb Ikop Then U I translate Then Uitupie Tena Hapa...

 

[TALLMAN12]

I believe you haven't married yet,Once you get married hopefully you will understand well how the women is. I can say you are like Pastor who try to solve the problems of marriage people while he/she don't know exactly how the marriage is.

Absolutely......Especially Catholic who sworn in couples on the alter that " until death separates you" while themselves they dont know exactly which problems couples experience in marriages.......

 

[mark girland]

Kwahiyo wewe unapingana na nature si ndio?

Nature ipi hiyo inayomtaka mwanaume afanye kila kitu bila ya mwanamke kufanya chochote?

 

[Atoto]

Nature ipi hiyo inayomtaka mwanaume afanye kila kitu bila ya mwanamke kufanya chochote?

"Kila kitu" ukimaanisha na kuzaa kwa uchungu pia mnazaa? Hapo mmeambiwa yale yanayowapasa.

 

[mark girland]

"Kila kitu" ukimaanisha na kuzaa kwa uchungu pia mnazaa? Hapo mmeambiwa yale yanayowapasa.

Yanayompasa mwanaume ni pamoja na kubeba lawama kama mwanamke wake anazingua?

 

[masterjuly77]

Absolutely......Especially Catholic who sworn in couples on the alter that " until death separates you" while themselves they dont know exactly which problems couples experience in marriages.......

Not Catholics, It's An Oath For Marriage. Kama Hujaoa Sema Tukuambie!

 

[Atoto]

Yanayompasa mwanaume ni pamoja na kubeba lawama kama mwanamke wake anazingua?

Ndio, kichwa ndio kinapaswa kulaumiwa.