Men and women too, pass here please

[sonnita]

I believe you haven't married yet,Once you get married hopefully you will understand well how the women is. I can say you are like Pastor who try to solve the problems of marriage people while he/she don't know exactly how the marriage is.

thank you for the input..but am not like a pastor..i simply shared because i learned something from the content.
hope you too got something from it.

 

[sonnita]

Aisee mleta maada umeniacha bashite bashite huwez kutafasir japo kwa kifup

hahaha..pole sana. copy and paste Google translator..itakuletea lugha unayoitaka.

 

[sonnita]

Nimecheka mwenyewe, mana nilimefikiria jinsi wa bongo tulivyo wavivu kusoma hata kiswahili, sasa Leo ngeli mwanzoo mwisho nikajiuliza watasoma wangap

 

[sonnita]

Kwa kweli maana naona watu wanaserereka na the the the...hahaha

..usijali.natumai ntapata ya kiswahili next time ili nawe ujifunze.

 

[capitalpool]

The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence".
(1)So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden.
(2)The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear.
(3)The third thing God told man was "Cultivate"...... Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate her into the woman in your head. So you have been married for 20yrs and you still don't like the product you get, that's your fault.
(3a)If your wife is putting a little weight and you don't like that, don't criticize her; it's your job to wake her at 6am, " Hey baby, let's go jogging".
(3b)You don't like her dress? Take her to a boutique and buy her clothes you like.
(3c) She can't speak good English? Send her to school and pay her tuition fee. CULTIVATE HER!!!!
(4)The fourth thing God said to man was, "Guard the Garden". The man has to be the protector of everything under his care. That's why God gave you a stronger bone frame. A bigger muscle mass, not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.
(5)The last thing God gave man was his Word... God told man not to touch the tree; God never told the woman about the tree, NEVER!!!..... Which means it was the man WHO received the word of God and his job was to teach his wife the word of God.
NOTE: Nothing frustrates a woman like when she asks her man "So what do you think" and the dummy answers "what ever you think is OK"....or keeps quiet. ..Giving Silence...mmmm.
Don't do that bro, don't do that. She's looking for knowledge and direction. That was the last command God gave to man in Vs 17.
★Now watch this: in verse 18, God said, "It is not good for this man to be alone". Now, don't just read the statement fast, read it again slowly, " it is not good for THIS MAN to be alone".
WHAT MAN???
Answer : The man who is:
*In his presence
*Has a job (working)
*Can Cultivate you
*Can protect you
*Can teach you.
So here's the problem:
★ if you meet a man who doesn't like God's presence, isn't working, can't cultivate you, can't protect you and can't teach you, then.....
IT IS GOOD FOR THAT MAN TO BE ALONE! Full Stop!
Please pass this across the Youth, married and your loved ones.
Adopted By Apostle Pride Sibiya
Myles Munroe On Relationships And Marriage

It isn't so much about having a job before getting married. It's about knowing your partner enough and vice-versa and coming to a common agreement that finance and the Relationahip is a joint effort.

 

[Joseverest]

..usijali.natumai ntapata ya kiswahili next time ili nawe ujifunze.

Okay madam

 

[sonnita]

It isn't so much about having a job before getting married. It's about knowing your partner enough and vice-versa and coming to a common agreement that finance and the Relationahip is a joint effort.

"it isn't so much about having a job" well said.. that says to some extent it's about having a job,not so far from the article shared.

 

[capitalpool]

"it isn't so much about having a job" well said.. that says to some extent it's about having a job,not so far from the article shared.

True .. but my interest was right on that part of the article says .. that " God gave man work before giving him Eve".

 

[MODEMTECH]

Dr Myles munroe

 

[sonnita]

True .. but my interest was right on that part of the article says .. that " God gave man work before giving him Eve".

i understood you very well..but again it's true Adam was given work before Eve coming.(from a biblical view)

 

[Jing chu]

Principal ni ngumu kufata! Wengi tunafata mihemko.

 

[Atoto]

Hello dummies, how are you doing in here?

 

[Atoto]

Love and relationships don't have rules or guidelines.....it depends how you click together.
What works for 99.999999% of men/women in this word doesn't necessarily mean it will work for the remaining 0.000001%. Take time to understand each other and life can be beautiful.
But thanks for sharing this! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Hebu jisome tena, then rudi soma uzi.

 

[Sukari Yenu]

Sitaki hata kuendelea. Hapo pa kumuamsha tukapige jogging tu ugumu unaanzia hapo.

Hivi unamjua mwanamke wewe? Akisema siendi unamfanyaje?

 

[- kANA -]

This thing is written as if the love life in the real world is a walk in the park.

Man, it's a mean world. Too mean to follow such rules!

Out here, the hustle is real. it's not all rainbows as they paint it to be. They gon break your blood pumping machine into very tiny pieces that you can never put them back together!

Get out of that fantasy bubble before it bursts!

 

[mark girland]

You might as well say marriage is a one sided affair for which a man is subjected to an inane asceticism, and your espousal of the so called sacred scriptures is nothing but a pathetic attempt to brainwash men into thinking that it's justifiably normal to suffer for a woman.

 

[sonnita]

Sitaki hata kuendelea. Hapo pa kumuamsha tukapige jogging tu ugumu unaanzia hapo.

Hivi unamjua mwanamke wewe? Akisema siendi unamfanyaje?

..eti ivi unamjua mwanamke wewe?.. hahhhahhhahhaa.
Mimi ni mwanamke,nadhani nawajua wenzangu kiasi chake..tuko tofauti pia.
Kuna ambae atafurahi ukiwa concerned with her looks.
Ila kama bahati mbaya ulimpata mwenye gubu lazima unyooke sawasawa.

 

[sonnita]

Principal ni ngumu kufata! Wengi tunafata mihemko.

Sure,sababu dunia nayo imebadilika. Ila maagizo ya Mungu yatabaki palepale no matter what.

 

[sonnita]

This thing is written as if the love life in the real world is a walk in the park.

Man, it's a mean world. Too mean to follow such rules!

Out here, the hustle is real. it's not all rainbows as they paint it to be. They gon break your blood pumping machine into very tiny pieces that you can never put them back together!

Get out of that fantasy bubble before it bursts!

I guess the bubble's bursted already..lol(kidding)
Almost everything you wrote is correct,but on the other hand everything good we desire in this world doesn't just walk by for us to get hold of it kizembezembe. You want anything good(good life, profitable business, travel the world,best holidays etc), you have to hustle and get shit done first; that's how you gon be rewarded.

 

[sonnita]

You might as well say marriage is a one sided affair for which a man is subjected to an inane asceticism, and your espousal of the so called sacred scriptures is nothing but a pathetic attempt to brainwash men into thinking that it's justifiably normal to suffer for a woman.

Eek..!To me you sound somehow bitter.

Alittle bit off topic:if you do something for love it won't feel like a responsibility/suffering...learn to love first,the rest will unfold i believe.