mwisho2016
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- Jun 27, 2016
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am a 21 year old NRI female. My family are from the state of J and K but I was born overseas and raised overseas.
I was travelling solo in India for a while and decided to explore the Tinder scene. I just wanted some no-strings-attached type of fun on my holiday.
Just for context, I am physically attractive. I am a gym freak so I do have a toned and curvy body. So I had a feeling that finding hookups would be easy. It was.
But I wanted to hook up with someone whom I could also connect with. Intellectually I guess. I did swipe right on some guys who looked good and had the “Here for hookups” tag on their bio. But mainly, I was looking for guys that A. I was physically attracted to (That’s imperative to have good sex) and B. That seemed to be the type of person I could befriend as well.
I matched with this guy, let’s call him A. He was charming and had the most beautiful face ever! I could feel my girl bits tinkling with excitement just seeing him when we met. He carried so much sex appeal and I was drawn to him.
We met for lunch first at some place in HKV, Delhi. I was obviously so excited about meeting him that I insisted we met at a nice place where we could chat for ages and enjoy the view. We began talking and it was all good. However, we both knew that we just wanted to get into a room and rip each other’s clothes off. You just know.
A little bit into the conversation, he asked me if I am Kashmiri. I said yes. He knew that my family was Muslim and oh my goodness. This guy started going off at me about how Kashmiri people are traitors and vile creatures, etc. He expected me to agree since I was born overseas. He was just being a rude, disrespectful jerk.
I politely told him that I do not want to discuss the topic any further. We left and I unmatched, told him to find someone else and moved on. Whew.
I then matched with a nice 23 year old Engineer from Bangalore while I was travelling there. He was average looking but he had the most amazing wit and dark humour. I was struck! He also sounded like he was quite experienced. We met and he took me to his place. We had sex a few times that night! He was amazing in bed! Ticked all the boxes and seemed to know what to do to get me off. We agreed that it was a one time fun thing and the following day I moved on travelling and we bid adieu.
I matched with a few guys in Mumbai and I tell you. These guys were HOT. I found them incredibly sexy. But out of the three, only one was good in bed. The other two literally ripped off clothes, two minutes of foreplay, less than five minutes of sex and they turned around and put their clothes on right after. I mean I didn't expect cuddling or anything but they literally did not give one *** about my pleasure. It was about them and their orgasm and thats it. One of the guys told me that I gave him the best blow job ever and he literally grimaced when I asked for him to go down on me as well. I don't know why the guys were like this?
I met two guys in Delhi again before I left and we had a threesome. They however made some awkward moments because they didn't want their bits touching each others. It was not great but I fulfilled their fantasy well so at least theres that.
Overall, I went onto Tinder for hookups and casual sex and I got it. Whether it was good or not, thats a separate question. The guy from Bangalore definitely needs a medal for his work. I think it was easier for me because I was an attractive, young, NRI female who was up for literally anything. I don't know whether I’d ever go onto Tinder to date and find true love but I assume it could be harder to find someone like that.
I am back home now, finally. I enjoy the sex here a lot more. (I live in Australia)
A lot of guys are more experienced and educated about sex and about a female orgasm! People are also a lot more open here than in India. I told the guy from Mumbai that I was down to try anal while being handcuffed to his poster bed and he looked at me like I was crazy. Also, apart from the Bangalorian Sex God, every other hookup that I had in India lasted 7 minutes and less and in one position - Missionary. Tried doggy style with one of the Mumbai guys and he just couldn’t seem to get it in the right hole. I didn’t judge and I am not judging but just expressing that personally, I would probably be a bit more selective if
I was travelling solo in India for a while and decided to explore the Tinder scene. I just wanted some no-strings-attached type of fun on my holiday.
Just for context, I am physically attractive. I am a gym freak so I do have a toned and curvy body. So I had a feeling that finding hookups would be easy. It was.
But I wanted to hook up with someone whom I could also connect with. Intellectually I guess. I did swipe right on some guys who looked good and had the “Here for hookups” tag on their bio. But mainly, I was looking for guys that A. I was physically attracted to (That’s imperative to have good sex) and B. That seemed to be the type of person I could befriend as well.
I matched with this guy, let’s call him A. He was charming and had the most beautiful face ever! I could feel my girl bits tinkling with excitement just seeing him when we met. He carried so much sex appeal and I was drawn to him.
We met for lunch first at some place in HKV, Delhi. I was obviously so excited about meeting him that I insisted we met at a nice place where we could chat for ages and enjoy the view. We began talking and it was all good. However, we both knew that we just wanted to get into a room and rip each other’s clothes off. You just know.
A little bit into the conversation, he asked me if I am Kashmiri. I said yes. He knew that my family was Muslim and oh my goodness. This guy started going off at me about how Kashmiri people are traitors and vile creatures, etc. He expected me to agree since I was born overseas. He was just being a rude, disrespectful jerk.
I politely told him that I do not want to discuss the topic any further. We left and I unmatched, told him to find someone else and moved on. Whew.
I then matched with a nice 23 year old Engineer from Bangalore while I was travelling there. He was average looking but he had the most amazing wit and dark humour. I was struck! He also sounded like he was quite experienced. We met and he took me to his place. We had sex a few times that night! He was amazing in bed! Ticked all the boxes and seemed to know what to do to get me off. We agreed that it was a one time fun thing and the following day I moved on travelling and we bid adieu.
I matched with a few guys in Mumbai and I tell you. These guys were HOT. I found them incredibly sexy. But out of the three, only one was good in bed. The other two literally ripped off clothes, two minutes of foreplay, less than five minutes of sex and they turned around and put their clothes on right after. I mean I didn't expect cuddling or anything but they literally did not give one *** about my pleasure. It was about them and their orgasm and thats it. One of the guys told me that I gave him the best blow job ever and he literally grimaced when I asked for him to go down on me as well. I don't know why the guys were like this?
I met two guys in Delhi again before I left and we had a threesome. They however made some awkward moments because they didn't want their bits touching each others. It was not great but I fulfilled their fantasy well so at least theres that.
Overall, I went onto Tinder for hookups and casual sex and I got it. Whether it was good or not, thats a separate question. The guy from Bangalore definitely needs a medal for his work. I think it was easier for me because I was an attractive, young, NRI female who was up for literally anything. I don't know whether I’d ever go onto Tinder to date and find true love but I assume it could be harder to find someone like that.
I am back home now, finally. I enjoy the sex here a lot more. (I live in Australia)
A lot of guys are more experienced and educated about sex and about a female orgasm! People are also a lot more open here than in India. I told the guy from Mumbai that I was down to try anal while being handcuffed to his poster bed and he looked at me like I was crazy. Also, apart from the Bangalorian Sex God, every other hookup that I had in India lasted 7 minutes and less and in one position - Missionary. Tried doggy style with one of the Mumbai guys and he just couldn’t seem to get it in the right hole. I didn’t judge and I am not judging but just expressing that personally, I would probably be a bit more selective if
