Hii mada sidhani kama inahusu kama ushoga ni mila au sio mila ya kiafrika. Swala nilionavyo ni je, tukubali wazungu watupangie maamuzi yetu kutokana na hiyo "misaada" wanayotoa? Leo wanasema kama serikali za Africa hazitakubali kuruhusu ushoga basi watakata "misaada", je kesho watasemaje kama tutakubali kila wasemalo eti ilimradi tunataka "misaada"?
Ni fikra potofu kwa mwafrika kudhani eti kuvaa suti na tai ni ishara ya ustaarabu!
AshaDii, si mtu anazaliwa, anakuwa mkubwa bila kufanya modification yoyote anapendelea watu wa jinsia yake. Hajafanya sugery, wala hajaenda kwa mchungaji, just natural flow za feelings zake, sasa utasemaje kama sio natural? Kwa mfano wewe unavutiwa na watu wa jinsia nyingine from day go - naturally au ulifanya something🙂
Gavana, soma vizuri title ya post yako. Kuna neno 'abuse' meaning mmoja wa washiriki katika tendo hilo hakuridhia. Hapa hoja ni watu wawili wazima wameamua kwa ridhaa yao wenyewe wenyewe.HII KITU NI NATURAL ??? Roman Catholic sex abuse cases by country - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Gavana, soma vizuri title ya post yako. Kuna neno 'abuse' meaning mmoja wa washiriki katika tendo hilo hakuridhia. Hapa hoja ni watu wawili wazima wameamua kwa ridhaa yao wenyewe wenyewe.
Pili, sio kila mtu ni mkatoliki, au sio kila mtu anaamini mambo ya mungu. Wako watu wenye dini na wako wengine wasio na dini yoyote. You can not force your faith kwa watu wengine or even use it as a benckmark to judge others.
Nimekufahamu vizuri sana , hao mashoga huwa wanaanzwa toka wadogo na mwisho ndio huwa ni vigumeu kwao kuwacha
Mimi nilikutana na jamaa kutokea Croatia ambaye ni shoga na nilipomuuliza kwa nini yuko hivyo alijibu alikwenda Germany tokea mdogo kusomea upadri na kule ndiko jamaa wazee wa kanisa walianza kumtafuna , alipoanza kuwa open na kuanza kuzitoa siri wakamfukuza chuoni. hapo hakuna natural kuna artificial
What's artificial? Kwamba huyo mtu wako hakuwa na feelings zozote kwa watu wa jinsia yake? Na amebadili nini hasa kutoka natural kuwa articificial? Kwa mfano, wako wanawake wanaofanya breast implants ili kuongeza ukubwa wa maziwa yao, hapo tunaweza kusema kuna 'artificial' lakini kwa huyu rafiki yako sijaelewa what part of his body did he alter?
Au kama umefuatilia watu wanaotumia ugoro, wapo wanaoweka 'granules' mdomoni (nje kidogo ya meno) lakini wako wengine wanavuta (sniff). Lakini wote wanawinda the same pleasure ya raw-tobacco, the only difference ni kwenye means wanazotumia. Ni yupi kati hao utasema ni natural au ni artificial maana both wana mdono, meno, pua lakini kila mmoja anamua kutumia sehemu moja over the other.
Hivyo hivyo kwenye hii topic ya sexual preference, normal people wana both sides, and kila mtu anajua which side inampa maximum sexual pleasure. Sasa, hii defination ya natural inakuwaje?
Anti, naona tumeenda mbali kidogo na mada...
Hapa tunazungumzia zaidi huyu mama kugeuza sheria za nchi yake kwa kubadili homosexual acts kutoka katika "unatural and indecent acts" kwenda kua jambo la kuruhusiwa. Kwa hiyo ningependa tuendelee na kipengele cha kwanza zaidi, sio zile zingine (if you don't mind) Sijafurahia the way anajaribu kutumia misaada kama justification ya kukubali kua homosexuality is a right (right to chose the sexuality we want). Hapa I agree with you, empowerment is a process, na mtu hawezi kua empowered kwa namna US na UK wanataka kulazimisha. waache Africans tu-deal na mambo yetu at our own pace. But this struggle must continue untill all humans a free and equal.
Sasa kwenye taboo/legal: Kama unasema binadam ndio wanajenga sheria, basi kubali kua binadam wanao uwezo wa kupangua hizo sheria. Ikiwa sheria inanyanyasa wananchi, na sheria hiyo iwepo au isiwepo haina madhara kwa wanainchi wengine, basi sheria hiyo inapaswa iondolewe. Think about it bila bias: homosexual wanatupunguzia nini kama taifa? kumbuka they don't only live to have sex, they are human beings with all the functions in the society. but kila siku they live in fear and danger just because they chose 'the wrong" sexuality. wrong because it is said so, bila kuonesha ubaya wake kwa jamii uko wapi. Is this fair? take your time and think about this...
Kipengele cha pili kinahusu kulinganisha anal sex na oral sex/masturbation. Hapa nadhani kila mtu yuko huru kufikiria anacho taka, na tunaweza bishana hadi kesho sidhani kama utaweza kuni-convince kua using a dildo is more 'natural' than having anal sex.
Kipengele cha tatu kinahusu anal sex yenyewe. I wouldn't want to go in detail here... May I just suggest that you deepen your knoweledge about anal sex? Kumbuka, kuna heterosexuals wengi wanashiriki anal sex na hawatengwi na jamii for choosing "the wrong hole". only ikiwa same sex ndio inakua sababu ya kunyanyaswa, kutengwa na sometimes kuuwawa. If sex was to be 100% "natural", why is the sex industry prospering so much? with all these original toys and funny accessories?
AshaDii, si mtu anazaliwa, anakuwa mkubwa bila kufanya modification yoyote anapendelea watu wa jinsia yake. Hajafanya sugery, wala hajaenda kwa mchungaji, just natural flow za feelings zake, sasa utasemaje kama sio natural? Kwa mfano wewe unavutiwa na watu wa jinsia nyingine from day go - naturally au ulifanya something🙂