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By William E. May
The use of condoms to prevent transmission of a disease is intrinsically evil because
the object freely chosen that specifies the moral nature of the act is not the marital
act, an act in which husband wife give and receive one another and become literally
“one flesh,” but a different kind of act, one that in no way unites them but rather
changes utterly the “language of the body.” by William E. May, Michael J.
McGivney Professor of Moral Theology Pontifical John Paul II Institute for Studies
on Marriage and Family
William E. May
Michael J. McGivney Professor of Moral Theology
Pontifical John Paul II Institute for Studies on Marriage and Family
I will first consider the theological significance of the consummation of marriage
and then show how it bears on contraception and the morality of using condoms to
prevent HIV.
Before describing the Church’s understanding of the consummation of marriage, it
is important to recognize that, according to the teaching of the Church, marriage
comes into being when a man and a woman consent to give themselves to one
another irrevocably as husband and wife.[1] Thus the reality of marriage is in being
immediately once this consent is freely given, and this reality is a grace-giving
sacrament if the persons consenting to marriage are baptized Christians. The
technical term for a marriage brought into existence by the free consent of the
spouses prior to its being consummated is “ratified.” But marriage is not
consummated by consent, and the Church, as Canon 1142 in the Code of Canon
Law affirms, has the power to dissolve non-consummated sacramental marriages for
a just reason: “A non-consummated marriage between baptized persons or between
a baptized party and an unbaptized party can be dissolved by the Roman Pontiff for
a just reason, at the request of both parties or of either party even if the other is
unwilling.” “A marriage which is ratified and consummated cannot be dissolved by
any power or by any cause other than death” (Canon 1141).[2]Development in the
Canonical Understanding of “Consummation”But what consummates” a marital
union? Here there has been an important development in the canonical
understanding of consummation. In the 1917 Code of Canon Law the following is
the relevant canon:A valid marriage of the baptized is called ratified if
consummation has not yet been completed. It is called ratified and consummated if
between the spouses the conjugal act has taken place, to which the contract is
ordered by its nature and by which the spouses become one flesh (Canon 1015,
par.1).Canon lawyers understood the conjugal act by which the spouses become one
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flesh to be carnal copula, and canon 1081, par.2 further refined the description of
the conjugal act or carnal copula by which marriage is consummated by stipulating
that the copula must be an act per se apt for the generation of children, i.e., a
reproductive-type act. Peter Jugis has summarized the 1917 Code’s understanding
of consummation as well as the views of major commentators on the 1917 Code. He
shows that commentators on the Code were unanimous in affirming that the
conjugal copula which consummated marriage is a free human action dependent on
the will. But he emphasized that the only elements of this human action which
continued to be juridically significant for the consummation of marriage were the
physiological elements: penetration of the erect male member into the vagina of the
woman and deposit of true semen by the male member in the vagina. This was the
conjugal act by which the spouses became one flesh and by which the marriage was
consummated. The presence of absence of volitional elements was juridically
insignificant.[3]Thus, in applying Canon 1141 canon lawyer regarded carnal
copulation forced on one spouse by another without that spouse’s reasonable
consent an act consummating the marriage, with the result that such a marriage was
dissoluble only by death and hence could not be dissolved by the Roman Pontiff on
the grounds that it had not been consummated. In the revised 1983 Code of Canon
Law we find a much different juridical understanding of marital consummation. The
relevant canon in the 1983 Code is Canon 1061, which reads:A valid marriage
between baptized persons is said to be merely ratified, if it is not consummated;
ratified and consummated, if the spouses have in a human manner engaged together
in a conjugal act in itself apt for the generation of offspring: to this act marriage is
by its nature ordered and by it the spouses become one flesh.The source of this new
canon is the teaching of Vatican Council II on marriage. In a beautiful paragraph on
conjugal love the Council Fathers explicitly taught that conjugal love is uniquely
expressed and perfected in the conjugal act. Continuing, they declared: “Expressed
in a manner which is truly human (modo vero humano exerciti), these actions
signify and promote that mutual self-giving by which spouses enrich each other
with a joyful and thankful will” (Gaudium et spes 49). Commenting on this text,
Jugis writes:Due to Vatican II’s teaching on modo vere humano, canonists
completely reversed their thinking on the manner of intercourse which was
juridically appropriate for consummation. Prior to Vatican II the common canonical
view opinion for centuries had been that violent consummation with an unwilling
spouse validly consummated marriage….After Vatican II the common opinion of
almost all canonists became that a violent consummation with an unwilling spouse
did not validly consummate marriage.[4]Thus, in the 1983 revision of the Code of
Canon Law the teaching of Vatican II on conjugal love and the consummation of
marriage was codified in canon 1061,1, which reads as follows:A valid marriage
between baptized persons is called ratified only if it has not been consummated; it is
called ratified and consummated if the parties have performed between themselves
in a human manner the conjugal act which is per se suitable for the generation of
children, to which marriage is ordered by its very nature and by which the spouses
become one flesh.In applying this canon since the promulgation of 1983 Code,
canonists have regularly ruled that if the only carnal copula between spouses was
violently imposed on an unwilling spouse, the marriage was not consummated and
that therefore the Roman Pontiff had the power for just cause to dissolve such
unions.[5]
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A Theological Reflection on Marital Consummation
First of all, the act consummating marriage is one in which husband and wife,
literally becoming “one flesh,” form one procreative unit. It is, in short, a
procreative or reproductive type act, and remains this kind of act even if the
spouses, because of non-behavioral factors over which they have no control, for
example, the temporary or permanent sterility of one of the other, are not able to
generate human life in it. Their act remains the kind of bodily act “apt” for
generating human life. It is in fact the only kind of bodily act through which human
life can be given, for it is only in this kind of act that aman and a woman can
exercise their procreative powers; they cannot exercise those powers, as they can
their digestive, respiratory, and cognitive powers, as individual men and women,
nor can they exercise these powers in a bodily way with member of the same sex..
Moreover, non-married males and females can exercise their procreative powers in
acts of fornication and adultery because they are equipped with genitals. But they
do not have the right to do so because doing so violates the right of a child who can
be begotten to the home it merits. Such children are indeed precious and
irreplaceable human persons, but the act generating them does not properly respect
their personal dignity.[6] But as Paul VI points out in a much neglected and badly
translated passage of Humanae vitae, “the conjugal act, while intimately uniting
husband and wife, makes them fit (the Latin text reads, eos idoneos facit) of
generating human life according to laws inscribed into their very being as men and
women” (no. 12). This passage is badly translated in most English language editions
as “the conjugal act…makes them capable of generating human life…” This is
grossly inaccurate. Fornicators and adulterers, who have no right to generate human
life, are capable of doing so because they have genitals, but spouses have the right
to do so because they have made themselves fit or worthy to do so by giving
themselves irrevocably to one another in marriage.From this we can see that the
marital act is not simply a genital act or carnal copula between a man and a woman
who just happen to be married. It is rather an act that is uniquely capable of
expressing and perfecting their marital union. It is an act that is both unitive and
procreative.Can Spousal Contracepted Acts “Consummate” Marriage?As we have
seen, canonists, in their application of Canon 1061, conclude that an act of carnal
copula violently imposed on an unwilling spouse does not consummatemarriage
because this kind of act is notengaged in humano modo.I agree with them, but in
addition I am certain that an act of genital union between a man and a woman who
happento be married is also not engaged in humano modo,and consequently does
not consummate the marriage, if it is a contracepted act, that is, one that
intentionally violates the procreatve meaningof the conjugal act.[7] Thus in my
opinion, if every act of genital union between husband and wife has been
contracepted and if their marriage has not, for that reason, been consummated, it is
the kind of marriage that the Roman Pontiff can, for just cause, dissolve.My
argument that contracepted intercourse by spouses does notconsummate marriage
because, like violent sex, it is not engaged in “modo vere humano” is supported by
the text of Gaudium et spes 49 where “modo vere humano” appears, the text that all
concerned agree inspired the new canon on consummation. Here is the Latin text
with my emphasis in boldface.´”Actus proinde, quibus coniuges intime et caste
inter se uniuntur, honesti ac digni sunt et, humano vere modo exerciti, donationem
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mutuam significant et fovent qua sese invicem laeto gratoque animo locupletant”
[English trans. “Thus those acts by which spouses intimately and chastely unite are
honorable and worthy and, exercised in a truly human way, signify and foster their
mutual gift of themselves whereby they enrich each other with a joyful and grateful
mind”]GS51 continues by stressing the objective criteria “ex personae eiusdem
actuum natura desumptis”[English trans “drawn from the nature of the persons and
his acts”] that are to be used in harmonizing conjugal love and respect for human
life, and it emphasizes that these criteria “integrum sensum mutuae donationisac
humanae procreationis in contextu veri amoris observant quod fieri nequit nisi
virtus castitatis coniugalis sincero animo colatu.”[English trans. “observe the full
meaning of mutual gift and of human procreation in the context of true love that
cannot be done unless the virtue of conjugal chastity is seriously cultivated”] GS
51 then declares: “Filiis Ecclesiae, his principiis innixis, in procreatione regulanda,
vias inire non licet, quae a Magisterio, in lege divina explicanda, improbatu.”
{English trans. “It is not lawful for children of the Church, relying on these
principles, to use methods in regulating birth that the Magisterium has, in its
explanation of the divine law, repudiateD”]. And this is followed by the famous
footnote 14 that refers explicitlyprecisely to those passages in Pius XI’s Casti
Connubiiand Pius XII’s Allocutio Conventi Unionis Italicae inter Obstetricesof
10.29.51 where contraception is declared intrinsically and always evil. Moreover, in
Evangelium vitae 12 Pope John Paul II explicitly says that contraception by married
persons is a sin against the virtue of chastity. I believe that all these magisterial texts
support my conclusion that “modo vere humano exerciti”excludes contracepted
intercourse by married couples—as well as violent sex-- as an act that cannot
consummate marriage.This interpretation of humano modo is supported in my
opinion by another neglected passage from Humanae vitae,that namely in which
Paul VI first observed that everyone would agree that a conjugal act forced upon
one’s spouse would violate the right moral order and then went on to say that
similarly people should recognize that contracepted acts, i.e., those making use of
God’s gift of generating life while repudiating its end, are also acts that violate the
right moral order (see Humanae vitae,13).uHuHumI have discussed this issue with
two canon lawyers—Edward Peters, currently professor of canon law at Sacred
Heart Seminary in Detroit, and Rev. John
Doerfler, Chancellor of the Diocese of Green Bay who recently completed an
S.T.D. at the John Paul II Institute. They tell me that one major problem here is to
provide viable evidence that every act of sexual congress between spouses after
consent was indeed contracepted. They also pointed out that even if such acts would
not consummate marriage and that therefore such unions could be dissolved by the
Roman Pontiff on grounds of nonconsummation, there might be very good reasons
not to dissolve such unions--contracepting couples might seek to abuse this power
of the Roman Pontiff by deliberately contracepting each act of sexual congress with
the aim of having their marriages dissolved.Is It Intrinsically Evil for Spouses to
Use Condoms to Prevent HIV?On July 10, 2004 the noted philosopher/theologian
Martin Rhonheimer published an article in the London Tablet, “The truth about
condoms,” in which he argued that spouses could legitimately use condoms as a
means of preventing the transmission of HIV.” He argued that such use need not be
contraceptive, insofar as the moral object specifying their choice was not
necessarily to contracept.[8] I wrote a letter to the editors of the Tablet to reply to
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Rhonheimer’s essay but it was never printed. I sent Rhonheimer an email in which I
included a copy of the letter I had sent to the Table.In that letter I maintained that
condomistic sex between married persons was not the marital act but a perverted
sexual act. In fact in my email I said that the act was a perverted sexual act because
a free choice was made “to ejaculate deliberately into a rubber and insert the
rubber-covered penis into a vagina,” an act similar to masturbation. In replying to
my email Rhonheimer declared: “What really is chosen when a person uses a
condom to prevent infection is in my view is not ‘to ejaculate etc…’ but a marital
act.” He went on to say that since this act includes no contraceptive choice we can,
if we consider the intentional activity involved, conclude that “the unitive and
procreative meaning of the act are not separated.”[9]It should be noted that several
Cardinals agree with Rhonheimer, among them, Carlo Cardinal Martini, emeritus
Archbishop of Milan, Godfrey Cardinal Daneels of Belgium,[10] and Georges
Cardinal Cottier, O.P. former theologian to the papacy. It should also be noted that
in a talk in June 2005 to African bishops Pope Benedict XVI himself said that the
only “fail-safe” way to prevent transmission of HIV/AIDS was abstinence. His
exact words are the following: “The Catholic Church has always been at the
forefront both in prevention and in treatment of this illness. The traditional teaching
of the Church has proven to be the only failsafe way to prevent the spread of
HIV/AIDS. For this reason, ‘the companionship, joy, happiness and peace which
Christian marriage and fidelity provide, and the safeguard which chastity gives,
must be continuously presented to the faithful, particularly the young’" (Ecclesia in
Africa, 116).[11]What amazed me is that the position presented by Rhonheimer in
2004 had been set forth in 1987 in booklet published by the Catholic Truth Society
of England by James Alison, O.P. under the title Catholics and Aids: Questions and
Answers.[12]In fact I had, in June 1988, published an essay in the Fellowship of
Catholic Scholars Newsletter in which I noted that several theologians argued that
the use of condoms for such a purpose is not contraceptive, because the intent of
those who use condoms is not to prevent conception but rather to avoid the
transmission of a deadly disease. I agreed that such use may not be contraceptive
because the object freely chosen need not be to impede procreation. For instance,
assume that the husband of an aged married couple contracted HIV through a blood
transfusion. His wife was known to be past the age of childbearing so that there
would be no reason to use a condom for contraceptive purposes. Why waste money
to impede procreation when one realizes that although the behavior in question is
the kind of bodily union through which life can be transmitted (it is a procreative
kind of act) for factors independent of the agents’ behavior (e.g., sterility)
conception will not occur. But, I argued, “condomistic intercourse is, of itself, an
‘unnatural’ or perverted sexual act, and cannot be regarded as a true act of marriage.
In my 1988 essay I noted that the Catholic tradition repudiated condomistic
intercourse not only because it was usually chosen as a way of contracepting but
also because it was against nature. Older theologians judged that in such intercourse
the male's semen was deposited in a vas indebitum or "undue vessel" Although this
language is not in favor today, the judgment it embodied is, I was convinced, true.
When spouses choose to use condoms they change the act they perform from one of
true marital union (the marriage act) into a different kind of act. The "language of
their bodies," as Pope John Paul II would say, is changed. “In the marital act their
bodies speak the language of a mutual giving and receiving, the language of an
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unreserved and oblative gift. Condomistic intercourse does not speak this language;
it mutilates the language of the body, and the act chosen is more similar to
masturbation than it is to the true marital act.”[13]I agree with Rhonheimer that
couples using condoms to prevent HIV/AIDS may not be intending to impede
procreation, and thus their chosen act is not an act of contraception. Here I appeal to
the teaching of St. Thomas and Pope John Paul II to support this matter. Some acts,
as acts of nature may be contraceptive, but as St. Thomas and John Paul II make
clear, as moral human acts receive their moral speciesfrom the act freely chosen by
an agent. St. Thomas expresses this briefly in many texts, e.g., in Summa theologiae
2-2, 64, 7, where he declares: “actus autem morales recipient speciem secundum id
quod intenditur, non autem ab eo quod est praeter intentionem” [English trans.
“Moral acts receive their species according to what isintended and not from what
lies outside the scope of one’s intention].A particularly important Thomistic text on
this matter, making it crystal clear that the primary moral specification of an act is
rooted in the object freely chosen, is the following:Will can be considered in two
ways: (1) as intention (secundum quod est intendens), insofar as it bears on an
ultimate end; and (2) as choice (secundum quod est eligens), insofar as it bears on a
proximate object ordered to that ultimate end. If (1) will is considered in the first
way (as intending) the will’s badness suffices to make the act bad, for whatever is
done for a bad end is bad. But the goodness of the intending will is not sufficient to
make the act good because the act may be bad in itself (actus potest esse de se
malus) an act which in no way can be made good. But (2) if the will is considered
insofar as it is choosing (Si autem consideretur voluntas secundum quod est
eligens) then it is universally true that from the goodness of the will the act is said
to be good and from the badness of the will it is said to be bad.[14]John Paul II
made the same point in Veritatis splendor 78. There he declared:The morality of the
human act depends primarily and fundamentally on the ”object” rationally chosen
by the deliberate will(emphasis in original)….In order to grasp the object of the act
which specifies that act morally, it is therefore necessary to place oneself in the
perspective of the acting person (emphasis in original). The object of the act of
willing is in fact a freely chosen kind of behavior (emphasis added). To the extent
that it is in conformity with the order of reason it isthe cause of the goodness of the
will; it perfects us morally, and disposes us to recognize our ultimate end in the
perfect good, primordial love. By the object of a given moral act, then, one cannot
mean a process or an event of the merely physical order, to be assessed on the basis
of its ability to bring about a given state of affairs in the outside world. Rather, that
object is the proximate end of a deliberate decision [=choice] which determines the
act of willing on the part of the acting person (emphasis added here. I do so because
in this text what Aquinas called the “natural species” of the act, as distinct from its
“moral species” John Paul II calls “a process or event of the physical order, to be
assessed on is ability to bring about a given state of affairs in the outside world”).Be
that as it may, I now recognize that many couples who use condoms to prevent
transmission of HIV/AIDS also intend to contracept. After all, many of these
couples are young and fear that if a child were conceived it would be exposed to the
threat of a dread disease, and hence they would intend both to prevent the
transmission of HIV/AIDS and the transmission of life. But the major reason why
such use of a condom is always seriously evil is the following: if spouses who wish
to have intercourse use a condom to prevent HIV transmission, their choice is not to
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engage in the marital act because their freely chosen act is not unitive—that is, it
does not realize, express, and allow spouses to experience their unity as a married
couple.To be unitive the act chosen by the spouses must have at least two
properties: (1) It must be voluntary, done " humano veremodo "; (2) it must be
“actum per se aptum ad prolis generationem, ad quem natura sua ordinatur
matrimonium, et quo coniuges fiunt una caro”[15][English trans. “Anact per se apt
for generating life, to which marriage is by its very nature ordered”]. The Latin
phrase, “per se aptum ad prolis generationem,” can be described as“sexual
behavior that, if other necessary conditions are present (e.g., the fertility of both
man and woman), would result in conception.” From this it follows that if spouses
who are going to have intercourse use a condom to prevent the transmission of
HIV/AIDS, the act is always objectively wrong because they are choosing to
engage in behavior that would not result in conception if other necessary conditions
were present.The reason why proceeding with a condom cannot realize one-flesh
unity is that one-flesh unity is the oneness of the couple as the different but
complementary subjects of the same act, one that can be rightly called a
“reproductive” or “procreative” kind of act. Here I need to repeat something
affirmed earlier in this paper, namely, that the act consummating marriage is one in
which husband and wife, literally becoming “one flesh,” form one procreative unit.
It is, in short, a procreative or reproductive type act, and remains this kind of act
even if the spouses, because of non-behavioral factors over which they have no
control, for example, the temporary or permanent sterility of one of the other, are
not able to generate human life in it. Their act remains the kind of bodily act “apt”
for generating human life. It is in fact the only kind of bodily act through which
human life can be given, for it is only in this kind of act that aman and a woman can
exercise their procreative powers; they cannot exercise those powers, as they can
their digestive, respiratory, and cognitive powers, as individual men and women,
but only as a “mating couple,” in an act in which they in truth do become “one
flesh.”In summary, use of condoms to prevent transmission of a disease is
intrinsically evil because the object freely chosen that specifies the moral nature of
the act is not the marital act, an act in which husband wife give and receive one
another and become literally “one flesh,” but a different kind of act, one that in no
way unites them but rather changes utterly the “language of the body.”
[1]On this see Vatican Council II, Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the
Modern World (Gaudium et spes), 48; Code of Canon Law (1983 revised edition),
canon 1057.
[2]I cannot here explore the very important (and difficult) theological question,
“what does consummation add that makes marriage absolutely indissoluble so long
as the spouses are alive.”
[3]Peter Jugis, A Canonical Analysis of the Meaning of Humano Modo in Canon
1061.1 (of the 1983 Code of Canon Law): The Catholic University of America
Canon Law Studies No. 541 (Washington, D.C.: 1992), p. 131. See also pp.
121-122.
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[4]Ibid, p. 280.
[5]Jugis devoted ibid, pp. 244-346 to demonstrate that this is indeed the case.
[6]On his see St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa contra gentiles, Bk 3, ch. 122; Karol
Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility, trans. H. Willetts (New York: Farrar,
Sraus,Girous, 1980; reprinted Ignatius Press), ch. 4.
[7]I emphasized the word “contacepted” to show that contraception is itself not a
genital act (contraceptive intercourse) but an act of genital union in which those
engaging in it have done something prior to, during, or subsequent to their chosen
genital act,precisely to impede procreation (see Humanae vitae 14).
[8]Martin Rhonheimer, “The truth about condoms,” Tablet 0/07/04.
[9]In an email to me dated Wednesday August 04, 2004.
[10]For the views of Martini and Daneels see an Associated Press release dated
4.04. pm ET, A April 21, 2006 available at
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12424425/. For Cottier, see Catholic News at
http://www.cathnews.com/news/502/10.php.
[11]The text of Pope Benedict XVI’s Address to the Bishops of South Africa,
Botswana, Swaziland,Nambia and Lesotho on their “Ad Limina Apostolorum” Visit
on June 10 2005 is found on the official Vatican website at
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/speeches/2005/june/documents/hf_
ben-xvi_spe_20050610_ad-limina-south-africa_en.html. The relevant paragraph is
n. 4.
[12]Alison subsequently left the Dominicans and is now living in Canada.
[13]William E. May, Fellowship of Catholic Scholars Newsletter 11.3 (June 1988).
[14]St. Thomas, In II Sent. 40, 1, 2c: “…voluntas dupliciter potest considerari: vel
secundum quod est intendens, prout in ultimum finem fertur; vel secundum quod est
eligens, prout fertur in obiectum proximum, quod in finem ultimum ordinatur. Si
consideretur primo modo, sic militia voluntatis sufficit ad hoc quod actus malus
esse dicatur, quia quod malo fine agitur malum est. Non autem bonitatas voluntatis
intendentis sufficit ad bonitatem actus; quia actus potest esse de se malus, qui nullo
modo bene fieri potest. Si autem consideretur voluntas secundum quod est eligens,
sic universaliter verum est quod a bonitate voluntatis dicitur actus bonus, et a
malita malus.”
 
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Kwa hakina mama, kwenye kondomu kuna vilainishi (Gelly), hivi vilainishi ni chakula cha fangas aina ya chramidy, wakati wa kuvaa kondomu unatakiwa hiyo gelly iwe kwa nje ili isaidie uume kungia kwenye uke, hapo ndipo wadudu hao wapoingia kwa mwanamke

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Wengi wametaka ushahidi, nao ni huu, uume kawaida uwa unatanuka na kuwa mkubwa, hii inafanyika kwa msaada wa elastic nerve (misuli), unapokuwa umevaa kondomu hizi nerve huwa zinasukuma plastic ya kondomu ili uume utanuke, na hapo hapo mpila nao unasukuma hizo nerve ili uume usinyae, hatimaye misuli inachoka na kuacha kutanua mboo, matokeo yake kila unapotaka kuingiliana na mwanamke ni lazima unywe dawa,

Kwa hakina mama, kwenye kondomu kuna vilainishi (Gelly), hivi vilainishi ni chakula cha fangas aina ya chramidy, wakati wa kuvaa kondomu unatakiwa hiyo gelly iwe kwa nje ili isaidie uume kungia kwenye uke, hapo ndipo wadudu hao wapoingia kwa mwanamke

wanawake wengi huwa wanajipangusa kwa leso, gelly hii inanata sana haitoki, hata Ukiosha kwa sabuni inajibanda kwenye kuta za uke na kuwasaidia wadudu kuzaliana. Hapo ugonjwa unaingia .Hapo panatosha,

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CONDOMS ARE DANGEROUS
A lot of people have a great trust in condoms in order to avoid HIV virus infection. They
are sure or confident that if they wear condoms while having sex, nothing happens to
them. However this is not true. Besides the fact that ccondoms are immoral, condoms are
also very dangerous. In fact:
1. If your partner is infected, or if some of your partners are infected, you will
catch HIV virus in a short while. The reason is that in one year time you can not
avoid some of the following facts, and it is sufficient it happens just once in order to
catch HIV virus:
A. Condoms will break. In fact condoms have a very high percentage of breakage (36%
of those using condoms experience breakage in USA)
B. Condoms will slip away. In fact condoms have a still higher percentage of slippage
(44% in USA).
C. You might buy a condom that is not suitable to your penis, with unforseen
consequences of breakage and slippage. In USA 50% of those using condoms are
used to make such a mistake.
D. You are not able to follow all the instructions in order to use condoms correctly. Do
you know what are they? Here are the instructions given by SIECUS in USA:
• "A new condom is used every time a person has sexual intercourse.
• The condom is put on after the penis is erect and before it touches any part of
partner's mouth, anus, or vagina.
• If the condom breaks during sexual intercourse, the penis should be withdrawn
immediately, and a new condom should be put on the penis.
• Withdraw from the partner immediately after ejaculation, holding the condom
firmly to the base of the penis to keep it from slipping off, so no semen is spilled.
• Water-based lubrication should be used to prevent condoms from breaking; oilbased
lubricants such as cooking or vegetable oils, baby oil, hand lotion, or
petroleum jelly should never be used with latex condoms. They can cause the
condom to break.
• Condoms should be stored in a drawer or closet, somewhere cool, dry, and out of
direct sunlight. Changes in temperature, rough handling or age can make the latex
brittle or gummy. Never use condoms that are damaged or discolored, brittle, or
sticky. Do not store them in a wallet or car glove compartment for a long time."
(1-10-13-16-27-30-37-39)
E. To avoid HIV virus it is necessary to use condoms all the times you have sex.
However very hardly you will be able to always use condoms? In fact in USA 83% of
those using condoms are not using it consistently. Do you know why? Here we have
some reasons reported by the people in USA:
• 'I can't find one that fits.'
• 'Sex doesn't feel as good.'
• 'Condoms cut off my circulation.'
• ‘I forgot to bring it'
• ‘I forgot to buy it'
• It is unpleasant to wear condoms
F. You might buy condoms which are not suitable to stop HIV Virus. In order to make
money your condoms seller might advise you that any condoms are suitable to stop
HIV virus, instead they are not: latex condoms only are suitable to stop HIV Virus.
G. You might buy condoms that are defective. Just for your knowledge the USA are
powerless so far against those firms smuggling defective condoms into them.
H. You might use condoms with spermicides, because they convince you that such
condoms are much more effective. Instead condoms with spermicides are spreading
rather than stopping AIDS.
I. When you are used to have sex, you will have sex at any cost, even though condoms
are not available or are not suitable to you, or are already used., or are already
damaged.
J. You will find impossible to always withdraw immediately after ejaculation.
CONCLUSION: if by chance your partner is already affected by HIV Virus and
you make only one mistake, you are finished. The only solution is to be faithful to
your spouse if you are married, and to be chaste (or abstinent) if you are not
married.
Do not forget: if you use condoms, you are not protected from catching other sexual
transmitted Diseases.
CONDOM IS IMMORAL:
• Married people can not use condoms, because they can not misuse the power
to give life they received from God.
• Married people can not use condoms outside marriage, because God said"
"You can not commit adultery."
• Single people can not used condoms, because God said also to them: "Yu can
not commit adultery."
Edited by DIOCESAN FAMILY CENTRE
P.O. Box 205 - Vanimo 551 – Sandaun Province – T. 8571224
December 2001
 
Wengi wametaka ushahidi, nao ni huu, uume kawaida uwa unatanuka na kuwa mkubwa, hii inafanyika kwa msaada wa elastic nerve (misuli), unapokuwa umevaa kondomu hizi nerve huwa zinasukuma plastic ya kondomu ili uume utanuke, na hapo hapo mpila nao unasukuma hizo nerve ili uume usinyae, hatimaye misuli inachoka na kuacha kutanua mboo, matokeo yake kila unapotaka kuingiliana na mwanamke ni lazima unywe dawa,

Kwa hakina mama, kwenye kondomu kuna vilainishi (Gelly), hivi vilainishi ni chakula cha fangas aina ya chramidy, wakati wa kuvaa kondomu unatakiwa hiyo gelly iwe kwa nje ili isaidie uume kungia kwenye uke, hapo ndipo wadudu hao wapoingia kwa mwanamke

wanawake wengi huwa wanajipangusa kwa leso, gelly hii inanata sana haitoki, hata Ukiosha kwa sabuni inajibanda kwenye kuta za uke na kuwasaidia wadudu kuzaliana. Hapo ugonjwa unaingia .Hapo panatosha,
nakubalia mkuu......lazima tukubali wakuuu hizi ndomu ni mbaya sana....nani anakumbuka zile Sultan condom? zile ulikuwa ukitumia baadae unaanza kuwashwa na mwanamama nae ndio usiseme......wengi wamekuwa wakiumwa tumbo,kwuashwa sehemu nyeti na nadhani zina sababisha kansa ya kizazi.....

......mimi wazungu siwaamini hata chembe kuna wakati ilisemakana kuwa ndomu zina virus.....ila kwa sasa nimesitisha kabisa matumizi ya condom.......ubarikiwe kaitaba kwa kutufunua macho....
 
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karibu sana ila ujue kuwa hapa si mahali pa kuleta vitu visivyo na tafiti,
kama huwezi nenda kajiunge blog ya dinna marios
 
kuna aina nyingi za kujitambulisha,
karibu sana ila ujue kuwa hapa si mahali pa kuleta vitu visivyo na tafiti,
kama huwezi nenda kajiunge blog ya dinna marios
mkuu tafiti sio lazima zitolewe an WHO ndio huamini......condom zina madhara mashori wengi wanalalamika kuwashwa wakishazitumia na matumbo kuwauma.....unataka madhara gani tena? na kwa maelezo ya kaitaba nakubaliana nae upo uwezekano wa wanaume mashine kuwa goi goi.....
 
Side Effects of Condoms
The majority of people don't experience any side effects from using a condom. However, people with an allergy to latex may find condoms to be irritating. If you are using a condom with spermicide and have a latex allergy, this discomfort may be even worse. Using condoms without spermicide and/or using polyurethane or natural skin condoms should help you avoid an allergic reaction.

It is important to note, though, that polyurethane condoms are more likely to break while natural skin condoms are more expensive than other types of condoms. They also do not protect against any sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Additionally, condoms, particularly those that contain spermicide, can increase your risk of a urinary tract infection.

Although it is not really a side effect, many men find that using a condom reduces their sensitivity during sex and therefore prefer not to use them. Other men find it difficult to maintain their erection while putting on a condom or during intercourse. In some cases, both partners can feel that using condoms can ruin the spontaneity of sex.

To Use or Not to Use
Condoms that look old, worn, dry or brittle should be thrown out. Any condoms that have obvious damage should also be put into the garbage. Since heat can weaken latex condoms, store your condoms out of direct sunlight or near other sources of heat. All condoms come with an expiration date (marked as "Exp") and should not be used after this date.

If you cannot find the expiration date on the box, then look for the date of manufacture (marked as MFG). Latex condoms that contain spermicide should not be used more than two years after the manufacture date. Condoms that do not contain spermicide can be used up to 5 years after the manufacturer's date.

A new condom must be worn each and every time you have oral, vaginal or anal sex as well as when you change the type of sex you have. For example, if you choose to suck on a condom-clad penis (and using flavored condoms may make the experience more enjoyable), you should put on a new condom if you switch from oral sex to vaginal sex.

Source: CONTRACEPTIVES: Male Condoms
 
Source of information? Mbadala? Tafiti hii kama ni ya kweli inaweka wapi mapambano dhidi ya magonjwa ya zinaa? Weka source hadharani tafadhali tujichukulie knowledge.

Ndugu yangu, njia ya kuepuka magonjwa ya zinaa ni kuacha kufanya mapenzi nje ya ndoa, na kuwa na mpenzi mmoja mwaminifu tu, hizo njia nyingine madhala yake ni kama nilivyoeleza.
 
Yaani umejiunga JF kueneza upumbavu? Lete huo utafiti hapa watu wakuumbue.

Mzee usiwe na jaziba, kwa waliosoma physics wataelewa kitu kinachoitwa resultant force, hicho kitu ndicho kinachofanyika, yaani misuli ya uume inatanua uume, na wakati huo condomu inazuia kwa kuibana mboo, matokeo yake misuli inachoka kutanua uume na ndo mwanzo wa kukosa nguvu za kiume.
 
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NDIO UTAFITI ULIOULETE HAPA KUTOKA NA MAGONJWA ULIYOPATA AU? UMEPATA WAPI? AU UNAKURUPUKA TU SEMA KUNA MA DR. WANATAKA WAKUCHALENGE HAPA.

Ushaidi wa kibiologia nimeishautoa, kuwa ukitumia condomu, misuli inatanua uume na hapo hapo condomu inazuia kutanuka kwa uume, matokeo yake misuli inachoka na kuacha kutanua huo uume, ndipo tatizo linapoanza la kushindwa kudinda. elewa kuwa hata waliozitengeneza hawazitumii.
 
nakubalia mkuu......lazima tukubali wakuuu hizi ndomu ni mbaya sana....nani anakumbuka zile Sultan condom? zile ulikuwa ukitumia baadae unaanza kuwashwa na mwanamama nae ndio usiseme......wengi wamekuwa wakiumwa tumbo,kwuashwa sehemu nyeti na nadhani zina sababisha kansa ya kizazi.....

......mimi wazungu siwaamini hata chembe kuna wakati ilisemakana kuwa ndomu zina virus.....ila kwa sasa nimesitisha kabisa matumizi ya condom.......ubarikiwe kaitaba kwa kutufunua macho....

Nakushukuru ndugu yangu, na wengine wangekuwa kama wewe magonjwa yangepungua sana. UBARIKIWE NAWE PIA
 
kuna aina nyingi za kujitambulisha,
karibu sana ila ujue kuwa hapa si mahali pa kuleta vitu visivyo na tafiti,
kama huwezi nenda kajiunge blog ya dinna marios

Kama unafanya biashara ya kuuza condomu samahani kwa kuingilia biashara yako, hata hivyo usiwe na wasi wasi wengi wataendelea kununua hata baada ya kuwaeleza madhara yake maana naona natupiwa madongo sio kawaida, na wakati watu wanaendelea kukosa nguvu za kiume na wake zao wanaenda nje na kuzoa ukimwi.
 
Wengi wametaka ushahidi, nao ni huu, uume kawaida uwa unatanuka na kuwa mkubwa, hii inafanyika kwa msaada wa elastic nerve (misuli), unapokuwa umevaa kondomu hizi nerve huwa zinasukuma plastic ya kondomu ili uume utanuke, na hapo hapo mpila nao unasukuma hizo nerve ili uume usinyae, hatimaye misuli inachoka na kuacha kutanua mboo, matokeo yake kila unapotaka kuingiliana na mwanamke ni lazima unywe dawa,

Kwa hakina mama, kwenye kondomu kuna vilainishi (Gelly), hivi vilainishi ni chakula cha fangas aina ya chramidy, wakati wa kuvaa kondomu unatakiwa hiyo gelly iwe kwa nje ili isaidie uume kungia kwenye uke, hapo ndipo wadudu hao wapoingia kwa mwanamke

wanawake wengi huwa wanajipangusa kwa leso, gelly hii inanata sana haitoki, hata Ukiosha kwa sabuni inajibanda kwenye kuta za uke na kuwasaidia wadudu kuzaliana. Hapo ugonjwa unaingia .Hapo panatosha,
Source?

Maneno nerve na misuli umeyatumia kana kwamba yana maana sawa.

Misuli italegea au kupungua nguvu yake ikiwa itaachwa kutumiwa. Mechanism ya erection sio simple kama ilivyo kazi ya misuli sehemu nyingine za mwili; hata hivyo, sidhani misuli ya uume itachoka kwa sababu ya kubanwa.

Wapo wanaoamini kwamba mwanamke akivaa bra kila wakati matiti yataanguka mapema. Hii si kwa sababau matiti yamebanwa, ila kwa sababu misuli imekosa kazi (haitumiwi).
 
nakubalia mkuu......lazima tukubali wakuuu hizi ndomu ni mbaya sana....nani anakumbuka zile Sultan condom? zile ulikuwa ukitumia baadae unaanza kuwashwa na mwanamama nae ndio usiseme......wengi wamekuwa wakiumwa tumbo,kwuashwa sehemu nyeti na nadhani zina sababisha kansa ya kizazi.....

......mimi wazungu siwaamini hata chembe kuna wakati ilisemakana kuwa ndomu zina virus.....ila kwa sasa nimesitisha kabisa matumizi ya condom.......ubarikiwe kaitaba kwa kutufunua macho....
Mkuuu umesitisha tu matumizi ya Condom au umeacha kabisa uzinzi si umemrudia bwana mkuu au nilikuwa naota tuuuuuuu....
 
tahadhali inatolewa kwa wote wanaotumia condomu kuwa, utafiti umefanywa na umethibitisha kuwa ukitumia condomu kwa muda mrefu wanaume watakosa nguvu za kiume na hii imepelekea vijana wengi kutumia viagra sana au kupiga bao moja tu, kwa upande wa hakina dada wanaugua fangasi sehemu za siri na kuwashwa sana na kutokwa maji maji machafu na yanatoa harufu mbaya. Kazi kwenu.


sasa tupige kavukavu ama..............
 
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