Kuchapa watoto

ERoni · Nov 3, 2014

kui said:
Eli79 said:

...obviously number 2!, 100%, number 1 is vividly verbal abuse, big time!

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....see now? that's exactly my point..
and that's what most parents do, they verbally abuse children..japo hawawachapi lakini wanawaharibu zaidi..!

kui · Nov 3, 2014

Eli79 .... hata kama age yake is okay kumchapa, personally, I don't think I can do it!, halafu Kibongo bongo as you mentioned na matusi juu!, kosa gani Mtoto anafanya mpaka kutukanwa?!, that's so not teaching them,that's just KILLING THEIR SELF CONFIDENCE!

kui · Nov 3, 2014

Eli79 said:
kui said:

....see now? that's exactly my point..
and that's what most parents do, they verbally abuse children..japo hawawachapi lakini wanawaharibu zaidi..!

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Mkuu, wengine ni kuchapwa na matusi juu!, how can you call a kid 'kum..', sijui 'matak...', wengine ndo kabsaa, mtoto toka mchanga anaanza kuitwa majina ya ajabu kama ME basi Jambazi na kama KE basi Malaya.
Tukubali tukatae, jamii yetu haitendei haki watoto.

kichunafk · Nov 3, 2014

kui said:
I couldn't agree more, si unaona mkuu you didn't go from 0 to 100 in a second, uliongea nao kwanza and when that didn't work you moved to 'an advanced level of punishment', halafu hata umri wao unafaa for that kind of punishment. To top all that ukaweka zawadi kwa anayefanya vizuri, incentives is HUGE!, for kids!, na sasa wanajileta wenyewe kwako kukuonyesha vitabu vyao. Ungekuwa mkali from the beginning wasinge tamani hata kurudi nyumbani kwenye bakora.

sikubaliani na atakayepinga adhabu za bakora moja kwa moja ingawa pia sipendi kupiga mtoto kama mbwa mwizi au kama unapiga mkubwa mwenzako.
Na hata fimbo zinaendana na umri na kosa la mtoto.
Na fimbo isiwe ndo kosa limeanza tu, na hapo hapo fimbo zinatumika inakuwa si nzuri.
Sijalelewa kwa kuchapwa ingawa nilishachapwa kama mara mbili na baba, nilicjapwa sababu nlikuwa narudia yale ninayokatazwa na mpaka nichapwe basi nakuwa nimepitiliza.
Nami najitahidi kuchukua mazuri ya walezi wangu katika kulea hawa watoto.
Fimbo ni adhabu ya mwisho kabisa

kichunafk · Nov 3, 2014

kui said:
Eli79 said:

Mkuu, wengine ni kuchapwa na matusi juu!, how can you call a kid 'kum..', sijui 'matak...', wengine ndo kabsaa, mtoto toka mchanga anaanza kuitwa majina ya ajabu kama ME basi Jambazi na kama KE basi Malaya.
Tukubali tukatae, jamii yetu haitendei haki watoto.

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ukitaka ugombane na mimi unitukanie watoto wangu.
Naweza sema yote lakini si kuwatukana kwa kweli. Hata waniudhi vipi, matusi hawatasikia kwangu.
Unavyomtukana mtoto unamfanya aone matusi ni ya kawaida na ni rahisi kwako kuiga na kuyasema akiwa na wenzake.

sawabho · Nov 3, 2014

Honey Faith said:
Kweli tena kuna watoto bila viboko hawaelewi

Nakuunga mkono Mkuu, hizo nchi zilizojidai kuondoa achabu kwa watoto mfano USA mbona tunashuhudia mtoto akichukua bunduki na kwenda kuwashambulia wenzake. Mimi mwanangu akikosa. ni kichapo kwenda mbele, asipokosa ni rafiki pili baada ya Mama/ Baba yake.

RR · Nov 3, 2014

Mitoto?? Hahahahaa...sounds like you have given up....
Kama ikibidi kuchapa kufanywe sio kwa nia ya kudhuru mwili....ni vema akichapwa ajisikie vibaya kwa kosa lake...na sio kuumia.
Binafsi mara chache nachapa.....

The Boss said:
Kuna mitoto usipoi chapa haiendi kabisa

BAK · Jan 4, 2017

Hongera sana kwa hilo hukuwa mtoto mtukutu. Kuna watoto wanazaliwa Baba mmoja Mama mmoja lakini kitabia wako tofauti kabisa hivyo kuna wengine wanahitaji kuchapwa. Ila mimi binafsi sipendi kipigo cha mbwa mwizi au corporal punishment. Kama kuchapa basi iwe ni kiasi na pia si kuchapa ile ya kupiga hovyo hovyo tu kwa hasira ambayo inaweza kabisa kumuumiza mtoto na badala ya kumrekebisha anakuwa sugu na labda kuharibika zaidi..

kui said:
....sikumbuki kuchapwa mkuu!, nakumbuka kugombezwa sana but si kuchapwa, and I came out pretty good...lol!

kui · Jan 4, 2017

BAK said:
Hongera sana kwa hilo hukuwa mtoto mtukutu. Kuna watoto wanazaliwa Baba mmoja Mama mmoja lakini kitabia wako tofauti kabisa hivyo kuna wengine wanahitaji kuchapwa. Ila mimi binafsi sipendi kipigo cha mbwa mwizi au corporal punishment. Kama kuchapa basi iwe ni kiasi na pia si kuchapa ile ya kupiga hovyo hovyo tu kwa hasira ambayo inaweza kabisa kumuumiza mtoto na badala ya kumrekebisha anakuwa sugu na labda kuharibika zaidi..

Uwii, kitambo sasa na hii.
Thanks BAK ni kweli,..was a good kid.🙂

Na hao wanaochapa kama vile anapiga mtu mzima, asee hapana kwa kweli. Na kama unavyosema wanaweza kuharibika zaidi.
Yaani kuchapa watoto sijakubaliana nayo.

gifted mind · Jan 4, 2017

The Boss said:
Kuna watoto ni very manipulative...na very tricky....akijua hakuna kuchapwa..ni usumbufu 24/7....nina relative ambao hawachapi watoto...hawawezi hata kuongea na wageni kwa kitulia...watoto wanataka attention all time...

Inakera sana hii kitu...Mimi nishaweka rules kwangu na zinafahamika tangu wanakua.Ukiona nina mgeni salimia then chapa lapa.Kinyume na hapo kakofi ka makalioni kanahusika na ukalilie nje sio hapohapo.Na hili mama yao hapaswi kuingilia

gifted mind · Jan 4, 2017

mshana org said:
ukweli nikua watoto wetu tusipowachapa pale wafapo makosa yanayostahli kuchapwa tunawaharibu.wazazi wetu ni mifano tosha kwetu kwa walivyotulea.ukimwangalia mtoto wa leo na enzi zile tunakua sisi ni tofauti sana kitabia na uwezo wa kiakili.mimi nakumbuka zamani ilikua ukitenda kosa hata huko kwenye kwenye michezo ambapo mzazi pia hakuoni unachapwa na mtu mzima yeyote aliyekuona bila kujali anakujua au hakujui umetumwa na mzazi ukapitia michezo utachapwa na mtu yeyote atakayekuona huko na ukifika hom huthubutu kusema coz utaongezewa kichapo.na kweli tulinyooka na tulikua na uwezo wa kuish maisha.ya aina yoyote nailikua ngumu kumkuta mtoto mtukutu vijijini enz hizo.leo weng wetu tumeyaacha malez hayo tunawalea kwa kuwadekeza eti.ndo kileo sijui tunategemea wakue na tabia njema?hiyo ni ndoto kwakweli tusijidanganye ukweli tunatengeneza kizazi cha nyoka huko mbeleni.zamani biint wa miaka kumi na tano hamjui mwanaume tena ukimtongoza ujipange vizur coz kwanza anaogopa akionekana itakua bonge la.tatizo hom.leo bint wa umr huo ameshatoa mimba kama tano au zaid vipi watoto wake watakuaje vipi wajukuu zake?kwakweli ndug zangu mtoto ni mtoto lazima pale anapofanya kosa umpe adhabu stahki na pia lazima uwe mtu wa kubadilika ucheke nao na kuwafundisha nalezi kwa upendo lakini akienda kinyume mpe adhabu hata badae akikaa aikumbuke ili asirudie makosa pia akuheshimu na kukuogopa pia kua nikifanya hili baba au mama akijua ni balaa.

Umenena vema mkuu lakin tatizo siku hizi uzungu mwingi na movies zinaharibu watoto
Zamani ilikuwa ngumu sana kuona baba kaka kochi moja na mwanae wa kike miaka kama 13 hv....but now ni kawaida mtoto balehe tayari bado anaguswa guswa na baba ake.NI HATARI

gifted mind · Jan 4, 2017

mwalimumzalendo1 said:
Wawadekeze tu ila wakija shule tutawachapa hatuwezi kusema nao mara mia kitu kimoja

Chapa tu but sio levo za kumuumiza

Karucee · Jan 4, 2017

Spare the rod and spoil the child.

Even the Bible says and yes, I will take the literal meaning.

annabrenda · Jan 4, 2017

Mimi nadhani tusi-ignore fimbo kabisa, bali iwe ni last punishment. Hata Holy Bible inasema mtoto mdogo anahitaji fimbo ili kuondoa ujinga kichwani. Kuna watoto ni wasikivu sana na kuna wengine kwa kweli ni lazima fimbo itumike ndio aelewe , ila fimbo zitumike kwa kiasi na kulingana na umri wa mtoto.

jerrytz · Jan 4, 2017

Naona ni kama kuwatia hofu tu wasirudie tena.
Kwa familia niliyokulia baba na mama wa nyumba hiyo walikuwa wanaongea na wewe kwanza. Adhabu ilikuwa inakuja pale utakapofanya swala ambalo hata wewe mwenyewe unaona ni la kipuuzi kabisa.
Bado pia adhabu haikuwa ya kukuumiza au kukukomoa na wala haihusishi kutopewa chakula.

Angry Bird · Jan 4, 2017

Mimi milichapwa sana nikiwa mtoto, dada na kaka zangu wamechapwa sana pia labda tusinge tandikwa ipasavyo adabu na utu vingetupita.

Na watoto wangu will not be spared, fimbo na adhabu nyingine zitawahusu.

ShyaRuwa · Jan 4, 2017

Aseee! Kumbe kuna watu waliokuzwa kama Punda?

Kwao viboko vilikuwa sawa na petrol kwa gari.

Ndo maana tunashuhudi jamii yenye mijitu katili sababu walianza kufanyiwa ukatili tangu utotoni.

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