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Kumekuwa na wimbi kubwa la wanawake wanaotamami ndoa sana na wengine kuja kutafuta waume mitandaoni wakidai ME vigezo lukuki. Bila kujua ndoa sio jambo la kukurupuka tu, ni uamuzi mgumu na tutaendelea kulaumiana bure tu kuwa sie sio waoaji.
Kuna nukuu moja yenye ujumbe maridhawa napenda tuitafakari na kuijadili nayo inasema

"Most People don't want to be part of the process, they just want to be part of the outcome. But in the process is where you figure out who's worth being part of the outcome".

Hii ni kwa wale wasioelewa uamuzi wa mtu kukuoa unachangiwa na mambo mengi tu na wote wanaoolewa kunakuaga sababu ya msingi na sio bahat au ilimradi tu.

Wadada, ni rahisi zaidi kuolewa na mtu mlietoka nae mbali kimaisha tofauti na wale wanaotaka ready made huku wamejaza vigezo kibao.
 
Wanapata shida wadada wengi Wa nataka wakute namiliki nyumba ,Gari na kazi nzuri au biashara ndio yeye atokee hapo .

Hii haiwezekani kirahisi rahisi tu na hapo ndio wanapata shida sana kuhangaika mitandaoni Siku mbili a naomba vocha Mara nauli ya kukutembelea unamwambia tu wapo wanaonitembelea bila kupewa nauli.
 
Extrovert said:
Kumekuwa na wimbi kubwa la wanawake wanaotamami ndoa sana na wengine kuja kutafuta waume mitandaoni wakidai ME vigezo lukuki. Bila kujua ndoa sio jambo la kukurupuka tu, ni uamuzi mgumu na tutaendelea kulaumiana bure tu kuwa sie sio waoaji.
Kuna nukuu moja yenye ujumbe maridhawa napenda tuitafakari na kuijadili nayo inasema

"Most People don't want to be part of the process, they just want to be part of the outcome. But in the process is where you figure out who's worth being part of the outcome".

Hii ni kwa wale wasioelewa uamuzi wa mtu kukuoa unachangiwa na mambo mengi tu na wote wanaoolewa kunakuaga sababu ya msingi na sio bahat au ilimradi tu.

Wadada, ni rahisi zaidi kuolewa na mtu mlietoka nae mbali kimaisha tofauti na wale wanaotaka ready made huku wamejaza vigezo kibao.
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naunga mkono hoja
 
Marriage is a process not a one time thing...

Mmekutana leo... Mnalishana mihogo beach... Unaulizwa utanioa lini...
 
Ndoa ni kama ncha za sumaku. Mkifanana lazima mkwepane, msipofanana lazima mvutane na mng'ang'aniane. Tatizo lipo kwenye kujua kama mnafanana au hamfanani!! Na kulijua hilo inataka muda!!
 
Ako Kwaang said:
Ndoa ni kama ncha za sumaku. Mkifanana lazima mkwepane, msipofanana lazima mvutane na mng'ang'aniane. Tatizo lipo kwenye kujua kama mnafanana au hamfanani!! Na kulijua hilo inataka muda!!
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Duh, hatari sana hapo...ila kumjua mnayeendana ni rahisi kama mpo kwenye uhusiano wa kudumu. Nadhani wanaochumbiana kwa miezi kadhaa then ndoa ndio wana tabu.
 
Jc Simba said:
Wanapata shida wadada wengi Wa nataka wakute namiliki nyumba ,Gari na kazi nzuri au biashara ndio yeye atokee hapo .

Hii haiwezekani kirahisi rahisi tu na hapo ndio wanapata shida sana kuhangaika mitandaoni Siku mbili a naomba vocha Mara nauli ya kukutembelea unamwambia tu wapo wanaonitembelea bila kupewa nauli.
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Hahaha ni bora wangejijengea nafasi mapema ili wale mafanikio pamoja na wewe ukitusua. Wengi wana vizia vizia tu ukisha hussle wee umepiga mawe wajisogeze mwishoni. Hamna mwanaume jasiri anafanya ujinga huo siku hizi.
 
Kuna demu nimemtongoza tu ananiambia nimuoe.
Nikamuuliza ss hujanijua vzr unataka ndoa? Eti hoo kama hutaki kuja nyumbani basi mm sipendi kuchezewa.
Nimemwambia aendelee kusubiri maajabu coz sio rahisi kitu hicho kutokea.
 
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