I would appreciate your advice on letting a guy know that I want to date him

I would appreciate your advice on letting a guy know that I want to date him

roselina john

roselina john

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Hello guys,
As i told you earlier i was searching for a job,now am employed with RENT A CAR company as logistic personnel, but before full contract, i have three months probation period, i had an opportunity to be under supervision of handsome guy, he is teaching me job, and am his student for three months
I'll try to be brief: I have a serous crush on this internship supervisor. Sometimes I feel that he likes me too, but of course I don't really know. He is single, and our age does not differ that much. During my internship I tried not to flirt because I am his subordinate (intern student at my new job) and I feel that is inappropriate. On top of that, I absolutely do not want him to ever think that I am flirting with him just to get a better grade. I must admit it is difficult not to flirt because I want him to know that he has caught my interest. And I am really scared that when I am done with my internship my chance, if any, with him will be gone as well.

Now my internship (probation) is coming to an end. I wish that he, if he like me too, would ask me out on a date once I am no longer his student. But I think he is a bit shy when it comes to women. So, he needs to know that I like him. ntaanzaje kumweleza thathaa
At the end of my internship I will give him a thank you gift (his favorite drink), and this would be the moment to make some sort of move! I am considering to say something like "get over here, now I have an excuse to kiss you/now I can finally kiss you", when giving the three kisses on his cheeks. Would you consider that to be a clear signal of interest? Or is it too much?

Or do you suggest I should say something more explicitly suggesting that we go on a date together? He makes me shy though, so it already feels bold to me to say that I can finally kiss him. Would you as a man dislike it if a woman asks you out on a date?

I was also thinking to craft a paper flower, and tie it to the drink - as some sort of decoration. But I guess that is not exactly an obvious sign that I like him. I have his phone number, so I could also contact him after a while to ask how he is doing and if he would like to drink a soda with me. However, I think it is better to make some sort of move when we are actually standing in front of each other.

What are your thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance for your time, nachopendea ni ushauri namuanzaje kumuonesha nampenda?
 
Just maintain the professional boundaries at least for now, act professionally (show some seriousness on every moevements/tasks you do, as a man, we like that)...things will turn naturally. In my opinions, its too early to show him you love or even him to show how he loves you.
Best of luck.
 
Don't ever make a first move to a man, let him does. Just keep on showing some cares to him, then atajiongeza
 
Sky Eclat said:
Be yourself if it was meant to be it will, just buy him a simple present as a thank you for being your supervisor. After that step back and watch his steps towards you.
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am planing on that but am too shy
 
roselina john said:
Hello guys,
As i told you earlier i was searching for a job,now am employed with RENT A CAR company as logistic personnel, but before full contract, i have three months probation period, i had an opportunity to be under supervision of handsome guy, he is teaching me job, and am his student for three months
I'll try to be brief: I have a serous crush on this internship supervisor. Sometimes I feel that he likes me too, but of course I don't really know. He is single, and our age does not differ that much. During my internship I tried not to flirt because I am his subordinate (intern student at my new job) and I feel that is inappropriate. On top of that, I absolutely do not want him to ever think that I am flirting with him just to get a better grade. I must admit it is difficult not to flirt because I want him to know that he has caught my interest. And I am really scared that when I am done with my internship my chance, if any, with him will be gone as well.

Now my internship (probation) is coming to an end. I wish that he, if he like me too, would ask me out on a date once I am no longer his student. But I think he is a bit shy when it comes to women. So, he needs to know that I like him. ntaanzaje kumweleza thathaa
At the end of my internship I will give him a thank you gift (his favorite drink), and this would be the moment to make some sort of move! I am considering to say something like "get over here, now I have an excuse to kiss you/now I can finally kiss you", when giving the three kisses on his cheeks. Would you consider that to be a clear signal of interest? Or is it too much?

Or do you suggest I should say something more explicitly suggesting that we go on a date together? He makes me shy though, so it already feels bold to me to say that I can finally kiss him. Would you as a man dislike it if a woman asks you out on a date?

I was also thinking to craft a paper flower, and tie it to the drink - as some sort of decoration. But I guess that is not exactly an obvious sign that I like him. I have his phone number, so I could also contact him after a while to ask how he is doing and if he would like to drink a soda with me. However, I think it is better to make some sort of move when we are actually standing in front of each other.

What are your thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance for your time, nachopendea ni ushauri namuanzaje kumuonesha nampenda?
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Vipi hapo kwenye red si ungemalizia tu kwa kimombo ingawa una English ya kitoto sana?

Jambo la pili hili jukwaa wengi wa wachangiaji wake hii lugha hawaimudu so ni ngumu kukuelewa.

Tatu, achananeni Na Mila Na desturi za kale, usiutese moyo wako just tell him kuwa unampenda! Mbona wazungu wanatongoza wanaume? Ila uwe tu na angalizo kuwa kumtokea kwako jamaa anaweza tafsiri unamhonga penzi ili ushinde hiyo probation yako.
 
venchwa said:
hayeyeye nyie wanawake waoga hivyo kuna wa kumface mwanaume au mnampotosha mwenzenu
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Mimi ni Mwanaume mkuu, labda kama ulikuwa unamaanisha unaogopa kuniface uniambie unanipenda kama ilivyo kawaida yenu mabinti
 
lusungo said:
Vipi hapo kwenye red si ungemalizia tu kwa kimombo ingawa una English ya kitoto sana?

Jambo la pili hili jukwaa wengi wa wachangiaji wake hii lugha hawaimudu so ni ngumu kukuelewa.

Tatu, achananeni Na Mila Na desturi za kale, usiutese moyo wako just tell him kuwa unampenda! Mbona wazungu wanatongoza wanaume? Ila uwe tu na angalizo kuwa kumtokea kwako jamaa anaweza tafsiri unamhonga penzi ili ushinde hiyo probation yako.
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ok thanx
 
Nitumie namba yako PM nikupe mistari praiveti ya jinsi ya kumwambia huyo bwege ambae hata picha haoni!!!


roselina john said:
Hello
As i told you earlier i was searching for a job,now am employed with RENT A CAR company as logistic personnel, but before full contract, i have three months probation period, i had an opportunity to be under supervision of handsome guy, he is teaching me job, and am his student for three months
I'll try to be brief: I have a serous crush on this internship supervisor. Sometimes I feel that he likes me too, but of course I don't really know. He is single, and our age does not differ that much. During my internship I tried not to flirt because I am his subordinate (intern student at my new job) and I feel that is inappropriate. On top of that, I absolutely do not want him to ever think that I am flirting with him just to get a better grade. I must admit it is difficult not to flirt because I want him to know that he has caught my interest. And I am really scared that when I am done with my internship my chance, if any, with him will be gone as well.

Now my internship (probation) is coming to an end. I wish that he, if he like me too, would ask me out on a date once I am no longer his student. But I think he is a bit shy when it comes to women. So, he needs to know that I like him. ntaanzaje kumweleza thathaa
At the end of my internship I will give him a thank you gift (his favorite drink), and this would be the moment to make some sort of move! I am considering to say something like "get over here, now I have an excuse to kiss you/now I can finally kiss you", when giving the three kisses on his cheeks. Would you consider that to be a clear signal of interest? Or is it too much?

Or do you suggest I should say something more explicitly suggesting that we go on a date together? He makes me shy though, so it already feels bold to me to say that I can finally kiss him. Would you as a man dislike it if a woman asks you out on a date?

I was also thinking to craft a paper flower, and tie it to the drink - as some sort of decoration. But I guess that is not exactly an obvious sign that I like him. I have his phone number, so I could also contact him after a while to ask how he is doing and if he would like to drink a soda with me. However, I think it is better to make some sort of move when we are actually standing in front of each other.

What are your thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance for your time, nachopendea ni ushauri namuanzaje kumuonesha nampenda?
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Sky Eclat said:
Be yourself if it was meant to be it will, just buy him a simple present as a thank you for being your supervisor. After that step back and watch his steps towards you.
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Hivi sijui wanawake wa kiafrika watabadilika lini, wenzao hawaoni aibu kukwambia ME kuwa anakupenda.
 
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