1GET TO KNOW HER. Hili ndilo la kwanza unalotakiwa kulifahamu. You have to know her like she was your own relative. Get to know what she likes, what she dislikes, what she enjoys, her favorite music, her favorite activities 2ACT ON WHAT YOU KNOW. When you know her likes and dislikes, act on them. If she likes some specific songs, memorize them and sing it when she is near. If she likes to talk about her experiences, listen to them thoroughly, and further question her about them, as it will let her know you were listening. 3TREAT HER LIKE SHE IS THE ONLY ONE. Have fun around her, be nice to her, flirt around with her(but not too much). The bottom line is make her have fun around you. Always try to make her smile or laugh. Make her feel happy to be with you. 4EARN HER TRUST.Try opening up about some funny stories that happened to you. The more you tell her about you, the more she will begin to trust you and begin telling you some of her secrets. Always listen to them and further question her about it. Over time, she will begin telling you things she has never told anyone. 5START MAKING HER MISS YOU.If she works with you and you see her everyday, consider taking a day off without her knowing. If she goes to school with you, try to be absent for just one day. In other words, be absent from what would be an everyday encounter. This way the next time you see her, she will have realized she missed you and will want to talk to you more. If you want don't look for her, this will make her look for you and come to you for a conversation. 6WAIT IT OUT. Now that she got to really know you and she has fun around you, she will begin to be around you more often. She will also give you indications for you to call her or go over to her place. Keep following the steps above and in about a week she will miss you every time you are not with her. If you get lucky, she might come to you and tell you she wants to be more than friends with you. Or if you feel its necessary, ask her to a date and tell her you wish to be more than friends with her. But the bottom line: Both will end up together.