Good communication is a key to a successful conversation/relationship

[Ngurubhe]

Nzur bt too short,nadhan kuna vitu badoooo ulitakiwa kuvianika zaid juu ya hilo

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

Nzur bt too short,nadhan kuna vitu badoooo ulitakiwa kuvianika zaid juu ya hilo

Unaweza kuongezea mkuu! 🙂

 

[mito]

Communication ya kumsifia mtu huwa rahisi sanaa, na inaishaga vizuri tu. Tatizo linakuja pale kwenye communication ya kupeana MAKAVU. Wengi kupokea ile message kunakuwa na feelings na emotion tofauti tofauti

Bora hata iwepo hiyo ya kupeana makavu live, kimbembe ni pale mnuno unapotawala, hakuna wa kuvunja ukimya daah!!

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

Bora hata iwepo hiyo ya kupeana makavu live, kimbembe ni pale mnuno unapotawala, hakuna wa kuvunja ukimya daah!!

Uhusiano madhubuti unajengwa na misingi imara!Wekeaneni misingi kwamba kama mmekwaruzana kabla siku haijapita mnasuluhisha na kuongelea suala hilo!Mimi hata nipishane na mtu leo kesho nikiamka ni mtu mwengine ya jana nshayasahau!

 

[Ablessed]

mkuu hii nzuri listen first and talk later

Wengine wanataka wasikilize na kuongea at the same time hapo sasa unashindwa kupata muafaka

 

[LoyalTzCitizen]

Tatizo jingine ni kwamba kukiwa na waongeaji wengi kuna watu wenye character ya kutake over!!Yaani wao ni waongeajii wazuri natural borns...sasa hapo usipokuwa considerate wale ambao sio waongeaji wazuri wanakuwa wanakandamizwa...au ndo inakuwa ile mtu huyu anaongea na mwengine anaongea!Ustaarabu pia ni kitu muhimu haswa ikiwa ni maongezi ya watu zaidi ya wawili!

Iliwapa shida sana wanafunzi wangu nilipokuwa nina insist kuhusu basic principles of effective communication, haswa ktk mfano wa big talker na shaper. Hakika walitaabika sana maana ilikuwa ni changamoto kubwa sana kwao, haswa katika group discussions na presentations maana kila mtu alitaka kuongea bila hata kusubiria mwengine mpaka amalize, au kusubiria yule waliye mnominate kama big talker amalize then wa take over. ni ngumu ktk nyakati fulani ila kama ikiwa ni destuli then inakuwa rahisi kuzizoea.

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

LoyalTzCitizen
Nilipokuwa mwanafunzi tulipokuwa na presentations tulikuwa tunagwana sehem za kuongea na ikitokea swali linaulizwa kuhusu kile kipande ulichokiongelea basi inakupasa wewe ujibu na kama wenzio wanaona unazubaazubaa mwengine anacover up!

!Nadhani wakati mwengine kukiwa na makubaliano na kila mtu akirespect makubaliano things work out fine!!Communication ina maana pana sana "BODY LANGUAGE" ni njia nyingine ya mawasiliano mfano kwenye nyakati kama hio unaweza kujua pia through body language kama kuna mwenzako ana interest ya kuchangia hasa kwa wale "PEP TALKERS" so unajiback up!

 

[LoyalTzCitizen]

Nilipokuwa mwanafunzi tulipokuwa na presentations tulikuwa tunagwana sehem za kuongea na ikitokea swali linaulizwa kuhusu kile kipande ulichokiongelea basi inakupasa wewe ujibu na kama wenzio wanaona unazubaazubaa mwengine anacover up!!Nadhani wakati mwengine kukiwa na makubaliano na kila mtu akirespect makubaliano things work out fine!!

Exactly!!! Naona hata system ya Tz wangeweza kuongeza hii sehemu ya skills (communication) kwa watoto wetu wadogo ili ianzie ktk elimu ya msingi. Hali si nzuri kabisa makazini na cha kusikitisha hata waliosoma wengi wana poor communication skills.:A S embarassed::A S embarassed:

 

[mito]

Uhusiano madhubuti unajengwa na misingi imara!Wekeaneni misingi kwamba kama mmekwaruzana kabla siku haijapita mnasuluhisha na kuongelea suala hilo!Mimi hata nipishane na mtu leo kesho nikiamka ni mtu mwengine ya jana nshayasahau!

mmh kuna watu wana maudhi wee!!!

 

[barafuyamoto]

Hizi communication skills zinasumbua sana hapa Tanzania. Watu wanapata shida sana ktk one at a time speaker, or speaking in turns

Wahindi wengi ni kiboko, haupati space ya kuongea kama umezoea kuongea huu mtindo wa one at a time speaker, kwa wengi wao, the louder you are the better, na ni non stop kwake!

 

[MankaM]

Pole....mfanye awe comfortable enough kukwambia mambo yake na pia timing ni muhimu!

Ni changamoto aiseeee

 

[MankaM]

Wengine wanataka wasikilize na kuongea at the same time hapo sasa unashindwa kupata muafaka

Hio sio nzuri

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

Ni changamoto aiseeee

Kwanini dia?

 

[Isumbwile]

Well said gorgeousmimi