.....Forgiveness

BAK · Apr 24, 2011

Have you ever felt that someone did something to you, something that hurt you so badly that you could never forgive them?

There is not a single person on this planet who has not suffered the inappropriate and careless actions of another.

In refusing to forgive old hurt, you live with them in the present. A part of you may wonder, "How can I forgive what they did to me?"

One thing that might change you mind is to realize that holding on to all that pain does not hurt anyone but you.

Forgiveness of the person does not simply give permission to abuse or hurt you again but about restoring your own sense of peace in order to move on with your life.

Dr Lizzy · Apr 24, 2011

Mhuuu!Ngoja nisamehe kama nnavyosamehewa siku ya leo!

golwebo_mkuu · Apr 24, 2011

as we forgive, we become free....but does forgivenes include forgetn?
nakumbuka ile wimbo, nimekusamehe lakini sitokusahau wa kalala Sr.

Michelle · Apr 24, 2011

i have managed to forgive.....i have failed to forget most of the things....it hurts me when i remember.....its complicated...!!!

Dr Lizzy · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
i have managed to forgive.....i have failed to forget most of the things....it hurts me when i remember.....its complicated...!!!

Ahhh kusahau ni ngumu sana!Binafsi hua siwezi...labda kwa muda tu!

BAK · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
i have managed to forgive.....i have failed to forget most of the things....it hurts me when i remember.....its complicated...!!!

Pole sana Michelle...It is very difficult to forget what you went through...but please try your level best to forgive 100%...It is good for your heart.

BelindaJacob · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
i have managed to forgive.....i have failed to forget most of the things....it hurts me when i remember.....its complicated...!!!

Same here..kusahau inakuwa ngumu kweli I dunno why!....How can I manage kusamehe & kusahau kabisa??hapo ndiyo shughuli na sipatagi jibu!!..
Kuna scenario zingine nashindwa/nimeshindwa kuwasamehe watu...halafu bado inaumiza nikikumbuka!!

klorokwini · Apr 24, 2011

To me I think ignoring cure much better than forgiving when it comes to struggle, but forgiveness is more spiritual and social, hence it will boost ur respect and acceptance . mwisho wa kunukuu

Michelle · Apr 24, 2011

klorokwini said:
To me I think ignoring cure much better than forgiving when it comes to struggle, but forgiveness is more spiritual and social, hence it will boost ur respect and acceptance . mwisho wa kunukuu

kazi ipo....tangu uende harvard sikuwezi Kloro....umemnukuu nani safari hii??

Michelle · Apr 24, 2011

Lizzy said:
Ahhh kusahau ni ngumu sana!Binafsi hua siwezi...labda kwa muda tu!

Lets say mtu alikubaka,unaweza sahau hilo kwa muda dearest? mi wala sitaki kujitahidi,coz nitafeli hata kabla sijaanza.....

Bubu Ataka Kusema said:
Pole sana Michelle...It is very difficult to forget what you went through...but please try your level best to forgive 100%...It is good for your heart.

I know BAK,but again,how do i forget those bitter/evil things that someone did....i can forgive 100% but i will not forget....am not sure total forgiveness includes forgetting what someone did to you!

BelindaJacob said:
Same here..kusahau inakuwa ngumu kweli I dunno why!....How can I manage kusamehe & kusahau kabisa??hapo ndiyo shughuli na sipatagi jibu!!..
Kuna scenario zingine nashindwa/nimeshindwa kuwasamehe watu...halafu bado inaumiza nikikumbuka!!

mimi mwenyewe kuna vitu sidhani kama nimesamehe...hivi ukisamehe unaweza kumbuka jambo ukalia au ukatamani ungeweza mfanya kitu yule alokutendea? maybe hata definition sijui....usiku mwema my dear friends!

klorokwini · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
kazi ipo....tangu uende harvard sikuwezi Kloro....umemnukuu nani safari hii??

huyo anaitwa Archmedes wa harare, akiongea basi bendera za zimbabwe zinashushwa nusu mlingoti. fulu name yake nimeisahau.

BAK · Apr 24, 2011

BelindaJacob said:
Same here..kusahau inakuwa ngumu kweli I dunno why!....How can I manage kusamehe & kusahau kabisa??hapo ndiyo shughuli na sipatagi jibu!!..
Kuna scenario zingine nashindwa/nimeshindwa kuwasamehe watu...halafu bado inaumiza nikikumbuka!!

Pole sana BJ...hakuna mabaya yasiyo na mwisho. Kusahau kusema kweli ni vigumu mno! lakini unaweza kujitahidi kusamehe ili kujinusuru na maumivu/machungu makubwa yanayosababishwa na yote yaliyotokea.

BAK · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
Lets say mtu alikubaka,unaweza sahau hilo kwa muda dearest? mi wala sitaki kujitahidi,coz nitafeli hata kabla sijaanza.....

mimi mwenyewe kuna vitu sidhani kama nimesamehe...hivi ukisamehe unaweza kumbuka jambo ukalia au ukatamani ungeweza mfanya kitu yule alokutendea? maybe hata definition sijui....usiku mwema my dear friends!

Michelle hayo ya kufikiria kulipiza kisasi kwa kweli hayasaidii lolote kwa sababu matokeo yake yanaweza kabisa kuwa mabaya zaidi na kuongeza machungu yako na hata kujilaumu kwa kile ulichokifanya ili kulipiza kisasi kwa hao waliokutenda kwa namna moja au nyingine. Usiku mwema.

Michelle · Apr 24, 2011

Bubu Ataka Kusema said:
Michelle hayo ya kufikiria kulipiza kisasi kwa kweli hayasaidii lolote kwa sababu matokeo yake yanaweza kabisa kuwa mabaya zaidi na kuongeza machungu yako na hata kujilaumu kwa kile ulichokifanya ili kulipiza kisasi kwa hao waliokutenda kwa namna moja au nyingine. Usiku mwema.

kufikiria sio kutenda BAK,si kwamba nataka kulipiza kisasi,ila tu kwenye fikra zangu nafikiriaga hivyo...anyway,Mungu azidi kutusaidia ukihifadhi sana ni tatizo pia....i just wish i could forget everything!

Dr Lizzy · Apr 24, 2011

Ngumu kweli dearest!Kusamehe na kusahau katika hali ya kawaida ni ngumu sana kutimiza!

nyumba kubwa · Apr 24, 2011

Huwezi kusahau kwa sababu memory ni kazi ya ubongo, unless kama haufanyi kazi yake vizuri. Kwa kweli kusahau ni ngumu kama siyo haiwezekani kabisa.

BelindaJacob said:
Same here..kusahau inakuwa ngumu kweli I dunno why!....How can I manage kusamehe & kusahau kabisa??hapo ndiyo shughuli na sipatagi jibu!!..
Kuna scenario zingine nashindwa/nimeshindwa kuwasamehe watu...halafu bado inaumiza nikikumbuka!!

Superman · Apr 24, 2011

Mkuu BAK;

Ingekuwaje kama ingekuwa hakuna kusameheana?

Dunia ingejaa vinyongo na visasi.

Katika maisha ya kiroho tunasema kuwa kabla ya kuomba msamaha wa Mungu, msamehe aliyekukosea kwanza.

Vinginevyo mbingu zisahau.

Gaga · Apr 24, 2011

I know i'm not a perfect friend,
You're broken heart, i've tried to mend.
Instead i made you hurt and cry,
Maybe i should say goodbye.
Would it be better for me to go?,
I asked you, and you said "No".
Why say no when i hurt you so bad,
But believe me,
you're not the only one that's sad.
I made my best friend hurt like mad,
If i left would you be glad?.
Deep in my heart,
I'll always know,
I'll love you always,
Even if i go!

Gaga · Apr 24, 2011

Michelle said:
i have managed to forgive.....i have failed to forget most of the things....it hurts me when i remember.....its complicated...!!!

The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. kwa hiyo uko sawa mamii sio lazima kusahau kabisa

MwanajamiiOne · Apr 24, 2011

BAK................All that I can say to this thread is that.kusamehe na uwezo wa kusamehe unategemea na mtu na mtu.......... kuna wengine hawawezi kabisa kusamehe na kuna wengine ni wepes sana kusamehe. Aksante.

.....Forgiveness

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