1. Been Excessively Jealous:
Been a little jealous is okay, its okay to be jealous because to some been jealous proves their love, but when it's in excess it becomes annoying because too much of a thing is bad. Men love women who are confident and secure, most especially 99% of real men loves women who can trust them, with a woman's trust to her man, makes him avoid cheating because if he is caught, it will be difficult to mind that trust back, so real men avoid it once their woman trust them and it makes him feel really opened up to the woman in everything and in every discussion, he tell the 100% truth because he don't want to break the trust.
Don't be jealous, insecure, this will make him think you don't trust him, it will always cause arguments and in some cases the arguments don't end well, so don't kill your relationship with jealousy, because no one enjoys bee accused. Make your man feel homely and relaxed with you, so he come not only see you as a partner but also his best friend whom he can relate to without any second thoughts.
Also try as possible to always give him space, space to hangout with friends, space to enjoy his hobby. don't be a rope to tie him down all in the name of relationship or giving time, he should also have time for himself, so you wont look boring to him or fade-up.
2. Expecting Him to Always Read Your Mind:
In Life, Women are said to be more sensitive and maybe you are also expecting the men to be the same way and understand your needs often. but truth be said, its good for men to understand a woman's need/want at some time, but its not all men that can, some men have the ability and some don't. if you want to be cuddled or massaged at a particular moment, don't magically expect the man to do so just because you think he should know, you both thinking at the moment may not be same, he may be there physically, but his mind is far and may not be able to notice or read you at that moment, some men are not mind readers. also communicate your likes and preferences, telling him you want him in bed, i'm sure he'll be happy to oblige instead of trying to figure out the reasons for your mood swings.
3. Involving A Third Party:
Involving third party is totally not necessary, be it your best friend or even your mum, try to keep your relationship issues or problems as personal as possible and avoid any type of third person to hear about it or sicking for opinions. Even when you fill the need to vent out something or some problem about the relationship, which 80% of women often do/need to do, don't involve that person so much into your relationship matters, because instead of making things better, you may end up messing it up by following some wrong relationship advice.
Even if in a situation whereby the two of you had a fight, your friend may tell you not to accept his apology, till he begs for it, and you obey her idea even thou your heart tells you otherwise, but because you have involved the third party, it means you must buy the idea, so avoid third party in your relationships at all cost.
4. Trying to Change Him:
In relationships or lets say during the dating period of a relationship, lots of women sees or spots flaws in their partner or sees things that they just dislike in the guy, but the continued in the relationship, thinking they'll change the wrong these and make him. lets say it good to try making him Mr Perfect, but they are still somethings you can't change so don't force it. This is the most of all, the common mistake ladies make in their relationships, thinking you can change his love for golf to football, or change his love for Movies to Reading, stuffs like that, this will never work because what he loves is what he enjoys doing, and you will end up always been annoyed by his preference, so try to enjoy and let him enjoy what the loves doing.
5. Not Taking Good Care of Yourself:
This is really a big issue, its well known as a common practice 85% of women do, once they seem to be in a long good moving relationship, and they kind-of feel secured that the man is much in love with her and he is in for a long run especially after marriage, the let themselves feel there's no need to shave, maintain body structure, work outs, wear nice and attractive outfits or look really good and attractive to the eye of your man like you used to do before or you use to do in the beginning of the relationships.
Women also seems to defend this point by he should love me even at my worst, for my natural look, and many more. Truth been said is, nobody is asking you to loo lie barbie 24/7, but at sometimes you look at least clean, smell nice, and look healthy, attractive and also look presentable. Because men are moved by sight, and also remember that now the relationship has been going on for quite a long time or some time, it is more or your responsibilities or more important to keep things feeling attractive and refreshing in your mans eye, so always take very good care of your see to keep your man.
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