Don't let your ex destroy your relationship or marriage.

Don't let your ex destroy your relationship or marriage.

EINSTEIN112

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One of the most delicate relationship problems is the issue of EX LOVERS.
Keeping a close contact with your EX is not advisable if you have started another relationship.

Also friendship with an EX cannot continue after marriage. Have you ever thought of why they left or behaved the way they did? The truth is that if they truly loved and missed you, they shouldn't have abandoned you or dumped you, they would have either married you or break up with you mutually.

My beloved pals, be careful how you relate with your Ex, never discuss your current relationship with your EX. It is a dangerous path to thread.

If you have started a new relationship or you are married, please keep your EX at a distance. They should please step aside while you enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage.

Now pay attention to this bitter facts, Some EX lovers are very crafty, smart, wicked, stubborn and can as well blackmail you to do his or her bidding.

They can be very desperate.
Most of them behave like something that's being controlled by AMADIOHA. Most times they can suddenly wake up, and start hunting for you under the guise of let's come back together, you are my life, ever since I left you, I haven't known peace, is the work of the Devil, I don't know what came over me, I need you back, please give me a second chance blablabla.

If you find yourself in such a situation, do not be naive to fall for his or her crap if you have found a new relationship that you are happy with or if you are already married.

EX Lovers always come with stories that touches the heart so don't give a hut. Because it can ruin your happiness the second time and forever. I have counselled a good number of single and married people who end up having affairs with their EX. To be candid, most EX wrecked their homes leaving them frustrated and in perpetual agony. Once you are caught, your relationship and marriage wouldn't be the same again.

Let me be candid with you, we are humans, and emotions don't die. It is not easy to forget an EX. Especially the ones you shared your heart, body, soul, money, time, affection, attention, love and togetherness with the person.

So the feelings you have for your EX lovers haven't died completely but for you to move on and enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage with your new partner, you need to keep your EX Lover away, restrict communications if possible and love your Man or Woman like they are the only one in the world.

Most times, you may bump into your EX Lover, you need not turn back to look twice, because if you do, you may suddenly discover that you still have hidden feelings and passions for an Ex and any mistake may trigger an affair which doesn't end peacefully.

Little wonder some Men and Women still sleep with their EX while still under a new relationship or in their husband's house.
What did you really miss in your EX?

Are you really being fair to the new person you are with.

Can't you calmly teach him or her how you like it, how you desire to be cared for, romanced, kissed, touched, smiled at and given attention all the time, can't you make it work? Why going back to your vomit?

Say no to an Ex relationship, unless you are with no one and you see genuine repentance and change in him or her, then you can give it a rethink.

Keep your EX Lover off your relationship, dating, marriage and all that has to do with your private life.

Better watch it, they always come back when you are happy, when you are about to marry and when someone has given you what they couldn't offer you which is true love.

Your EX Lover took a decision to turn his or her back on you, its his or her choice not to marry you and now that you are happily married or in a good relationship, they should leave you alone and let you enjoy your relationship, dating, courtship and matrimony.

Beware Most Ex are manipulators. Shine your eyes. You don't resolve heartbreak by having an affair with an Ex lover thereby breaking your partners heart.

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Sina uhakika kama hilo Einstein ndo jina lako halisi lakini kama ni jina lako halisi basi inaonekana watu wenye hilo jina wanapenda sana kutumia lugha ya kiingereza

Maana nina mshikaji wangu mmoja anaitwa Einstein ukichat naye ni kiingereza kwa kwenda mbele maneno ya kiswahili ataweka machache sana tena mara moja moja sana japo ni mbongo tu sema sijui jina ndo linachangia labda
 
Your good in English, grammatically the article is well organized and properly constructed.

If is you who wrote this article, i thumb up, otherwise seems you copied from somewhere and paste it here to show us that your are an experts of this language.

Hahahahaha my boss,worry out,please order 3 cool castle light beer I come to pay for it.
 
Hii lugha tam sana, laiti ungeandika kwa kiswahili kila mtu angekua kungwi umu
 
Hata mie mtu wa Mungu nliyekulia Kanisani sema nlipotea kidogo ila ndo napambana kurudi kundini
Mmhh mkuu hicho ndo cha kuombea maji kweli? Hapana nafuatiliaga sana comment zako unavyoandikaga kimombo leo nimekutana na huu uzi ndo nikaamua niseme tu

Pengine ni jina kumbe siyo lako maana kidogo nihisi ni yule jamaa yangu sema yule mlokole hanaga hizi mambo ukichat naye ni mambo ya Mungu tu na sidhani hata kama humu jf yumo
 
The reaction depends on how you two broke up, and how you treat each after each of you choose to move on.

Some people break up with you for no reason while you still have feelings for her/him and she/he starts new relation.
This has to trigger your mind that the guy lost feelings for you long time. Dont fight to bring her/him back let her/him move on and you choose your path.

But whatever reason of break up MOVE ON dont try to keep coms with her and let her enjoy the new relation.
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Dr Albert;
You EINSTEIN112 clearly didn't love her enough to fight for.
Thankfully she moved on before you could waste anymore of her time.

But this?....How could you stoop so low? If she ever meant anything to you then the least she deserved was to be told this cruel "vomit" in person not online. If you wanted to hurt her...congratulations umefanikiwa.

Let her be with someone who will always treat her well. Let the past remain as sweet memories and just let her go.
 
Your good in English, grammatically the article is well organized and properly constructed.

If is you who wrote this article, i thumb up, otherwise seems you copied from somewhere and paste it here to show us that your are an experts of this language.

Hahahahaha my boss,worry out,please order 3 cool castle light beer I come to pay for it.
This is not my article sir
 
Your good in English, grammatically the article is well organized and properly constructed.

If is you who wrote this article, i thumb up, otherwise seems you copied from somewhere and paste it here to show us that your are an experts of this language.

Hahahahaha my boss,worry out,please order 3 cool castle light beer I come to pay for it.
My broder,be careful when you want to comment in English,you made a mistake right at the beginning of your sentence.
 
You had to write"you're good or you are good,instead of "your good"
 
Lakini maddam nimekuelewa sana kwenye hili,na hii ndiyo sababu kubwa sana ya marriage wreck,kwanini hatujiulizi kama kweli tulipendana na ma-Ex wetu?kwanini kila mmoja aliondoka halafu baadae kila mtu au mmoja yuko kivulini,inakua tena hiyo takataka?

Mimi nilijaribu kuwapitia upya wote,na wakawa tayari,nikajipongeza kuwa HAWAKUWA CHAGUO SAHIHI KWANGU,kwakuwa hata ningewaoa mimi WANGEGONGWA na ma-X wao.KUJIDHALILISHA TU.

Am very expensive to just let my banana open.
 
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