BASIASI
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- Sep 20, 2010
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Dear Married (and Singles who love to learn)
0. Sometimes you just want affection, attention and everything between or that follows but not from your spouse.
1. This is not because your partner is giving you anything any less but after they have done everything, they are simply not "enough".
2. The crave for more is very real but not often admitted.
3. Well, your spouse is human and will never be enough. Even when they satisfy you, you will always turn round and want more!
4. However, cheating on them also won't cut it.
5. You are just going to be a frustrated cheat because when you are done cheating, the void continues.
6. This is why people come round cheating on the person they are cheating with.
7. Exactly why Solomon had 700 wives but still cheated on them with 300 concubines!
8. The right use of our wanting more is to explore more ways to love our one spouse.
9. The moment you begin to channel the desire for more outside your spouse, the intensity you could have built with them is lost and what you have begins to loose depth.
10. Our crave for more ought to drive us to more innovative and creative ways of enjoying the same person.
11. However, our spouse will never be God; they won't fill all our void. Only God can touch that depth.
12. So a fulfilled life is the one focused on exploring all God has put in one person for you and pursuing the God who made you.
13. If you do this, you won't have time for all the distraction of temptations.
#Think
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Your Brother,
Ocholi Okutepa
0. Sometimes you just want affection, attention and everything between or that follows but not from your spouse.
1. This is not because your partner is giving you anything any less but after they have done everything, they are simply not "enough".
2. The crave for more is very real but not often admitted.
3. Well, your spouse is human and will never be enough. Even when they satisfy you, you will always turn round and want more!
4. However, cheating on them also won't cut it.
5. You are just going to be a frustrated cheat because when you are done cheating, the void continues.
6. This is why people come round cheating on the person they are cheating with.
7. Exactly why Solomon had 700 wives but still cheated on them with 300 concubines!
8. The right use of our wanting more is to explore more ways to love our one spouse.
9. The moment you begin to channel the desire for more outside your spouse, the intensity you could have built with them is lost and what you have begins to loose depth.
10. Our crave for more ought to drive us to more innovative and creative ways of enjoying the same person.
11. However, our spouse will never be God; they won't fill all our void. Only God can touch that depth.
12. So a fulfilled life is the one focused on exploring all God has put in one person for you and pursuing the God who made you.
13. If you do this, you won't have time for all the distraction of temptations.
#Think
# copied
Your Brother,
Ocholi Okutepa
