This thread is plagued with over generalizations, unfounded and gross ones at that.
Granted, I suspect there is a percentage of women - and men to be sure- befitting the above (original post) description. But this makes the notion that "dada zetu wako hivi" ridiculous, firstly because there is no evidence provided that this is the dominant behavior, but also because there is no evidence provided that this domain is the monopoly of "dada zetu".
Unless something more palatable and concrete is provided, I may be correct in saying the subconscious mischaracterization by the travails of "mfumodume" will stop at nothing to demonize women, even when there is absolutely no justification to support the outrageous assertion forwarded.