Can this WORK?????

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

Nimekutana na mkaka online JF, tukaflirt sana PM huku tukipeana fake info about each other kwa muda kama wa miezi 8 hivi.
Alinidanganya ameoa nami nikamdanganya kuwa nimeolewa. alinidanganya ameajiriwa kumbe kajiajiri nami nikamdanganya kuwa nina kazi tofauti na ninayo ifanya, kifupi ilikuwa full usanii and we enjoyed it.

Recently, 3 weeks ago, we decided to meet in person, and have fun (sex included; najua kuhusu morals, so sihitaji ushauri kwenye hiyo angle); we had real good tym by real l mean real, (at least on my side) and l think l am starting to fall in love. He also says he feel the same way. Tuliongea mengi, including kuendeleza this relationship from casual thing to uhusiano wa boyfriend girlfriend; sasa swali langu can this real work?

Napata mashaka kwa sababu hizi hapa chini.
1. Tunakaa mbali mbali
2. Najua he is a flirt kama mimi nilivyo
3. Napenda vibaya na ndiyo maana najizuia kupenda

Labda kuna watu humu wamekuwa na similar cases, pls nishaurini/tushaurini.

This is from a friend, anaogopa akiileta mwenyewe people might starting guessing!

ndetichia · Feb 14, 2012

hili condition limeniacha hoi kidogo This is from a friend, anaogopa akiileta mwenyewe people might starting guessing!

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

ndetichia said:
hili condition limeniacha hoi kidogo This is from a friend, anaogopa akiileta mwenyewe people might starting guessing!

Bwana hiyo disclaimer siyo muhimu sana, kama opinion yako on that emerging development ya relationship kati ya hawa Online friends.

The Finest · Feb 14, 2012

It can work out depending on the seriousness, devotion, involvement and dedication of each and every one in that relationship they are about to start or on the other way way round in that relationship which they have already started...

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

The Finest said:
It can work out depending on the seriousness, devotion, involvement and dedication of each and every one in that relationship they are about to start or on the other way way round in that relationship which they have already started...

Lakini, ukichukulia the way we met; na we both know how the other person flirts around, huoni itakuwa full wivu na kutoaminiana.

AshaDii · Feb 14, 2012

Tatizo la kukutana kwenye cyber.... you can never really know the person vile ipasovo asipotaka yeye mhusika... Kwamba woote lied kua they were married, inabidi kuiangalia kwa ndani, naamini kabisa rafiki yako atakua kweli hajaolewa... but kwa mwanaume kuna uwalakini, ni rahisi kwa mwanaume kuficha kaoa kuliko mwanamke... isije ikawa kua mwanaume kapenda alicho kikuta kwa huyo dada mpaka kaamua kujifanya hajaoa baada ya kusikia the lady hajaolewa... (enways hizi ni assumption) but apart from that if kweli wamependana... they have clicked, had sex and still wote bado wahitajiana.... then they are both really Lucky na there is nothing to pull them back if they want to move forward....

The Finest · Feb 14, 2012

Kaunga said:
Lakini, ukichukulia the way we met; na we both know how the other person flirts around, huoni itakuwa full wivu na kutoaminiana.

Well it depends alipokuwa ana flirt na wewe was it intentionally au alikuwa anafanya tu ili mradi aone kitakachotokea huko mbeleni, as well when it comes to flirting hakuna kinachojificha hata kama akifanya na mtu mwingine kwa kuficha sooner or later you'll come to know.

So it's the matter of taking it slow get to know each other first and see how things go before you decide to start pressing the green button....maana umesema for those eights months walikuwa wanapeana fake information...sasa kwa eight months kupeana fake information (It's not a joke) it's something that one must be really carefully it might be for good/bad intentions lakini still they need to get to know each other very well....and i mean..very....very well

JS · Feb 14, 2012

Kaunga said:
Lakini, ukichukulia the way we met; na we both know how the other person flirts around, huoni itakuwa full wivu na kutoaminiana.

Shosti flirting ndo inayoanzisha mahusiano atii bila flirting hakuna kitu and its only natural (navyoamini mimi). usijali kuhusu hiyo we jiachie tu kama mmejikuta mnapendana. ulitumia kinga hiyo mlivyokutana????

mzabzab · Feb 14, 2012

uncanny like. sasa wajua mie naona hamna noma u guys shagged and just keep it at frenda woth benefits nothing more. not bwcoz u met on cyberapace but necoz u far away from each other. long distance dnt work. have fun and just leave it at that.

TANMO · Feb 14, 2012

Inawezekana ika work vizurii.. Well, Good luck

Nehondo · Feb 14, 2012

Enjoy while it last...have fun

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

JS said:
Shosti flirting ndo inayoanzisha mahusiano atii bila flirting hakuna kitu and its only natural (navyoamini mimi). usijali kuhusu hiyo we jiachie tu kama mmejikuta mnapendana. ulitumia kinga hiyo mlivyokutana????

Aah, nilisahau kuuliza kama walitake precaution; so l have to come clean l guess. I hope so huyo dada ni mature na responsible, so nadhani hawakuwa that careless

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

AshaDii said:
Tatizo la kukutana kwenye cyber.... you can never really know the person vile ipasovo asipotaka yeye mhusika... Kwamba woote lied kua they were married, inabidi kuiangalia kwa ndani, naamini kabisa rafiki yako atakua kweli hajaolewa... but kwa mwanaume kuna uwalakini, ni rahisi kwa mwanaume kuficha kaoa kuliko mwanamke... isije ikawa kua mwanaume kapenda alicho kikuta kwa huyo dada mpaka kaamua kujifanya hajaoa baada ya kusikia the lady hajaolewa... (enways hizi ni assumption) but apart from that if kweli wamependana... they have clicked, had sex and still wote bado wahitajiana.... then they are both really Lucky na there is nothing to pull them back if they want to move forward....

Thanks, ADii hata mimi nimemwambia asianguke kihivyo, atake it slow na bado asiamini each and every word; kama wameclick na sio a fling tu wanaweza kulast.

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

The Finest said:
Well it depends alipokuwa ana flirt na wewe was it intentionally au alikuwa anafanya tu ili mradi aone kitakachotokea huko mbeleni, as well when it comes to flirting hakuna kinachojificha hata kama akifanya na mtu mwingine kwa kuficha sooner or later you'll come to know.

So it's the matter of taking it slow get to know each other first and see how things go before you decide to start pressing the green button....maana umesema for those eights months walikuwa wanapeana fake information...sasa kwa eight months kupeana fake information (It's not a joke) it's something that one must be really carefully it might be for good/bad intentions lakini still they need to get to know each other very well....and i mean..very....very well

Lemme take my position kwanza.
I think, wote hawakuwa serious at first, na kitu kikadevelop na interest ya kukutana ikawatawala; then wali decide to meet (out of curiosity) n l guess at least my friend anaanza kufeel something otherwise asingeniomba niilete hii. You are right though huenda huyo mwanamume anaweza kuwa bado anafake.

I wish it was you, maana ungefunguka humu hopefully na kumpa your stand my friend. LOL

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

mzabzab said:
uncanny like. sasa wajua mie naona hamna noma u guys shagged and just keep it at frenda woth benefits nothing more. not bwcoz u met on cyberapace but necoz u far away from each other. long distance dnt work. have fun and just leave it at that.

Thanks, kwa ushauri mzuri; kweli hiyo kitu ya distance hata kama they are both serious ni kamtihani! Friends with benefits would suit with me, and l hope she might find it as an arrangement pia; mradi asifall kihivyo.

Kongosho · Feb 14, 2012

Go for it, mapenzi hayana formula.
Wangapi wameumizwa vibaya na wapenzi waliowafahamu tangu wakiwa watoto?
Bora u-enjoy full kuliko ku-hold on hisia zako.

We dont fall in love many times, Remember!

The Finest · Feb 14, 2012

Kaunga said:
Lemme take my position kwanza.
I think, wote hawakuwa serious at first, na kitu kikadevelop na interest ya kukutana ikawatawala; then wali decide to meet (out of curiosity) n l guess at least my friend anaanza kufeel something otherwise asingeniomba niilete hii. You are right though huenda huyo mwanamume anaweza kuwa bado anafake.

I wish it was you, maana ungefunguka humu hopefully na kumpa your stand my friend. LOL

Lol...kuna usemi unasema "Penye Nia Pana Njia" so lets hope this relationship turns out to be positive for both of them i understand she's your friend lakini kitu cha msingi cha kumwambia before they move a step ahead further they should get to know each other vizuri..and when she's satisfied she can think of another step ahead..

The Finest · Feb 14, 2012

Kaunga said:
Thanks, kwa ushauri mzuri; kweli hiyo kitu ya distance hata kama they are both serious ni kamtihani! Friends with benefits would suit with me, and l hope she might find it as an arrangement pia; mradi asifall kihivyo.

Kwanini ni mtihani?

Kaunga · Feb 14, 2012

Kongosho said:
Go for it, mapenzi hayana formula.
Wangapi wameumizwa vibaya na wapenzi waliowafahamu tangu wakiwa watoto?
Bora u-enjoy full kuliko ku-hold on hisia zako.

We dont fall in love many times, Remember!

I real like it; go for it, enjoy it when it last and dont regret later.
ila hii ina work kwa mtu ambaye hatake things seriously, bahati mbaya wadada wengi yaani sijui wana maimagination yepi ya mahusiano ndio maana huumia sana pale inapofail.

Mbu · Feb 14, 2012

Kaunga said:
Nimekutana na mkaka online JF, tukaflirt sana PM huku tukipeana fake info about each other kwa muda kama wa miezi 8 hivi.
Alinidanganya ameoa nami nikamdanganya kuwa nimeolewa. alinidanganya ameajiriwa kumbe kajiajiri nami nikamdanganya kuwa nina kazi tofauti na ninayo ifanya, kifupi ilikuwa full usanii and we enjoyed it.

Recently, 3 weeks ago, we decided to meet in person, and have fun (sex included; najua kuhusu morals, so sihitaji ushauri kwenye hiyo angle); we had real good tym by real l mean real, (at least on my side) and l think l am starting to fall in love. He also says he feel the same way. Tuliongea mengi, including kuendeleza this relationship from casual thing to uhusiano wa boyfriend girlfriend; sasa swali langu can this real work?

Napata mashaka kwa sababu hizi hapa chini.
1. Tunakaa mbali mbali
2. Najua he is a flirt kama mimi nilivyo
3. Napenda vibaya na ndiyo maana najizuia kupenda

Labda kuna watu humu wamekuwa na similar cases, pls nishaurini/tushaurini.

This is from a friend, anaogopa akiileta mwenyewe people might starting guessing!

..yes! you can make it work, ....'baby steps'...one step at a time...enjoy the fun and remove the doubts ...'za kuanguka'...

...best wishes!

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