Babe, I am afraid this was never meant to be...

King Mbappe · Oct 3, 2019

mimiks said:
She shouldn't be looking for a replacement that doesn't mean she should go back to the ex. Replacement in a way that not to look for the same things or qualities in her next man.
Every person is good in their own way, she can focus on their good parties rather than comparing ex boyfriend and the next.

I understand what you're saying, thats why I said that may be she should focus on herself first before looking for a new man.

When you jump into a new relationship you're not only bringing your private parts, you're also bringing all your insecurities and struggles.

My suggestion is she should work on handling her struggles and insecurities in a way that it wont affect the next relationship, otherwise she'll keep on getting the same results.. breakups.

mimiks · Oct 3, 2019

king mbappe said:
I understand what you're saying, thats why I said that may be she should focus on herself first before looking for a new man.

When you jump into a new relationship you're not only bringing your private parts, you're also bringing all your insecurities and struggles.

My suggestion is she should work on handling her struggles and insecurities in a way that it wont affect the next relationship, otherwise she'll keep on getting the same results.. breakups.

I get you. There is another post I advice her to let it hurt until she can no longer feel the pain she is feeling now. That is when she will be ready to take another step in the so called relationship.

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

mimiks said:
That is the worst part in moving on but you are bigger than that. You can do better and there is something good in every human being focus on that part.

Much gracias bbygirl, everything is going to be taken care of, All of them!!

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

mimiks said:
And don't try to replace him. Just search for another being not another man better than him or equally to him.
Don't ghost follow him in social media that is the most hurting part cause if you see him doing 'better' you will try so hard to be better than him and you will never be.

I got this mumie, I really got this..!! thank you so much! your energy has been appreciated.!!

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

king mbappe said:
I don't think the ultimate solution for her is to find another man.

I think the ultimate solution for her is to fix anything which makes her struggle personally.

if its body issues then she should work on that. Nobody should be afraid to date again, nobody should be afraid to expose their body, just coz their body look a certain way.

You shouldn't go back to the person you used to date just because he's used to your body and makes you feel less judged or makes you feel secure, because that would not be looking for love, that would be looking for a person who finds you bearable/acceptable/tolerable.

A new man can't fix your personal struggles.

thanks so so much King, I'm humbled for this efforts.!! yo appreciated here!!

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

cute b said:
Oooow, thank you SweetieLee. That's a nice compliment coming from you. And Amen to that.

Remember that, "sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck". So you dodged a dumb bullet and you deserve so much better sis.
I pray that you will find the happiness you deserve.

'Sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck'..!! So I've clearly understood why are we passing through some shits sometimes.!!

A heartily thank you babe, Blesses!!

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

Pacbig said:
A broken hearted girl.

Sometimes we face hard times to make us stronger.It might also be a lesson to be in touch and grab what are crucial to us before they are gone.

Get a positive move...

thank you so so much for this fully words they real mean alots to me.! Blessed up Pac..!!

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

Killmonger said:
Why do I have feeling that this is for me [emoji848]. I know how yo write “Lee”.

Haha'..!!
Why do you think so Killmonger.??

King Mbappe · Oct 3, 2019

mimiks said:
I get you. There is another post I advice her to let it hurt until she can no longer feel the pain she is feeling now. That is when she will be ready to take another step in the so called relationship.

May be that will work for her.. but something tells me she no longer feels pain.. she's just lost hope.

Carleen · Oct 3, 2019

king mbappe said:
May be that will work for her.. but something tells me she no longer feels pain.. she's just lost hope.

daamn' King.. How did you know that?? I'm no longer in pain! It's just it'll take some centuries to fall again.

Idiot Embicile · Oct 3, 2019

Nilishaacha kuumia kisa mapenzi toka nilipogundua hivi vitu vitatu.

1.I'm living for myself not for anyone.I can't be hurt by people I met them just by coincidence.

2.Every situation regardless of how bad it is, have it's positive side. Train your mind to follow positive side.

3.Life is too short you need to enjoy it as much as possible.

King Mbappe · Oct 3, 2019

SweetieLee said:
daamn' King.. How did you know that?? I'm no longer in pain! It's just it'll take some centuries to fall again.

Because you seem very happy and energetic.. and when it comes to love you just cant see anyone who fits the descriptions.

I just wish u take a year or two to focus on that little thing thats holding you back and try to fix it..

I'll b available for you if you need help.. unconditionally.

Lizarazu · Oct 4, 2019

SweetieLee said:
Haha'..
You're so sth really, but you were one of them 'once upon a time', I still don't understand what has made this abruptly change, this is nat you I swear, compliments.!? you?? Since when?.!!

Hehehe.... Young lady i just fluffed up by presumptuously making those obloquious remarks in the past that.

Pia you have to understand i have subtly retracted all the assumptions i made on you and i hope you won't sue me[emoji12][emoji12]

You don't have to be dubious about my compliments. Know that it's me and I'm being real.

cute b · Oct 4, 2019

SweetieLee said:
'Sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck'..!! So I've clearly understood why are we passing through some shits sometimes.!!

A heartily thank you babe, Blesses!!

You are welcome dear.

cute b · Oct 4, 2019

Lizarazu said:
Hehehe.... Young lady i just fluffed up by presumptuously making those obloquious remarks in the past that.

Pia you have to understand i have subtly retracted all the assumptions i made on you and i hope you won't sue me[emoji12][emoji12]

You don't have to be dubious about my compliments. Know that it's me and I'm being real.

I am sorry Lizarazu, I have a personal question to ask. Are you a lawyer? (This isn't related to the[emoji115] quoted post)

Carleen · Oct 4, 2019

Lizarazu said:
Hehehe.... Young lady i just fluffed up by presumptuously making those obloquious remarks in the past that.

Pia you have to understand i have subtly retracted all the assumptions i made on you and i hope you won't sue me[emoji12][emoji12]

You don't have to be dubious about my compliments. Know that it's me and I'm being real.

Haha, there are some things grappling hard for me to believe that miracles do still exist, I don't real doubt yo compliments, I've just surprised how in the world did that happen.?
Am real okay with you but honestly at some points you got the price to pay.!!

Carleen · Oct 4, 2019

king mbappe said:
Because you seem very happy and energetic.. and when it comes to love you just cant see anyone who fits the descriptions.

I just wish u take a year or two to focus on that little thing thats holding you back and try to fix it..

I'll b available for you if you need help.. unconditionally.

I do really appreciate your concern King.. I'm going to fix this.!! Will be there if I got sth.. Gracias..!!

Carleen · Oct 4, 2019

Idiot Embicile said:
Nilishaacha kuumia kisa mapenzi toka nilipogundua hivi vitu vitatu.

1.I'm living for myself not for anyone.I can't be hurt by people I met them just by coincidence.

2.Every situation regardless of how bad it is, have it's positive side. Train your mind to follow positive side.

3.Life is too short you need to enjoy it as much as possible.

My heartily gratitude for this one Idiot Embicile, Positivity will be my attitude, I've learnt that.!! Blessed up.!!

Siempre Hechos · Oct 4, 2019

SweetieLee said:
Bado ni mwema ila nadhani hajafanya maamuzi ya nini anachotaka bado..!!

Basi wewe ulikuwa na wajibu mkubwa sana wa kumsaidia kutambua nini anakihitaji, lakini hukumsadia" If you need something too much let it go, if it comes back then it was yours and if it doesn't it is bcoz it was never ment". Ila mimi nakuhakikishia huyu jamaa ndiye wa kwako, niamini.

Carleen · Oct 4, 2019

Johng said:
Basi wewe ulikuwa na wajibu mkubwa sana wa kumsaidia kutambua nini anakihitaji, lakini hukumsadia" If you need something too much let it go, if it comes back then it was yours and if it doesn't it is bcoz it was never ment". Ila mimi nakuhakikishia huyu jamaa ndiye wa kwako, niamini.

I tried na haikuzaa matunda, nimeshaamua kuachilia and I'm doing very fine..!! I'm no longer desperate John..!!

Babe, I am afraid this was never meant to be...

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