Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

ISO M.CodD · Aug 2, 2015

loveissweet said:
That's not true on the top lists .. Not all of them are hard to live with . Mbona they are normal people who doing their passion Job . Thanks..

This is a speculated and generalized list. What it tries to tell is that there are certain attributes found in passionate proffesionals that make them excel at their jobs but make them hard to live with.

People who read through your facial expressions and lies and deduce what you have in your mind could get very irritating. People who want and give logical and rational reasons and motives for everything and won't settle for anything less can seem to be very distant and heartless. Likewise, overly hygienic people are too paranoic. Who wants to be told the number of species of microorganisms found in the vulva when performing cunnilingus?

Unless these people are ready to let their guard down and let stuff pass they can only live with people possesing compatible attributes.

okoyoko · Aug 2, 2015

Try anal SEX, u will keep a man brenda18

nwaka.joel · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Hahah itakuwa kuna mtu ameshawahi kukukera na attitude yake just because she is educated
Its absurd,why should education change someone's personality considering that everyone is educated currently
Siwezi kuwa fake,life is too short for dramas. I keep it real✌✌

Brenda education doesn't end with only intellectual growth, it involves a well balanced mental, physical and and spiritual growth if these growths are imbalanced people develop different deficiencies in terms of wrong beliefs, stands, attitudes and so on. Therefore deviating from what was suppose to be the TRUE meaning of education. This is a common problem with most 'educated class' so it is true that in some cases this accounts for educated ladies failure to handle relationships

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Trayvess Daniel said:
dah am perfectionist type... Ts so hard to date someone, I always loose taste on people certain strains& most people who got feelings for me I don't love them back...
but one guy whom v got feelings for we are not even dating he loves me yeah but something is pushing us back do not even know what that is.

Keep being perfectionist may be is that one thing u enjoy the most"loneliness"

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
On a second thought, we may all be missing the bigger picture here. She says she's pondering to get knocked-up and become a single mother, maybe it's about a donor. And you already know you ain't to worry about CS, cuz she handles her own very well.

Wht if "she thinks" she handles herself very well??

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Am not pushing them away,it's just that they are too weak to handle me

Perhaps they are too strong to stay
How do u define a weak ma on yo perception?

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
That realistic part I think is the problem,thanks anyways

What do u real need in love?

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Asante nimekuelewa...but I don't ittend to scare them,I think there is too much to handle and they simply can't stand that

How do u treat a man in yo life brenda?

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

nyamchicha said:
lets play a little game here brenda
i am a man en we are co-workers nimeingia kwa office en tunamaongez kuhusiana mahusiano kwa ujumla lets say nimekupa my past xperience
wewe utaongea nin kuhusiana na wanaume uliokua nao kpnd cha nyuma lets start with ur first love

Dude u r genius aisee

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Red Giant said:
pengine we ndiyo unajikweza na MMED yako? hebu cheki hizi movie. far from madding crowd (2015) na pride and prejudice (2005) hata lady an the tramp. zinaweza kukufungua macho.

No offence but hata mm nimefikiria hvyo tatizo ni hiyo mmed thing
Angalia tu kwa mfano y she had to put t in this post?because of EGO,n nadhan the best way is to let t go

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Mo'Anna said:
Trayvess Daniel said:

I've not mentioned kuwa ts wrong for a woman to be able to support herself...tena ni vizuri sana tu.Ila badilisha kauli zako. Kauli zako zimejaa kujikweza sanaa.

Afu nashangaa kitu kimoja iv umekuja kuomba ushauri au kuanzisha malumbano ya hoja?Sababu km kweli unaomba ushauri ilitaliwa ukae tu usome nn watu wanakushauri thn ww mwenyewe utadigest upi wa kuuchukua upi wa kuuacha.

Kwa kifupi tu nilivyokusoma wewe ni mtu wa kujikweza sana. Hupendi kushuka chini na kusikiliza unachoambiwa...unapenda kulumbana "much know". Sasa hiyo hulka si nzuri haswa kwa mtoto wa kike.

Ukifunguliwa ktk hilo..utaweza kukaa na mwanaume.

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Nimependa sana ulichoongea dadangu
All I see the problem is altitude and nothing else

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

housegirl said:
Went through the comments. Too many stereotypes on the sexes.

wanaume hivi! waume vile.

There are different classes of men out there. There is a man who will be so attracted to your charcter.
But the typical Tanzanian man? I dont think so.

Hii mambo ya kusema uwe hivi, uwe vile, hopefully you can hold on to that new persona forever. Otherwise one day you will surely snap out of it.

Excuse me mama,do u even knw how much u have disrespected women whow are married to/dating Tanzanian men??
This kasumba of"tanzanian men type" ni ushamba wenu tu do u think wazungu they do not fu.cking care about altitudes??
The ego u have is the very same problem she has
U think u r too classy for tanzanian men but the funny thing is "sitashangaa ukiwa umeolewa with the same type,tanzanian man"
Wote walioolewa na wanaodate na watanzania ni Wajinga but U?too stupid kwakweli

mpinga shetani · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks

Age is nothing but a number.
Your problem is to crave for marriage.
Marriage is not made or arranged but occuring naturally.
If you look up to every male partner as potential husband you will fail horribly.
Treat them as friends, enjoy your single life to the fullest. The right one may just be around the corner. But don't let this be your life goal

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Trayvess Daniel said:
Mo'Anna said:

ainisha kujikweza kumetoka wapi.... and we are not arguing sababu the way umeadress statements zako kwenye quote ya kwanza ts as if being single means incompleteness ts natural to need a partner whether a man or a woman....... N don't confuse me with Brenda we are two different people am in my early 20s

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No offence but u sound like brenda

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Mademu wa hivi huwapendi because they symbolize what exactly???
At this centuary language should not be a big deal
Yani katika watu woote peke ako ndio umecomment hivyo,itakuwa ni wewe mwenye tatizo

U still sho yo ego n u said u r working on yo altitude
The guy kusema peke yake haimaanishi he is the problem,watu wametulia tu wanaangalia
So if u came with this to enjoy us well be my guest but if u real meant wht u wrote well I suggest u chek yo altitude first,ur ego will reward u with loliness

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

Pritty wa joseph said:
Katika mambo ambalo huwa pasua kichwa sana ni mapenz hasa ktk kupata Mwenza wa maisha......I got same problem......my advice is pray had, humble before God,don't loose hope God is your provider,protector and your comforter he will fight for you he see your tears keep in touch with him

Honestly ni moja ya vitu ambavyo sivikubali kabisa
Y do u have to put this on God again?
amekupa akili na utashi wa kazi gani?

rifwima · Aug 2, 2015

brenda18 said:
Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks

What do you need in a man? Find that what you need. Ikishindikana muumbe unayemtaka. Maigizo na modules za MMD kwenye mahusiano hazina nafasi though zinazasaidia kuwa realistic!
Asante!

Roger Sterling · Aug 2, 2015

gwijimimi said:
Wht if "she thinks" she handles herself very well??

Well, i figure if she ain't about a man's figures, it's b'cuz she can handle her own damages.

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

loveissweet said:
I think labda amemaanisha mkimya asieongea sana or majibu ya dharau or in short Gubu ( hopeful nimepatia hili neno ). Thanks. .

The altitude towards him

gwijimimi · Aug 2, 2015

rifwima said:
What do you need in a man? Find that what you need. Ikishindikana muumbe unayemtaka. Maigizo na modules za MMD kwenye mahusiano hazina nafasi though zinazasaidia kuwa realistic!
Asante!

Be blessed mkuu

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