Am not materialistic but I still can't keep a man

brenda18 · Jul 30, 2015

Good evening,

Am in my late 20s about completing my MMED. Ever since I got out of my first relationship with my first and d only man I have ever loved I have not been able to keep other men coming my way.

Am not really a bad person, am not even materialistic because even as an undergraduate I was working. No man I have ever dated that doesn ' t not wish to settle down with me but one thing will lead to another and there will be change in plan.

In fact am losing hope of ever getting married may be I should just get pregnant for my first love and be a single mother. Right now am single and I have been for more than a year. Please do u have any advice for me?

Thanks

The Boss · Jul 30, 2015

You must be the nagging type....or perfectionist type..

Trayvess Daniel · Jul 30, 2015

The Boss said:
You must be the nagging type....or perfectionist type..

dah am perfectionist type... Ts so hard to date someone, I always loose taste on people certain strains& most people who got feelings for me I don't love them back...
but one guy whom v got feelings for we are not even dating he loves me yeah but something is pushing us back do not even know what that is.

Roger Sterling · Jul 30, 2015

Well, you may not be materialistic as you say, and you ain't realistic either, my sister. That's where the problem is.

MBEBA MAONO KAJA · Jul 30, 2015

brenda18

Pole...kweli inatia mawazo but don't worry about your age and the like .
Kuwa na imani kuwa your perfect guy is coming on your way.
Keep on praying for your taste and choice usije mpata just yoyote ukaanza kumchoka.
Otherwise pm me for more advice.

redelymo · Jul 30, 2015

What about your attitides ..yo might not be materialistically but may be yo too much complaining or having some characteristics which push them away

KIDUDU · Jul 30, 2015

Pm me for advise plz

Sara · Jul 30, 2015

The boss said it all, your too perfect, men do not like perfect girls. Be simple, mala unaanza shati gani? Oh mbona umepaka pafyum hii!

The Boss · Jul 30, 2015

Trayvess Daniel said:
dah am perfectionist type... Ts so hard to date someone, I always loose taste on people certain strains& most people who got feelings for me I don't love them back...
but one guy whom v got feelings for we are not even dating he loves me yeah but something is pushing us back do not even know what that is.

ku fall in love kuna kuja tu naturally ...
ni kama vile ukiona a perfect house for you to live in..
unajua tu this is the house
ukiona hupati mtuujue hajatokea bado..
cc brenda18

Benny · Jul 30, 2015

brenda18

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What you looking for has been here for whole time your life is going to be totaly diferent

New destination new life start living your dream right now simply by write HI! and click send button to me

Transcend · Jul 30, 2015

KIDUDU said:
Pm me for advise plz

Kama kawaida yako Mkuu....

Hahhaaaaa..

Heaven Sent · Jul 30, 2015

brenda18 I used to think that u are in your early 20s. Anyway, being pretty, wife material, unmaterialistic etc will never keep a man, unless the man wants to be kept. May God see you through this

The Boss · Jul 30, 2015

Ukiwa desperate searching huwezi fanikiwa
let love find you...
wewe now tafuta rafiki wa ku have fun ambae mnaendana mengi
halafu acha love ikutafute

Kaunga · Jul 30, 2015

Usijifanye independent sana, mwanaume anajisikia vizuri anapogharimia hata kidogo na wewe ukiappreciate mchango wake. Pia dont be too nice utamboa maana hapati changamoto. Muoneshe ni wajibu wake kukunulia say lotion hata kama una million mia bank. Nawe mnunulie kitu kingine kama deodorants au boxer in return. Usijifanye kuwa humuhitaji financially au materially as you put it.

Kaunga · Jul 30, 2015

The Boss said:
Ukiwa desperate searching huwezi fanikiwa
let love find you...
wewe now tafuta rafiki wa ku have fun ambae mnaendana mengi
halafu acha love ikutafute

True that, lkn kama anajifanya kujitegemea zaidi atamscare away huyo aliyempata. Wanaume wameumbwa kuhitajiwa na wajisikie kweli wanahitajika

Asabaya · Jul 30, 2015

Bado Mdogo sana, tuliza Kichwa maliza masomo watakuja tuu, hawa viumbe wanaoitwa Man hata hawasumbui, Ila usijishebedue, na kumbuka hata uwe na PHD Bado wewe na Mwanamke na Mpe heshima Yake mwanamme utafurahia ....

Nyani Ngabu · Jul 30, 2015

What's your attitude like?

It could be that you need an attitude adjustment but you are too deep in denial about it.

I suggest you take some time off to do some serious soul-searching and regrouping before you embark on that journey again.

Espy_ · Jul 30, 2015

Kwahiyo humu uwanjani bila kingreza ndio basi tena!! Mweeeeh!!! Ngoja nilewe kwanza.

Roger Sterling · Jul 30, 2015

On a second thought, we may all be missing the bigger picture here. She says she's pondering to get knocked-up and become a single mother, maybe it's about a donor. And you already know you ain't to worry about CS, cuz she handles her own very well.

Al Watani · Jul 30, 2015

Kaunga said:
True that, lkn kama anajifanya kujitegemea zaidi atamscare away huyo aliyempata. Wanaume wameumbwa kuhitajiwa na wajisikie kweli wanahitajika

YOU said it right wanaume hatupendi sana too independent girls lakini pia too demanding atajua achunwa hapa, kwahiyo a girl in need naye asisumbuke kutafuta a male angel hatapata ni lazima ajue kuwa wanaume watakaomuoa ni hao hao anao interact nao na siyo hao mnaosema wanatoka kwa mungu,
lakini pia hapaswi kutafuta mume kwa kufanya utafiti hatapata kila mtu atamuona anamapungufu mengi tu nilishajaribu mimi nikachemsha kwa sababu ilikuwa kila binti unayekutana naye lazima uchunguze kila kitu mwilini mwake ndo uanze na tabia shida tupu nikafeli nikajikalia kusubiri siku ya maamuzi magumu.

lakini pia kutokuolewa asilione kuwa ni tatizo atapata stress na kuyachukia mapenzi kama ugonjwa badala yake ajitulize vizuri afanye kazi zake vizuri tu wanaume watamuona tu.

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