Am I wrong if I process divorce?

cariha · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Mbona tunasikia wanaume wasio na nguvu za kiume ndio wanapenda sana,hawana gubu na ni wavumilivu wa vituko vya mwanamke sana

Kwa hii case hapa nadhani huyo kaka ni mtombaji mzuri tu sema wanawake wanapenda kumshusha mwanaume muhuni just for the sake of it

Wanaume wasio na nguvu za kiume ni manipulative in nature hata uwakee vipi they always feel inferior na other ya kuficha madhaifu Yao ni kukufanyia psychological torture, kuwa wakali na kukuzalisha mwanamke wao, pia hutafta wanawake tofauti tofauti hata ka hakuridhishi ndani aisee.
In short ni difficult situation Wana ficha madhaifu kwa kuwa wakali na wakorofi, mwanaume Malaya na nguvu zake za kiume ni nadra kuwa na Mambo ya hovyo na kutesa mke kihisia loh.

Demi · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Wanawake wa 40's mna nyege kama sijui ndio mnabalehe ***** zenu

Kuna vitu mnamezaga nini?

Hapana mkuu, ndivyo tulivyoumbwa

Kapeace · Jul 9, 2021

Saint Anne said:
Ni kwa sababu ulinihusisha kwenye comment yako.
Nilishaacha lakini naona umening'ang'ania mno kwenye comments zako.

Itakuwa vema ukaendelea na mengine pasi na kunihusisha Mimi.

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cariha · Jul 9, 2021

jje's said:
hakika, hatuna sababu ya kujitesa kuna mkuu huku aliniambia tutafute hela zetu tutakuwa huru,,,tunaogopa sana kwa sababu ya security ya maisha yetu tutaishije,,kwani kabla yao tulikuwa hatuishi? cha msingi tupendane bhana

Security kwa mwanamke ni kila kitu, pia kinachotesa watu wengi wanaogopa jamii watachekwa kuachana, matokeo Wana vumilia mateso Hadi wanapata maradhi

TheCrocodile · Jul 9, 2021

Will jr said:
Mkuu kwanza

Hapa kila

Wyatt Mathewson said:
At the meantime baba zenu walikua wanawachapa for breakfast,lunch and dinner na mlikua hamuongei lolote

Leo ukubwani conflicts kwa watu wazima wawili ni inevitable na mwenye nguvu anampiga asie na nguvu,sidhani kama ni sawa kuchukulia kupigana ni issue ya kufanya uvunje nyumba kabisa uondoke

Maana kugombana ni inevitable,ni lazima....Hata huko unakoenda utagombana na watu tu,utavunja nyumba tena?

Hoja ya kuvunja nyumba sababu ya ugomvi hapo ndio inapokosaga nguvu

Kupigana hadi mmoja kuzimia na kulazwa several days hospitali kumbe ni kawaida?
Okaay, seems tuna exposure tofauti. Kwangu mimi kwa kweli hakuna ukawaida katika mtu mzima mmoja kumpiga mwenzake hadi kumsababishia kuzimia na kulazwa hospitali for several days. If that is normal as per your exposure, thats ok, its just my lack of exposure.
Akili yangu inapata shida sana kuprocess na kuelewa how can that be normal.
Kwamba kila baada ya miezi kadhaa mtu anatiwa nakoz na mumewe hadi analazwa, nikitoa povu baada ya kusikia hilo, someone is trying to convince me that is normal.

cocastic · Jul 9, 2021

atlas copco said:
Huyo alieoa shoga nae ana moyo aiseee[emoji53][emoji53]

Tena wa nyama unao chucha damu, relaaaaaaax. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

cariha · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Mbona wanasema hakunaga mtu ana "change"

Ni kwamba baada ya sometime vile vitu ulikua huvionagi tatizo wakati upendo upo juu,unaanza kuviona ni tatizo baada ya upendo kuanza kushuka,ila vilikuwepo tangu mwanzo tu

Hahahahaa

Ujue watu wengi during relationship huwa Wana fake hawako real Sasa mkianza kukaa pamoja ndo wajua true color ya partner wako, pia wengi huanza kuishi kimazoea na wenzi wao hapo ndo shida inapoanza, na ikitokea mmoja ameanza kuchepuka amani hupotea kabisa na ka mwanaume ukijua mumeo mhuni hamu naye inaisha ndio maana wanawake wengi huwanyima wanaume tendo Hilo.

Kyokola · Jul 9, 2021

sindumwe said:
Umeona eee kipi bora kula raha kwa siri au kuvunja ndoa?

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cariha · Jul 9, 2021

jje's said:
kumbe una duu nje eeeeh nimekusikia mkuu

hahahahah loooh this is the Friday and good Friday to start a weekend.

maradhi ama kifo kabisa unaacha malaika za Mungu uliopewa kwa neema tu...tuwe tunafikiria maisha yetu na wanetu jamani ikifika hiyo hatua

what I know kuishi single is not good/healthy but ikifika hiyo hatua staying alone with the kids is the best option.

Yani Mimi huwa naomba Mungu anipe uvumilvu hata robo maana dah, sipendi kero za binadamu mwenzangu aninyime furaha maisha yenyewe mafupi Tena Niko na watoto kabisa naweza kulipa bills wooi nasepa asubuhi aisee, Sasa ka huyu mleta mada huo uvumilvu wake kah

jje's · Jul 9, 2021

cariha said:
Yani Mimi huwa naomba Mungu anipe uvumilvu hata robo maana dah, sipendi kero za binadamu mwenzangu aninyime furaha maisha yenyewe mafupi Tena Niko na watoto kabisa naweza kulipa bills wooi nasepa asubuhi aisee, Sasa ka huyu mleta mada huo uvumilvu wake kah

umepittiiza aiseee ila through hizi msgs najua ana unafuu kwenye roho yake na maamuzi ni yake

Demi · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Cha ajabu muda huo waume zenu ndio wanatomba vitoto vibichi

I wonder ndio mnakimbilia hizo "other means"?

Nyie wanawake ni hatari aiseee...mnaenda nunua machines kabisa?

Holy shittttt!

Kama nyie other means ni vitoto vibichi unataka sie tubweteke tukilia? Nje tutato.mbwaa.a, mashine tutanunua, ikibidi tutakoboana. Maisha ndo haya haya mkuu

Demi · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
"other means"...nyie wanawake ni evils aiseee

Ni kweli, na nyie ni saints

cocastic · Jul 9, 2021

Demi said:
Kama nyie other means ni vitoto vibichi unataka sie tubweteke tukilia? Nje tutato.mbwaa.a, mashine tutanunua, ikibidi tutakoboana. Maisha ndo haya haya mkuu

Hujawahi niangusha yaaan. Bravooh

Demi · Jul 9, 2021

cocastic said:
Hujawahi niangusha yaaan. Bravooh

Hawa wenzetu wabinafsi sana

TheCrocodile · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Mkuu

Naona unataka kutudanganya pahala hapa...

Wewe ulipokua 18,ulikua unachapwa na baba yako at will na unalia kama mtoto

Ulipokua 18 and above ulikua unagombana na siblings wako nyumbani na mnapigana mpaka mwenye nguvu anamshinda mwenzake na mnavunja vitu nyumbani,etc

Hivyo ndio tabia ya wanyama na binadamu ni mmojawapo

Ila huko kooote hukuongea lolote,leo inatokea hii maana ni wanadamu walewale eti unajifanya eti ni strange wakati ndio tabia original za wanadamu.

Leo mtu anakupiga mpaka unalazwa hospitali sababu umejifanya kushindana nguvu na mwenye nguvu..unge-lay down isingetokea

Formula ni kwamba mwenye nguvu anampiga asie na nguvu baada ya asie na nguvu kumchokoza mwenye nguvu..Kipigo kitakua kikubwa zaidi au for a longer duration iwapo asie na nguvu ataleta upinzani zaidi...

Ukipigwa kofi na mwenye nguvu nyamaza yaishe..usimletee upinzani eti na wewe unajifanya unajua mabavu...

Hiki ndio wanawake wa siku hizi hawakijui,hii ndio psychology of conflicts between men

Kumbe u are working on assumptions:
Sijawahi kuchapwa na mzazi au mwalimu wakati wote wa malezi yangu na elimu, pia sijawahi kuona baba yangu na mama yangu wanapigana nakoz throughout malezi yangu hadi naondoka nyumbani.
Vitu vingine uliza kwanza before you jump to conclusions.

cariha · Jul 9, 2021

jje's said:
umepittiiza aiseee ila through hizi msgs najua ana unafuu kwenye roho yake na maamuzi ni yake

Ni shida tu my dear we differ

Demi · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Sisi tunapiga pussy vitu natural....shida ni nyie na machines aisee....thats cold as fvck!

We umejuaje ni cold? 🙄

cariha · Jul 9, 2021

Wyatt Mathewson said:
Lakini Cariha sio rahisi kama unavyosema

Hiyo "furaha" unayosema bwana sio kweli maana kuishi kwa upweke the rest of your life is scarier than kuishi na mtu mnaepashana nae joto ngumi mara kadhaa kwa mwaka

Na pia minimum requirement ya mtu kumuacha mtu haijulikani na ngumu kuijua which makes what you are saying really illogical

Yani honestly I don't expect someone to give me happiness,my happyness ni internal zaidi kuliko extrnal so why kuvumilia mtu asiyeniheshimu na anaye breach our agreement, na Raha najipa mwenyewe ziko other means nyingi Mimi mtu anayenikera huwa hamu naye Sina kabisa Bora nitafte other means kabisa au nisifamye kabisa Hadi kufa wallah. Na principle Kali Sana Yani loh

MAMESHO · Jul 9, 2021

1.Aisee linda sana afya yako. Siajfurahiwa na ukatili na vipigo. Nimeakia cases zisizo nzuri za hivyo tena kama ana silaha ni hatari sana.
2. Kama ana makando kando atakuletea ugonjwa. Linda sana maisha yako nyakati hizi za magonjwa ya kila namna.
3. Usiwe na heshima hata kidogo kwa mtu ambaye hana heshima kwako na kwa ndugu zako utakuwa victim.
4. Ondoa mtazamo jamii itakufikiriaje ukiachana nae. Maana utakuwa unaugulia maumivu ndani pasipo kuwa na furaha maishani mwako. Jipatie uhuru wako kamili.

MAMESHO · Jul 9, 2021

cariha said:
Yani honestly I don't expect someone to give me happiness,my happyness ni internal zaidi kuliko extrnal so why kuvumilia mtu asiyeniheshimu na anaye breach our agreement, na Raha najipa mwenyewe ziko other means nyingi Mimi mtu anayenikera huwa hamu naye Sina kabisa Bora nitafte other means kabisa au nisifamye kabisa Hadi kufa wallah. Na principle Kali Sana Yani loh

Eeeeh! Swali la kizushi. Are you single?

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