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I was having a conversation with my little cousin, she’s 23.
She asked me “why does a woman’s past matter ?”
I asked her “Tell me one thing that’s exciting about a woman’s future, that benefits a man ?”
It’s been 3 days now, still no answer.
I didn’t ask for one thing that’s exciting about a woman’s future, that benefits the woman.
Or benefits her kids, or siblings, or society at large.
I asked for one thing that’s “exciting” about her “future” that “benefits” a “man”.
Keywords: Exciting, Benefits, future, Man.
Doesn’t matter if the woman gets rich later in life, women don’t want to take care of men financially.
So that’s useless.
Statistically, a woman making more money increases the likelihood of divorce.
No quality man is hoping his woman gets rich, so she can take care of him.
She also wouldn’t get hotter in the future, which as we all know, men value looks.
No man looks at a 24 year old woman and goes, “I can’t wait to see her at 38”.
It’s unfortunate, but it’s truth.
Time doesn’t really favor women from an “attraction” standpoint.
Most times, when we see girls we liked from 10 years ago, we start wondering what the f*ck we were thinking.
For a man though, it’s completely different.
There are lots of things about a man’s future that benefit women. Our value lies in our future.
A man’s future accomplishments is directly connected to the lifestyle that a woman is going to have while being with him.
It’s an indicator of long-term security.
Which women value, even when they have their own money and can be self-sufficient.
Hence why women don’t care about a man’s past as much.
Our value lies in our future.
A man’s future accomplishments is directly connected to the lifestyle that a woman is going to have while being with him.
It’s an indicator of long-term security.
Which women value, even when they have their own money and can be self-sufficient.
A 25 year old man with potential, is different from a 25 year old woman with potential, from an attraction standpoint.
Women look at him & wonder what he’ll be in the next 10 years
& imagine how that could provide them with long term security.
There’s a lot to look forward to.
The 25 year old woman could become a millionaire in 10 years.
And there won’t be any real benefits for a man who is with her.
Except he’s broke.
And in that case, the relationship will be at a risk.
Because the probability of divorce goes up if the women out earns the man.
So until there are real benefits in a woman’s future, for a man.
We will always be more invested in her past.
Deal with it.
And before you say “misogyny” under this.
Make sure you can answer the question in the first tweet.
If you can’t, just continue with your day.
Dedication.
I would like to dedicate this piece of work to my love, the queen of my heart Mzigua90 and my beloved shem Shunie. Much love from Boston to y'all.
Spread love.
She asked me “why does a woman’s past matter ?”
I asked her “Tell me one thing that’s exciting about a woman’s future, that benefits a man ?”
It’s been 3 days now, still no answer.
I didn’t ask for one thing that’s exciting about a woman’s future, that benefits the woman.
Or benefits her kids, or siblings, or society at large.
I asked for one thing that’s “exciting” about her “future” that “benefits” a “man”.
Keywords: Exciting, Benefits, future, Man.
Doesn’t matter if the woman gets rich later in life, women don’t want to take care of men financially.
So that’s useless.
Statistically, a woman making more money increases the likelihood of divorce.
No quality man is hoping his woman gets rich, so she can take care of him.
She also wouldn’t get hotter in the future, which as we all know, men value looks.
No man looks at a 24 year old woman and goes, “I can’t wait to see her at 38”.
It’s unfortunate, but it’s truth.
Time doesn’t really favor women from an “attraction” standpoint.
Most times, when we see girls we liked from 10 years ago, we start wondering what the f*ck we were thinking.
For a man though, it’s completely different.
There are lots of things about a man’s future that benefit women. Our value lies in our future.
A man’s future accomplishments is directly connected to the lifestyle that a woman is going to have while being with him.
It’s an indicator of long-term security.
Which women value, even when they have their own money and can be self-sufficient.
Hence why women don’t care about a man’s past as much.
Our value lies in our future.
A man’s future accomplishments is directly connected to the lifestyle that a woman is going to have while being with him.
It’s an indicator of long-term security.
Which women value, even when they have their own money and can be self-sufficient.
A 25 year old man with potential, is different from a 25 year old woman with potential, from an attraction standpoint.
Women look at him & wonder what he’ll be in the next 10 years
& imagine how that could provide them with long term security.
There’s a lot to look forward to.
The 25 year old woman could become a millionaire in 10 years.
And there won’t be any real benefits for a man who is with her.
Except he’s broke.
And in that case, the relationship will be at a risk.
Because the probability of divorce goes up if the women out earns the man.
So until there are real benefits in a woman’s future, for a man.
We will always be more invested in her past.
Deal with it.
And before you say “misogyny” under this.
Make sure you can answer the question in the first tweet.
If you can’t, just continue with your day.
Dedication.
I would like to dedicate this piece of work to my love, the queen of my heart Mzigua90 and my beloved shem Shunie. Much love from Boston to y'all.
Spread love.
