Pdidy
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- Nov 22, 2007
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FIFTEEN WRONG MINDSET ABOUT RELATIONSHIP!
It's so true that many are victims of wrong mindset. Many already have some fallacious believe due to their experience or the environment they grew up about relationship and marriage. Wrong mindset will lead to wrong marriage.
1. Abusive relationship is inevitable!
Some already believe you cannot be in a relationship without the man beating the lady or the lady verbally abusing the man due to their past experience with their parents or people. This is not biblical and godly in any form. Abuse is not love. Abuse is not spirituality. I have seen several marriages of more than 20 years that's not abusive.
2. You must have multiple relationship before you settle down.
We have seen thousands who never went into two relationships before getting married. Jumping from one relationship to another is not spirituality or virtue. Experiencing multiple and frequent heartbreak is not fruit of the spirit.
3. All men are evil maybe because her ex, father or brother is evil. This is not biblical and spiritual.
4. All women are evil maybe because his ex, mother or sisters is evil. I believe some women who are evil while some are very good. Don't generalize!
5. All men or women cheat.
I have seen several marriages of more than 20 years in which neither the wife nor the husband has ever cheated. A spiritual and watchful woman or man cannot cheat! A cheat in a relationship will be a cheat in marriage. I have never cheated in a relationship. I know many men and women who has never cheated in a relationship.
6. A relationship cannot survive without sex or romance. I have seen several people who have their first Kiss and sex on wedding night. Do not fall for the gimmick of the devil. Sex is not love. Romance is not love. If sex or romance is Love, prostitute would be the most loving on earth.
7. Only men are to provide for the family.
Some sisters already believe his money is our money while her money is not for the famil
It's so true that many are victims of wrong mindset. Many already have some fallacious believe due to their experience or the environment they grew up about relationship and marriage. Wrong mindset will lead to wrong marriage.
1. Abusive relationship is inevitable!
Some already believe you cannot be in a relationship without the man beating the lady or the lady verbally abusing the man due to their past experience with their parents or people. This is not biblical and godly in any form. Abuse is not love. Abuse is not spirituality. I have seen several marriages of more than 20 years that's not abusive.
2. You must have multiple relationship before you settle down.
We have seen thousands who never went into two relationships before getting married. Jumping from one relationship to another is not spirituality or virtue. Experiencing multiple and frequent heartbreak is not fruit of the spirit.
3. All men are evil maybe because her ex, father or brother is evil. This is not biblical and spiritual.
4. All women are evil maybe because his ex, mother or sisters is evil. I believe some women who are evil while some are very good. Don't generalize!
5. All men or women cheat.
I have seen several marriages of more than 20 years in which neither the wife nor the husband has ever cheated. A spiritual and watchful woman or man cannot cheat! A cheat in a relationship will be a cheat in marriage. I have never cheated in a relationship. I know many men and women who has never cheated in a relationship.
6. A relationship cannot survive without sex or romance. I have seen several people who have their first Kiss and sex on wedding night. Do not fall for the gimmick of the devil. Sex is not love. Romance is not love. If sex or romance is Love, prostitute would be the most loving on earth.
7. Only men are to provide for the family.
Some sisters already believe his money is our money while her money is not for the famil
